Truth may or may not be stranger than fiction. Some people can’t even tell the difference between the two. Here’s one fellow’s unlikely question for knowledge:
I’m trying to find accurate information on the effects of long-term chastity on penis size. It’s not easy. My lifestyle Domme has me permanently locked in a Gerecke device. With changes we had made at a local machine shop, it’s impossible to violate.
My hope is that i can find medical info which confirms your observations. It would be wonderful if my mistress and i can take pleasure in watching my “Pee Hole” as She now refers to it, slowly diminish and become useless.
Also, do you know where to find out about the effects of restricting nocturnal erections and how that may relate to reducing the size of the penis?
Thanks so much,
In response to Lori’s Tube.
Small Penis Humiliation and Submissiveness
When the sissy cuckold is regaling blog readers with accounts of his fictitious life of humiliation he usually assures us that his [insert cloyingly icky slang for penis here] is pathetic. But from what I’ve seen via my various sites while many submissive men want their cocks mocked most men into small penis humiliation aren’t submissive.
They crave a fairly narrow range of embarrassment scenarios. Ideally in public. Hopefully involving young women. Typically they imagine asking for impossibly small condoms or being laughed at on beaches or by nurses.
But the humiliation doesn’t involve any change in role, shift in status.
Small penis humiliation is one of the most phallocentric fetishes. The guy’s cock is the center of attention. Women are talking about it. In most accounts of SPH the subject mentions his instant erection at the moment of humiliation.
That men enjoy having their penises laughed at without becoming submissive isn’t a flaw. They seem quite gleeful in their fetish. Not miserably frustrated.
Originally posted 2009-02-28 01:44:38.
Males should be denied orgasms because
- Women are superior
- Men are inferior
Males should be allowed orgasms:
- Never, ever
- Only ruined orgasms
- Thinking about this excites me so much I have to go masturbate
The best male chastity device is:
- CB-6000 with points of intrigue
- Teeth of Kali bracelet
- Barb wire with duct tape
Males should be cuckolded because:
- Women are superior
- Men are inferior
After my wife cuckolds me I want to:
- Eat the creampie
- Take her and the bull out to McDonalds
Submales should be feminized and sissified because:
- Women are superior
- I like pink
My penis is so small:
- I clean it with a Q-tip and a magnifying glass
- My penis is smaller than your penis!
Dear gentle reader: what do you think?
From Dear Prudence on Slate the story of a man whose life consists of actual small penis humiliation:
The problem is that I have had a horrible time with women, and it pretty much always comes back to the same problem: I have a very small penis. I have a condition called micropenis, and it has been the cause of the end of a few relationships. One of my ex-girlfriends couldn’t stop giggling and said, “Aww, it’s so cute!” the first time she saw it.
His whole story and Prudie’s response: My tiny package is wrecking my love life.
Someone wrote to me because their lover is covertly into small penis humiliation. What can – or should – be done. My (hasty) reply:
Help My Man Likes Small Penis Humiliation
Originally posted 2011-03-28 06:03:33.
More men write of Small Penis Humiliation:
Don’t understand the anxiety of little dicked guys. I’ve got a 3 inch hard dicklette and couldn’t be happier. I love sph and get off on it: i’m jerking off 4,5,6xx day /night watching real well hung men fucking beautiful women on porn sites. Being sexually inadequate and sexually dysfunctional, feeling humiliated and embarassed keeps me in a constant state of arousal. Just thinking about a huge cock fucking gives me an erection. I have no desire to participate only to watch and jerk off. It’s great! Is there something wrong with me?
