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The first femdom novel, Venus in Furs featured cuckoldry. For many men being cuckolded is the supreme submissive fantasy. But some of those who get to live it divorce their wives. Or their wives leave them. If the lore that women are better and finer creatures is it any surprise that many would have no desire to pursue this? The trauma is too awful. How do you feel about female led infidelity? Originally posted 2008-05-06 19:42:20. Female Led Cuckoldry By Apollinaire There is an old maxim: One can not embrace fire without being burned. Forced Jealousy is the act of forcing the male to endure the sting of that fire, indefinitely or permanently. (i.e. To want, desire and lust for what he can not have.) This can be small things like having orgasms while reminding the male that he can’t (some authorities claim the woman’s orgasm is only one one-hundredth as debilitating as the males ejaculation [1/100].), enjoying leisure while putting the male to work, in short anything that impresses upon the male the unjustness of his predicament. He must have “that’s not fair” written all over his being and at the same time the meekness to still submit to the whims of his woman. Sympathize with him, “Oh, you poor baby.”, while not bending an inch to accommodate his pitiful whining. This sympathy will keep the male in line, willing to endure the emotional torture. The best example of this is when the woman has sex with another man in front of the male. She rubs it in his face, reminding him that he is not permitted to have intercourse with her, that he is not even permitted to have orgasms. Enjoying watching the male frantically struggle to cope with his insecurities, the woman forces jealousy down his throat like so much bitter medicine. I think, partly, the desire for this comes from a past history that has left the male emotionally numb. He is simply seeking anything that can elicit a strong emotional response. Another aspect is the sense of sacrifice the male enjoys, even takes pride in. The submale somehow rationalizes that the woman’s pleasure will be enhanced by his being diminished. Every good submale wants to please, and if his woman needs a good hard fuck, then he will have to learn to like seeing it done. (ha, ha) In this particular aspect there are also Oedipus complex overtones, only the woman (mother) stifles the hostility of the submale toward the other male (father). Another opportunity for her to demonstrate her control over the male (sonnyboy). Reading on the web, comments on this site and others and the visitor stats from my assorted sites show me:
When you dream of your wife cheating on you – hmm, not sure consensual cuckoldry really could be called cheating – you claim to want:
Originally posted 2008-03-18 17:30:30. Cuckoldry Is a F/m Retish If you are a conventional wife (girlfriend) and your husband (boyfriend) as begged you to cheat on him and have sex with another many and you are confused and horrified you might find the following useful for context. Cuckolding among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding in that many of these men are voluntarily “cuckolded” by their wives, sometimes as part of the husband’s sexual fantasy and sometimes because they gain genuine sexual arousal through being humiliated by his wife being better sexually fulfilled with a potentially superior male. In some cases the husband may instigate and nurture his wife’s sexual infidelity. The husband usually finds pleasure through that of his wife (or what he perceives to be her pleasure), and they (the wife and extra-marital participant) may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment, usually while masturbating or involving himself in some sexual act with his wife during their activity. Some less-common themes might include grooming his wife for her “date”, homemaking, or oral sex following the conclusion of sex with the other man. When this oral sex follows ejaculation, it is termed a creampie or cleaning up. You can find additional information at Wikipedia: Cuckold. It has been ages since I first ran across the First Church of Female Supremacy aka the Cybelians. A cult – of sorts – pushing female led marriages. Among the cult’s dogmas are these mandatory aspects of Cybelian marriage.
When I first discovered them the Cybelians seemed humorlessly fanatical about the piss business. It was like sharing bread and wine are for Christians. They’ve also come to push sissyfication and cuckoldry.
Aside from the marriage manual there’s a host of ebooks for sale. Topics include ancient secrets known only to the Cybelian elite, golden showers, extreme female domination. I’ve always thought that the church and its messy interlocking set of websites exist to lure in the most sexually frustrated of men. Lonely submissive men make easy targets. The name comes from the ancient cult Cybele: religious ecstatics who castrated themselves. Ancient castration device on the right. Originally posted 2009-01-17 14:18:08. Feminized Cuckolded Slave Husband One man’s account of fellating a soap dildo: My wife mistress has perfected her mouthsoaping technique. When I am guilty of verbal disobedience in the form of swearing, ignoring her, chauvinism etc. she orders me to appear in the bathroom in my maids uniform. I must bring the dildo that I carved from a large bar of soap. It is the same size and shape of her hung lover Charles who often visits our house to make love to her and help punish and humiliate me. I wear my maids uniform as a symbol of subservience. I must suck the dildo like a fag while she verbally scolds me. Usually she alternately inserts the soap dildo in my mouth and ass. I have to wiggle my ass like a whore and tell her how much I love receiving anal sex and sucking cock. It is worse when Charles is there to watch and laugh. Usually she lets me jack off during a soaping when the soap dildo is in my ass up against my prostate. She knows how much I love this. She enjoys boasting to her friends and lovers that I am never allow to come except by a manual self jackoff or cocksucking with another male slave. She also can boast that she has spanked me at least once a month since our wedding. Always on the bare and I am always put in helpless bondage when I receive a spanking. That way she controls the severity of punishment.
