In the early stages of a girlfriend led love affair, wife led marriage there’s often a mismatch of expectations and desires.
The submissive boyfriend or husband is ready to be – at least imagines he is – to be her compleat slave. The woman has just begun exploring.
Over time she’s likely to become more and more comfortable with exerting authority over her beloved. And her taste for sadistic games may well increase.
But he’s already pushing for more now. Expressing frustration and disappointment that she isn’t exerting more female dominance. Pushing someone to feel dominant is the last thing to do to make them feel empowered. And it may cause her to abandon being on top altogether.
If you’ve convinced the woman you love to begin taking control be grateful and patient. Make sure this new experience is comfortable.
Make her happy: you claim that is the goal don’t you?
Originally posted 2007-12-16 11:06:26.