I too get really aroused when my wife tells me I’m too small to satisfy her. Thing is, I’m average to above-average in size (6.5-7″), so the key to making it ‘real’ is to encourage comparisons to bigger dicks. A lot of people have asked how to get their partners to ‘play ball’. Here’s how I pulled it off: 1. I started by telling her that one of my fantasies has always been to see her dominate a huge dildo…that it would be a real turn-on to watch her. She was surprisingly receptive to this idea, and so I got her a large, thick, life-like vibrator that was a good 2 inches longer than me. 2. Once I had the vibrator, I tied her up and orally got her right to the point of orgasm and stopped. Repeated this a few more times. While I was doing this, I told her I wasn’t going to let her orgasm unless she told me about the biggest guy she ever fucked and made her tell me all the details. Made her compare him to me… “So, he was huge, yes?” “Yeah.” “Much bigger than me?” “Yeah.” “Made it real easy to come?” “Yeah.” “Harder to come with my dick, yes? It’s ok…you can tell me…” “Mhm”… you get the idea. 3. At this point, she’s on the brink of cumming and primed for size. I lubed up both my dick and the larger vibrator. Put myself in first for 30 seconds, then withdrew. Then I put the vibrator in slowly to let her feel the difference (hint: warm it a bowl of warm water while you’re having foreplay…nothing worse than a cold dildo to kill the mood). Asked her if this filled her up more…if this was more like the guy with the huge cock…if she wished mine were this size. Gave her the vibrator until she was on the brink of cumming again, then withdrew it. 4. At this point, I slid myself back in, and I could really feel the difference now that she had been stretched open. I know she felt the difference too. I said to her, “So mine’s not as big?” “No” “You can have the big dick again, want it?” “Yes” “Why?” “It’s bigger.” “And it’s harder to feel my lil dick after having that huge cock?” “Mhm” “Ok, well I like fucking you with my smaller dick, so if you want to cum and want the big one, you’re going to have to force me out of you. Otherwise, you’ll have to make due with my smaller cock.” And this is where I hit SPH nirvana…her response: “Get your pathetic little dick out of me, untie my arm, and give me the big cock.” I obliged, and she got herself off something fierce. When she finished, I asked her if I could cum, and she threw in one more zinger…”Little dicks don’t get to cum in me. Jack yourself off and show me how little boys cum.” I came in about 10 seconds.
I visit a clothing-optional beach a few times each summer. Since I was raised to be modest, it usually takes me a while to get comfortable enough to go comletely nude. But once I finally strip down, I love to go walking along the water’s edge with the other nudists, especially if there are a lot of women there. Like many of the guys here, my little member is only about one inch long when it is soft. And what I enjoy the most is how some of the ladies react when they see it. Most don’t seem to notice or they look the other way. But sometimes, when two or more are together, I hear a little laugh after they walk by me. And occasionally, one will simply stare down there as if in disbelief, or perhaps remark about how the water must be especially cold that day. But I have to wonder what they are really thinking. Are they amused or repulsed? Do they think it won’t get any longer than their pinky finger? Or are they considering painting the head with nail polish so that it might more closely resemble one of their big toes? Whatever it is, they should tell us. We love to be teased about it!
It seems there really is a lot of guys into SPH judging by all the responses. At least a lot of you have wives and girlfriends. That never happened for me. Finding women willing to do SPH is extremely hard unless you’re willing to pay for it. I must say that a lot of the stories regarding so called real experiences sound more like fantasies to me. Nothing wrong with that I suppose.
Reader, what do you think?
Many men who play at Small Penis Humilition successfully with their girlfriend seem to often have satisfying sex after being mocked.
