Small Penis Humiliation Stories 1

It was in an Advocate sex advice column that I first learned of Small Penis Humiliation. One man wanted other men to humiliate for having a small cock.

Think the fetish odd and surprising I made a short note about it on one of my blogs.

Comments from Small Penis Humiliation fetishists flooded in. Almost a hundred. I thought I’d share some of their confessions with you over the course of several posts.

I have a tiny dick and balls – especially flacid. When my first girlfriend put her hand down my pants she laughed her head off.

I have what my girlfriend considers a huge cock 7 and a half inches but i think its average. I love sph and it turns me on for a girl to laugh at my penis and say how small it is etc even tho i aint small. Not saying i’d like a small cock cuz i think its important to pleasure my girl but its still a turn on to be humiliated but i’d never be able to tell my gf this cuz i reckon she would think i’m weird.

I did think that penis size doesn’t matter before but recently i bought my wife a sean michael’s dildo (it’s about 10 inches long and about 7 inches around (2.25 inches) thick. I myself have a 5 1/4 inch penis and i’m not very thick. My wife was a virgin before we met and she never has had any other dick in her other than me. She always thought i was good size. When i showed her this big black dildo she was almost taken aback. SHe has seen sean michaels in porn movies before and couldn’t believe the size of his dick. I thought i would suprise her with his realistic dong. After some apprehension she tried it out but man did we have to move slowly and use alot of lube as he is very thick and long. It took about 15 minutes but after this she was able to take his cock to almost completely to the balls. She moaned and screamed like i have never seen her do before. SHe yelled to me that she wanted that more of that “big black dick” in her. SHe continued to buck her hips and tell me how much she loved the size of it and while she did that she was sucking me off. She deepthroated me all the way. She came with such a ferocity that she never does with me. After she came i pulled the big black dildo out and climed on top of her and put myself in her. I couldn’t feel anything as she was so wet and stretched out. She just layed there and had an emotionaless expression on her face. She later admitted to me that she only faintly felt me in her. Since this night we have used the dildo out some more. She almost never cums with me in her, but she has earth shattering orgasms with this huge dildo. SHe has even told me on occasion after fucking that “big black cock” that to her “the bigger, the better it is”. So now i am a believer that size really does matter. Every once in while, while we are out i see her scoping out black men. She may never admit it but i think she now wants to go black. My wife was a virgin when we met and she was very satisfied with my 5 inch dick until i brought that huge black dildo home and she tried it out. Now i can’t make her cum with my dick and all she wants is black dick. So beware guys and be sure before you turn your wifes, girlfriends on to this lifestyles as there may be no turning back. Has this happened to anyone else.

I’ve been married to my wife for almost 10 years. We just started SPH about a few months ago. She has been with 11 other men (that she admits) before me and has had 3 children (2-from previous marriage, 1-with me). The first time we were together, I can remember thinking “this loose pussy has been around” but, much to my suprise, it felt much better than any other girl I’ve ever been with. I’m actually on the small side of average (5″-thin) but curve upwards. We have always had an adventuous sex life with multiple orgasms. We use dildos that are 12″ long and as big around as my forearm, and if she is turned on enough and relaxes, she can’t take every bit inside. Definately the biggest pussy I’ve ever seen (including online). It always amazes me that she can still come with my little dick. I’ve been trying to get her into the SPH, and she just recently started doing it towards the end of out sex sessions. I cannot explain in words how unbelievable it is to enter her with my inadequate dicklet after she has had a monster dildo in her. I’ve even entered her while a big dildo is in her. The most she’s taken so far was 2 10″ dildos and my 5″ at the same time. She did once comment that although she’s never been into anal, she likes it with me because I’m so thin. Especially while she has a monster in her “canyon” at the same time. We did try the swinging thing once. I couldn’t handle her being with another guy at the time, but I think I can now. Sometimes, during sex I imagine that night and her getting pounded by that other guy’s 9″ fat dick and get totally turned on. Anyway, fellow small guys, get you a woman that loves sex so much that she’s up for anything. Get her to fall in love with you. And stretch her waaaaay out. And this SPH fetish will work even without the dirty talk part of it.

Feel free to share your own confession or fantasy using the comment form below.

