Part of something that I wrote elsewhere.
Your husband - or boyfriend - has confessed to you that he wants you to lock his penis up in a CB6000 or other male chastity device.
You are shocked. What is wrong with the man? Are you in love with a sick pervert?
The whole thing can be read here: Is My Husband A Pervert?
(MyBlogLog shows this to be the most popular page on this site.)
Ideally a female supremacist wife who keeps your cock locked up in a CB6000 when is isn’t ruining your wife.
That is what the recent Google search stats suggest many hoping to find here.
Ruined orgasms if I remember what I’ve read involve masturbation where the pressure of the hand is removed just prior to ejaculation diminishing the thrill. Sounds like an esoteric art to me but certainly deliciously cruel in intent. Though some may regard forced orgasmless ejaculation using a device like the Aneros prostate massage something nearly the same.
There’s also another kind of milking that is rather the opposite of the ruined orgasm. Forcing a man to masturbate repeatedly – or perhaps masturbating him – until his penis begins to hurt. Another interesting form of erotic torment.
Oh, the mighty phallus: please it, confine it, hurt it – funny how it is so often the center of attention.
(I’m not one to argue with what people are searching Google for.)
Which is more sadistic: plain enforced chastity or ruined orgasms.
Enforced chastity simple means that you aren’t allowed to have an orgasm (which may or may not include orgasmless ejaculation via prostate massage, aka, male milking).
Or …
Ruined orgasms: a man is brought to the initial stage of orgasm but in such a way that it isn’t satisfying. I think the most common technique I’ve seen described is to remove the pressure and friction on the penis the moment the orgasm begins. So the neurological thrill is minimal.
Which is more sadistic?
That a man should be subjected to complete and total orgasm denial is one of those funny little things you sometimes run across. Particularly in the out of control comments some men leave on LFA / FLR blogs.
Funny isn’t it how the image never, ever being allowed to orgasm excites some guys. A sure sign that someone’s fantasies are out of control. They doubtlessly wank at the prospect of being forbidden to wank.
Much, much more rarely – professional online dominatrices aside – to you see women advocate doing this to men.
People who practice sanity-aware consensual orgasm denial in real life often note that when taken too far chastity becomes boring. Often instead of creating the suffering hunger men imagine it causes the male sex drive to flatline, to die.
The chastity game becomes pointless and boring.
So wank to permanent orgasm denial if you enjoy it. But never forget that in a real relationship it is just a plain nutty idea.
Female led discussions of male chastity regimens of assert that a man who is denied orgasms is in some way a better man.
Some report that post-orgasm a supposedly submissive male will become rude or lazy.
Bad behavior after an orgasm is probably stealth or even unconscious topping from the bottom. It insures that he will be returned to enforced chastity, which he really desires.
But that desire is likely driven by the wish to feel her authority over him. And the intimacy of wearing a - CB6000 say - is a tangible form of control.
Enforced male chastity regimens sometimes but not always include a male chastity device like the Curve, CB6000 and other more obscure and expensive
Some, adopting a purist stance, claim that is a man requires a
It assumes there’s a litmus test for a quality known as true submission. That there is one way and no other way for a man to surrender to the loving female authority of his girlfriend, mistress or wife.
Many of these devices are not really inescapable. Even though he might be able to get out of it some men are probably able to practice self-denial only with the aid of a
Some men treasure a
Baldly: there are men who need penis bondage to help them eroticize the experience. Without it the experience can become flat, dull: boring and lose all value. And they enjoy the reward / punishment games that determine when the
Wearing a male chastity device is not sign of failure or insincerity. Rejecting the psychology of the individual man is foolish at best.
Male Milking: massaging a man’s prostate gland forcing him to ejaculate without an orgasm. This helps insure the male’s prostate health is maintained during long periods of enforced chastity. Forcing him to cum without actual sexual release is another technique for maintaining his humility.
If your wife doesn’t want to lock your penis up in a CB6000 wouldn’t it be better for you to stop having all those covert orgasms over the idea of being denied orgasms?
If she doesn’t want to make you chaste then isn’t bugging her about chastity just pushy?
Reading on the web, comments on this site and others and the visitor stats from my assorted sites show me:
Play the penis game!
You want your penis:
I’ve long known about the chastity fans and the men who want their small - or they wish it were small … or something - penis laughed at. But the men who are engaged or at least claim to be so in search of penis shrinking methodology were a surprise.
Ruined orgasms is the key phrase bringing the most traffic from search engines.
Not a big surprise. A number of the runner up terms involve orgasm denial and enforced male chastity. Perpetually popular topics in Femdom. That is why so many telephone dominatrices make a living forbidding men to have an orgasm. Though rendering an orgasm unsatisfying is certainly extra mean and cruel.
The second most popular topic is female superiority.
Guess you guys are looking for matriarchal fascists who ensure you have as little physical sexual satisfaction as possible.
In your fantasies anyway.
Moved to Lifetime Lifestyle Orgasm Denial.
Chastity is one of the most popular topics in female led relationships.
While men often boast of how much better being forbidden orgasms – sometimes even erections – makes them that really isn’t the issue.
It is almost always the man who introduces chastity. The man who seduces his wife or girlfriend into having him wear a male chastity belt. After all women normally bond with men assuming there will be mutual orgasms arrived at in fairly conventional ways.
Really it is the man who seeks to find expression for his submissive desires in the loss of orgasms. It is his thrill. One that women easily adapt to. Either because their spouse or lover is sexually lazy or selfish or because they assume him a slave to them already.
But I think men should admit that for them is a hot part of voluntary erotic slavehood: there’s no shame in liking it. They enjoy feeling the woman as keyholder’s power. And how good sex feels when it is allowed.
No need to dress up something done for fun as a kind of solemn morality play.
Throughout human history men have been in thrall to their phallus. A common formulation used by proponents of male orgasm regulation. Quite neatly it removes writing, politics, scholarship, art, finance, music, craftsmanship produced and practiced by men throughout the centuries.
This is certainly the sociohistorical premise of Tanya Larisse who has produced a sort of Cartoon Guide to Male Chastity. (She precedes her name with “Dr.” but I could just as easily claim a Sc.D or LLD.)
She pushes the commonplace line that without the frustration of being denied to orgasm the human male becomes less kind, generous and supportive. That a woman once given the erotic omnipotence of being the keyholder of his chastity belt will cause the husband or boyfriend to blossom in virtue, courtesy and become the man she wished she’d married.
I always wonder: if he’s so unworthy and unsupportive why marry or date him? Why not divorce or leave him?
It isn’t as if locking his penis in a chastity device is a real lifetime guarantee. Should the man grow tired of having his cock imprisoned he can always find wire cutters and refuse to ever wear one again.
I think that consensual orgasm denial can be lots of fun. But when presented as a shortcut to human decency it is distasteful.
Tantric Sex: the man is taught to have non-ejaculatory orgasms allowing him to experience something like the multiple orgasms enjoyed by women.
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