The first time I ever realized how small my dick is was the first time I also realized how absolutely huge my wife’s pussy is. It was while we were engaged. We were laying in bed and instead of fingering her, I started really working her clit. It grew to the point that it was actually sticking out. I couldn’t resist. I asked her if I could measure it. I got a ruler and measured it with her hood pulled back and it was 3 1/8″ long and as fat as my pinky finger. She wanted to measure me next. From getting up and finding the ruler, I had gone back to my relaxed state. First she guessed that I would be over 3″. But when she measured, I was actually 1 1/2″. Now she really got intrigued. She strattled me, pulled her hood back and put her clit against my limp dick. I was so embarrased. Her clit really was twice the size of my limp dick and the same thickness. Of course, she started laughing and said,”Ha ha, maybe I should be fucking you.” Anyway, later that evening, I was really getting her hot and we were having intercourse. When she came she pushed me out. She asked me why I took it out and I answered that I didn’t take it out. When her muscles tightened up she pushed me out. Now I was intrigued. I put my fully erect dick length-ways against her slit and her slit was at least 2″ longer than my little 4 1/4″ pud. Also, her labia are longer than my penis. I have quite often put my dick and balls in her without any pain. Another thing I do that she hates is I like entering her flacid. With a little lube I can actually fuck her in and out totally limp. It helps that I’m so small, it just sticks out instead of hanging. I let her fuck one of my friends once who’s shaped like a coke can, and even he said she was huge. I often wonder if she’s faking with me, but she swears that she loves sex with me. We’ve both admitted that we don’t get enought friction because of me being so small and her being so loose. But it’s actually a good thing because I can last longer with her. I had sex with a tight woman she met for me and shot my load in 10 minutes straight.
My wife has been messing with me over something for all 11 years that we’ve been knowing each other. While I can rock her world with straight-up sex, doggy style is hilarious to her. My wife likes to bend over and ask for doggy style (knowing that I’m to short to reach) and then play dumb about the whole thing. The first time it happened, she tried her best not to smile, but over the years, she has made it a funny part of sex. It’s not that she’s overweight or anything. She has a nice ba-donky-donk. It’s just that with my short-commings, I can only reach long enough to barely brush her lips with the head of my dick. Another thing we both like for her to do, is when we’re in the missionary position, she’ll use her vag-muscles to actually open her pussy to a gaping hole. Then I’ll put my dick right up the middle and not hit anything. Then I’ll start moving left and right to slap the sides. She used to feel self conscious all the time because her pussy really is huge. See the above post. That is us. But lately, she is into stretching it more often. I let her read some of my posts and it really turned her on. The only thing that kinda bothered her was when my buddy said that she was to big even for his coke can dick. She got over it though and this morning she got up early and put a plastic cup in her pussy to where it was just an open void and strattled me. I woke up not knowing what was going on. Today, shes going to keep a forearm-thick 5″ toy in her pussy all day. She said she may even leave it in all day every day this week and see what that does. As far as me, I asked her if in a few weeks, we could go to a nudist campground I found on the internet and let her see how small I am compared to normal sized men. She said we could but she doesn’t need to do that to compare. She can easily remember how much smaller I am from all the other guys she’s been with before me. But it would be fun if she can make comments in front of other women their and get they’re feedback as well.
I too love being humiliated about my tiny member. Many girls have laughed about my size but never my ability. Once I had an older Asian woman reach down my pants and laugh. She was so shocked at how tiny I was but I loved every second of it. One thing I really enjoy is having my GF put on her huge strap on and hold it next to me, dwarfing my little twig. I do not consider my self to have a fetish, in fact I get very upset if a woman tries to tell me I’m big. I know the truth and it’s okay. In fact I wish it were smaller. I would love to find a girl who is totally into humiliating me like some of the bloggers above
I discovered I was into SPH about 10 years ago now but it took many years of a wide variety of humiliating experiences starting in early high school to get here. i guess subconciously i had enough of this suffering and my psyche turned it into some sort of pleasure. I am small in all ways soft or erect but it is when flaccid i feel most shamed. I still don’t relish being publiclly humiliated by other men (except in certain circumstances when a female or females are involved)I have suffered more the a few incidents at pools or on beaches, once caught out soaking in a bath by a female flat mate, caught between a rock and a hard place in a drink fuelled truth or dare game at a party, although i have had my fair share of girlfriends only two have ever made direct comment on my lack of endowment and except in the case of one sex was not a problem (the one had an extra large vagina and i simply got lost in there) As and when I will expand on some of these experiences and more.