Originally posted 2012-05-05 10:59:17.

Small Penis Humiliation

Small Penis Humiliation and Submissiveness

When the sissy cuckold is regaling blog readers with accounts of his fictitious life of humiliation he usually assures us that his [insert cloyingly icky slang for penis here] is pathetic. But from what I’ve seen via my various sites while many submissive men want their cocks mocked most men into small penis humiliation aren’t submissive.

They crave a fairly narrow range of embarrassment scenarios. Ideally in public. Hopefully involving young women. Typically they imagine asking for impossibly small condoms or being laughed at on beaches or by nurses.

But the humiliation doesn’t involve any change in role, shift in status.

Small penis humiliation is one of the most phallocentric fetishes. The guy’s cock is the center of attention. Women are talking about it. In most accounts of SPH the subject mentions his instant erection at the moment of humiliation.

That men enjoy having their penises laughed at without becoming submissive isn’t a flaw. They seem quite gleeful in their fetish. Not miserably frustrated.

Originally posted 2009-02-28 01:44:38.

Sissified Orgasm Denial Cuckolded Small Penis Humiliation Chastity


Cruel Bitch Keyholder Mistress Wife

Males should be denied orgasms because

  • Women are superior
  • Men are inferior

Males should be allowed orgasms:

  • Never, ever
  • Only ruined orgasms
  • Thinking about this excites me so much I have to go masturbate

Teeth of Kali Chastity Device

The best male chastity device is:

  • CB-6000 with points of intrigue
  • Teeth of Kali bracelet
  • Barb wire with duct tape

Males should be cuckolded because:

  • Women are superior
  • Men are inferior

After my wife cuckolds me I want to:

  • Eat the creampie
  • Take her and the bull out to McDonalds

Chaste Sub Hubby Sissy Bitch

Submales should be feminized and sissified because:

  • Women are superior
  • I like pink

My penis is so small:

  • I clean it with a Q-tip and a magnifying glass
  • My penis is smaller than your penis!

Dear gentle reader: what do you think?

How Do I Shrink My Penis?

Truth may or may not be stranger than fiction. Some people can’t even tell the difference between the two. Here’s one fellow’s unlikely question for knowledge:

Dear friend,

I’m trying to find accurate information on the effects of long-term chastity on penis size. It’s not easy. My lifestyle Domme has me permanently locked in a Gerecke device. With changes we had made at a local machine shop, it’s impossible to violate.

My hope is that i can find medical info which confirms your observations. It would be wonderful if my mistress and i can take pleasure in watching my “Pee Hole” as She now refers to it, slowly diminish and become useless.

Also, do you know where to find out about the effects of restricting nocturnal erections and how that may relate to reducing the size of the penis?

Thanks so much,

In response to Lori’s Tube.

Guest Posting

guest-post-female-led-relationships (11K)

As some of you know this is but one of the many sites that I run or publish. The time and focus I can bring each site varies, some sites go through periods when I ignore them altogether.

I’m not feeling particularly inspired or motivated in terms of the material appropriate to Female Led Relationships Net.

In some aspects of the blogosphere it is common for people to write guests posts. Most often it is a means for the author of the guest post to get additional visitors to her own blog or site. (A link to the writer’s blog or website is always posted at the end of the article.)

I thought I’d invite – solicit – guest posts here. Perhaps you want some extra traffic. Or want to say something you don’t feel would really fit your own blog. Or you don’t even have blog but have a thought or feeling that you’d like to share. Perhaps after you write something you’ll decide to start a blog.

I reserve the right to correct spelling errors.

Caveat: While I don’t mind linking to a commercial website I tend to be much stricter about the value of the post than I am with people who have no commercial incentive.

Originally posted 2009-02-04 11:40:44.

My Micropenis

From Dear Prudence on Slate the story of a man whose life consists of actual small penis humiliation:

The problem is that I have had a horrible time with women, and it pretty much always comes back to the same problem: I have a very small penis. I have a condition called micropenis, and it has been the cause of the end of a few relationships. One of my ex-girlfriends couldn’t stop giggling and said, “Aww, it’s so cute!” the first time she saw it.

His whole story and Prudie’s response: My tiny package is wrecking my love life.