Jinxypie is a cuckoldress I discovered via my Twitter feed. Cukoldry holds no appeal for me. But I know it does for many men who long for a female led relationship. Many of these guys regard being cuckolded as the supreme form of submission. Seeing this entry of Jinxypie’s on cuckoldry I thought I’d point it out to those of you who do want their wives to have sex with another man.
Jinxypie’s entire entry: Nag, nag, nag … Originally posted 2010-09-04 07:58:22.
The reader of one of my other blogs wrote to share the one true way of practicing cuckoldry. I’d have to credit him with coming up with some of the silliest and most foolish Femdom nonsense I’ve ever read. The Mistress-Wife would stop taking birth control medication. Since she is continually serviced by a series of bulls the result would serial pregnancy. The goal of this scenario is to force the submissive husband to support children that he didn’t sire and to drive him into poverty. The man’s wacked-out vision neglects to consider that the woman may not want perpetual pregnancy or poverty. Originally posted 2009-02-02 15:30:14. (Note: Over the years I’ve heard from men desperate to the point of craziness to be cuckolded. I’m very skeptical because I don’t think many relationships can really handle the unique stresses. But if this is either your need or fantasy you should read the words of a woman who has achieved this with the man she married. Read the excerpts, buy the book. – I don’t get two cents out of this.) Cuckold Letters by Vanessa Chaland: A collection of e-mails exchanged with a man who would become my cuckold husband. My interest in a twisted fantasy becomes a journey to becoming a dominant wife. {Excerpt}…You don’t have to think about what to say and do and feel, I’ve decided for you. M is going to do me with that perfect rod for so long, and you know I will be sore and red and swollen. Your mouth will feel so soft and nice on my me after a good lay by such a man. Also, when his potent sperm is spilled across me, you’ll have little time to be sure that M’s seed doesn’t gain access to me. His creamy sperm mustn’t reach my pussy, for it would surely impregnate me. We can’t have that….. You have to clean it up…….. {Excerpt}…I really don’t see what the problem could be. You want my lover to keep coming and enjoying himself, right? I want to make myself look pretty for my new lover, and keep him coming back to stuff his HUGE self into me. It’s no different than when I do anything else for him before a date. I shower for him. I shave my legs, for him. I do a bit more with my hair…..for him. It’s all for a purpose. The more I turn on my lover, the more excited he gets, ultimately, the more mess for you to deal with. I enjoy humiliating you cocky, and so the more sperm milked from my lovers means all the more time I will have to treat you like the cuckold husband you are. All giving me pleasure at your expense. So, you have to admit, it’s all done for you too. You should be happy I trimmed my hair for him. You should be happy I will give you the opportunity to experience my me with all 5 of your senses, up close, after being filled by a superior man. Tonight, you will get that privilege again. … {Excerpt}…It’s only fair that I inform you of what I expect from you during the wedding and the honeymoon, because I do have specific plans, and instructions for you. All of this is just to establish firmly from the start what your role is as my husband, my faithful cuckold. To prepare for our honeymoon, you will be expected to make the arrangements. You will book us for a hotel suite, you know, where we occupy 2 rooms, and there is a door connecting the 2 rooms inside. You will need to book this kind of room so that I can continue cuckolding you when I like throughout our honeymoon. Cuckold Letters (Physical book) Cuckold Letters (E-book – you can download Kindle software for your PC or smartphone.) Anneli Rufus writes:
The Daily Beast: The Intellectual Sex Fetish A cuckold by choice interviewed makes an unlikely claim: Cuckoldry is “truly intellectual in its enterprise because it replaces sexual touch with humiliation and emotional pain, both of which are psychological.” This reminds me of the ProDomme’s claim that their customers are all rich and powerful. I’m an emotional masochist myself. It isn’t because I’m a bright guy. Anyone surveying the fetish dating and personal ads sites sees plenty of dimwits and dunces just begging to be humiliated. Saying cuckoldry is for smart men is special pleading. Originally posted 2010-08-05 12:37:02. |
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