My wife has been using a clit pump for about 6 months now. We have both been getting alot of enjoyment out of her using it, as she too enjoys SPH. When limp, my penis either retracts all the way in my groin area or is only about an inch long and as thick as a chap-stick. Since she started pumping, my wife’s clit is 2 inches long when limp and the same thickness as my penis and when erect, it’s 2 3/4 inches and a little thicker. When our kids are away, we’ll just spend the day at home nude and make note that she is better hung than me. She also likes to get herself erect so that she commands a huge lead on me in length and thickness. This usually doesn’t last long though. As soon as I see her erect clit, I grow to my full 4 1/2 inches. It’s also a turn on to watch her walk. Her flacid clit actually swings around like most endowed guys’ dicks do. Mine just doesn’t move at all. She used to think that me sucking on her clit was defeminizing but has learned to love it. Her favorite thing to do is when I’m limp. She likes to press her clit against my dick and make comments about her superior size. Again, this doesn’t last long. I get erect in nothing flat. She’s been hinting around about letting her fuck me in the ass with it, but I’m not 100% sure that is going to happen.
Have a story or a fantasy to tell?
I don’t think Small Penis Humiliation really has anything to do with male submission. It is a form of emotional masochism. But in saying that I don’t mean to imply there’s anything wrong in being a SPH fetishist.
More Small Penis Humiliation confessions (or fantasies):
I realized i was in to SPH some time ago. At first I thought I was a complete oddball but when I was trolling the web i discovered I am not alone. i believe SPH occurs as a compensation (it is better than feeling shamed and depressed about my under-endowment which was my state for many, many years. Although I have had my share of partners I always suspected they wanted a little more even though only 2 ever intimated such. Erect i am just over 4″ long and only a bit over 4″ in girth (which is probably the more important stat) Flaccid I am under 2″ which is totally humiliating in change rooms and showers. I find SPH is only a turn on when a woman or women are involved in some way. For example if I am in a room with only men to see my shortcomings it is no fun at all but if i knew a woman or group of women could see me in comparison to the other much better endowed that would be exciting. Any humiliation scenario I find a turn on as long as a female is involved I have had many experiences of both kinds. I now have had 3 partners who know about my SPH but only one really understood it and facillitated it the irony is that after we split up (her career took her to another country)I found out she was with a mutual friend whom I know is especially well-endowed. Only one woman I bedded was openly disparaging about my small penis needless to say it was a one night stand. I always depend on my fore (and after) play to please my partner but she wasn’t interested in anything but intercourse and her big turn on is big cocks not just the action but the visual. Although we did have sex I know i gave her very little if any pleasure and she quite succinctly pointed out that iwas too small for her tastes – she never knew it but of course i found her comments a great turn on and i secretly hope (and believe she probably did) tell her girlfriends about her disappointment We were in the same social circle so I saw her and her friends on a number of occasions. I have many more experiences but i will leave it at that for now.
I am 6 foot 1 inch in height and weigh in at a muscular 210 pounds, but have a small penis (3 inches erect) and just one, very small, testicle (as a result of having an undescended testicle removed as a child). I experienced humiliation in changing rooms when I was young and in my early sexual experiences (“Gosh, that’s small and where’s your other ball?”), but it was only when I met my wife (as she was to become) that I began to take pleasure and excitement from the humiliation. She was slightly older and far more sexually experienced than me and from day one mocked my tiny cock and single ball. We have now been married for over 25 years and I have learned to become expert at foot worship, cunnilingus and anilingus in order to seel to make up for my ‘shortcomings’. She has regularly taken lovers throughout our marriage with whom I am unfavourably compared, but she also encourages me to seek sexual experiences when I am travelling on business so that I can report back to her the reactions of my unlucky partners when they discover my small dick. I guess this may sound strage behaviour to many people, but I take great pleasure from the humiliation and genuinely love my wife.
I used to drink and got in trouble with my little dick. Here is how the story goes… I was in a drunken stupor and Ken and Ruth were waiting for me when I awoke. Guess I had emailed some shit to him while she was there. Anyway she was having ken take me out to talk supposedly about honesty and sobering up. When we were outside here is how the real conversation went. Ken: “You are absolutely pathetic! Russ: I know I have a drinking problem, I know, Ken: That is not what I am talking about….You are a wimp. Yu have a small dick, You are even worse than a eunuch! Don’t ALL of the guys LAUGH at you I bet you have to sit down to piss” Russ: Ken DOES know! Ken:I DO I know . Ken: Well I am fucking the shit out of your wife and I will be taking everything away from you lilttle dicked piss ant. There is nothing you can do so go back in there and keep your mouth shut if you want to keep your job. And YES – I have told enough of the guys I have told that you have a tiny dick and that I am fucking your wife and they laughed at you and your tiny penis! Ken I bet you never satisfied her, did you? Russ: This has happened to me as far as high school, then in the college, and now here where I work.! Ken asks: You know your wife does not even feel that thing when you fuck her?” and” How do you cum deep enough in her to do anything?” Someone has always done the work for you haven’t they Russ? You think you fathered any children think again! Russ: I know Ken, “No, my wife doesn’t feel my small penis when we use to TRY and fuck.” But we don’t that much anymore Ken: you looser I got her now.
I want my wife to comment on her own about my small penis. I have a 5″ x 1.5″ penis. When flacid, it’s 2.5″ x 1″. My wife always says it’s perfect. Are there any ways to make it just go all the way down to less than an inch x .5 inch? I want to make it as small as a baby’s dick and then get in the shower with her and have her look down and say something totally demeaning about it. Today I worked out and afterwards it was the usual thickness (flacid) but had retracted into the foreskin (I’m circumcised). I walked around looking for a towel in front of her and even stood there and talked to her a while and she said nothing about the shrinkage. I want that little bastard to retract so much that all she sees is balls with a little ring above it and absolutely nothing protruding. I don’t think she could possibly go without mentioning anything about that. By the way, I got a Guiness can in her pussy the other night. Shoved it all the way in to where there was none of it visible. I took it out and the slipped my dick in with a dildo. She was so stretched out I didn’t even feel the dildo. I shot my load in nothing flat.
i have a small penis,as well i love being humiliatian about it. my wife lets me get her off with her toys that’s lots bigger then me. when she cum’s i go down on her to dry her up so she can sleep, if i’am not locked up in a little cage, on a nice night, she will say you may play with that little thange, but leave on the pantys, she gave’s me a time to cum in. and i have to at that time or stop touching it, if i cum in the time i sleep in the pantys. if i don’t i stop and she hits me there.and if i play afterwords it’s cage time again. i will go months in it. as she has (real ) man to fuck her. when she comes home she seat on my face, telling me all about it.she loves to tell me that my mouth is the best sex part i have.that i should just forget about that little thang. because she said i could easy, as i can’t feel it when i let you try. the last time i could feel it, was when i let you in my ass.but now i have a b/f that loves to fuck my ass ,so i don’t thank you would be going there anymore. from that night i was told that ,she can’t reb, where she put the key to the cage, that was 5 months ago. it’s been ok, when i got horny after reading about others on here. i bend over for a kick in the balls my panties get a little wet. lol. must be what cum i can make in little balls , because it does the job. she find a big b/f as i clean her out i can see i would have to put my dick and balls in her to come close to full her. but other then her having her b/f.s the rest of are marriage the same. i don’t get sex. i do get to be put in my please , i do all the house cleaning and go to work ( yes ) in panties. and loving it. thanks i hope i will get to read my on here so i can show it to my wife.
Feel free to share your own.
It was in an Advocate sex advice column that I first learned of Small Penis Humiliation. One man wanted other men to humiliate for having a small cock.
Think the fetish odd and surprising I made a short note about it on one of my blogs.
Comments from Small Penis Humiliation fetishists flooded in. Almost a hundred. I thought I’d share some of their confessions with you over the course of several posts.
I have a tiny dick and balls – especially flacid. When my first girlfriend put her hand down my pants she laughed her head off.
I have what my girlfriend considers a huge cock 7 and a half inches but i think its average. I love sph and it turns me on for a girl to laugh at my penis and say how small it is etc even tho i aint small. Not saying i’d like a small cock cuz i think its important to pleasure my girl but its still a turn on to be humiliated but i’d never be able to tell my gf this cuz i reckon she would think i’m weird.
I did think that penis size doesn’t matter before but recently i bought my wife a sean michael’s dildo (it’s about 10 inches long and about 7 inches around (2.25 inches) thick. I myself have a 5 1/4 inch penis and i’m not very thick. My wife was a virgin before we met and she never has had any other dick in her other than me. She always thought i was good size. When i showed her this big black dildo she was almost taken aback. SHe has seen sean michaels in porn movies before and couldn’t believe the size of his dick. I thought i would suprise her with his realistic dong. After some apprehension she tried it out but man did we have to move slowly and use alot of lube as he is very thick and long. It took about 15 minutes but after this she was able to take his cock to almost completely to the balls. She moaned and screamed like i have never seen her do before. SHe yelled to me that she wanted that more of that “big black dick” in her. SHe continued to buck her hips and tell me how much she loved the size of it and while she did that she was sucking me off. She deepthroated me all the way. She came with such a ferocity that she never does with me. After she came i pulled the big black dildo out and climed on top of her and put myself in her. I couldn’t feel anything as she was so wet and stretched out. She just layed there and had an emotionaless expression on her face. She later admitted to me that she only faintly felt me in her. Since this night we have used the dildo out some more. She almost never cums with me in her, but she has earth shattering orgasms with this huge dildo. SHe has even told me on occasion after fucking that “big black cock” that to her “the bigger, the better it is”. So now i am a believer that size really does matter. Every once in while, while we are out i see her scoping out black men. She may never admit it but i think she now wants to go black. My wife was a virgin when we met and she was very satisfied with my 5 inch dick until i brought that huge black dildo home and she tried it out. Now i can’t make her cum with my dick and all she wants is black dick. So beware guys and be sure before you turn your wifes, girlfriends on to this lifestyles as there may be no turning back. Has this happened to anyone else.
I’ve been married to my wife for almost 10 years. We just started SPH about a few months ago. She has been with 11 other men (that she admits) before me and has had 3 children (2-from previous marriage, 1-with me). The first time we were together, I can remember thinking “this loose pussy has been around” but, much to my suprise, it felt much better than any other girl I’ve ever been with. I’m actually on the small side of average (5″-thin) but curve upwards. We have always had an adventuous sex life with multiple orgasms. We use dildos that are 12″ long and as big around as my forearm, and if she is turned on enough and relaxes, she can’t take every bit inside. Definately the biggest pussy I’ve ever seen (including online). It always amazes me that she can still come with my little dick. I’ve been trying to get her into the SPH, and she just recently started doing it towards the end of out sex sessions. I cannot explain in words how unbelievable it is to enter her with my inadequate dicklet after she has had a monster dildo in her. I’ve even entered her while a big dildo is in her. The most she’s taken so far was 2 10″ dildos and my 5″ at the same time. She did once comment that although she’s never been into anal, she likes it with me because I’m so thin. Especially while she has a monster in her “canyon” at the same time. We did try the swinging thing once. I couldn’t handle her being with another guy at the time, but I think I can now. Sometimes, during sex I imagine that night and her getting pounded by that other guy’s 9″ fat dick and get totally turned on. Anyway, fellow small guys, get you a woman that loves sex so much that she’s up for anything. Get her to fall in love with you. And stretch her waaaaay out. And this SPH fetish will work even without the dirty talk part of it.
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