Small Penis Humiliation Stories 4

More men write of Small Penis Humiliation:

Don’t understand the anxiety of little dicked guys. I’ve got a 3 inch hard dicklette and couldn’t be happier. I love sph and get off on it: i’m jerking off 4,5,6xx day /night watching real well hung men fucking beautiful women on porn sites. Being sexually inadequate and sexually dysfunctional, feeling humiliated and embarassed keeps me in a constant state of arousal. Just thinking about a huge cock fucking gives me an erection. I have no desire to participate only to watch and jerk off. It’s great! Is there something wrong with me?

I too get really aroused when my wife tells me I’m too small to satisfy her. Thing is, I’m average to above-average in size (6.5-7″), so the key to making it ‘real’ is to encourage comparisons to bigger dicks. A lot of people have asked how to get their partners to ‘play ball’. Here’s how I pulled it off: 1. I started by telling her that one of my fantasies has always been to see her dominate a huge dildo…that it would be a real turn-on to watch her. She was surprisingly receptive to this idea, and so I got her a large, thick, life-like vibrator that was a good 2 inches longer than me. 2. Once I had the vibrator, I tied her up and orally got her right to the point of orgasm and stopped. Repeated this a few more times. While I was doing this, I told her I wasn’t going to let her orgasm unless she told me about the biggest guy she ever fucked and made her tell me all the details. Made her compare him to me… “So, he was huge, yes?” “Yeah.” “Much bigger than me?” “Yeah.” “Made it real easy to come?” “Yeah.” “Harder to come with my dick, yes? It’s ok…you can tell me…” “Mhm”… you get the idea. 3. At this point, she’s on the brink of cumming and primed for size. I lubed up both my dick and the larger vibrator. Put myself in first for 30 seconds, then withdrew. Then I put the vibrator in slowly to let her feel the difference (hint: warm it a bowl of warm water while you’re having foreplay…nothing worse than a cold dildo to kill the mood). Asked her if this filled her up more…if this was more like the guy with the huge cock…if she wished mine were this size. Gave her the vibrator until she was on the brink of cumming again, then withdrew it. 4. At this point, I slid myself back in, and I could really feel the difference now that she had been stretched open. I know she felt the difference too. I said to her, “So mine’s not as big?” “No” “You can have the big dick again, want it?” “Yes” “Why?” “It’s bigger.” “And it’s harder to feel my lil dick after having that huge cock?” “Mhm” “Ok, well I like fucking you with my smaller dick, so if you want to cum and want the big one, you’re going to have to force me out of you. Otherwise, you’ll have to make due with my smaller cock.” And this is where I hit SPH nirvana…her response: “Get your pathetic little dick out of me, untie my arm, and give me the big cock.” I obliged, and she got herself off something fierce. When she finished, I asked her if I could cum, and she threw in one more zinger…”Little dicks don’t get to cum in me. Jack yourself off and show me how little boys cum.” I came in about 10 seconds.

I visit a clothing-optional beach a few times each summer. Since I was raised to be modest, it usually takes me a while to get comfortable enough to go comletely nude. But once I finally strip down, I love to go walking along the water’s edge with the other nudists, especially if there are a lot of women there. Like many of the guys here, my little member is only about one inch long when it is soft. And what I enjoy the most is how some of the ladies react when they see it. Most don’t seem to notice or they look the other way. But sometimes, when two or more are together, I hear a little laugh after they walk by me. And occasionally, one will simply stare down there as if in disbelief, or perhaps remark about how the water must be especially cold that day. But I have to wonder what they are really thinking. Are they amused or repulsed? Do they think it won’t get any longer than their pinky finger? Or are they considering painting the head with nail polish so that it might more closely resemble one of their big toes? Whatever it is, they should tell us. We love to be teased about it!

It seems there really is a lot of guys into SPH judging by all the responses. At least a lot of you have wives and girlfriends. That never happened for me. Finding women willing to do SPH is extremely hard unless you’re willing to pay for it. I must say that a lot of the stories regarding so called real experiences sound more like fantasies to me. Nothing wrong with that I suppose.

Reader, what do you think?

Small Penis Humiliation Stories 3

Many men who play at Small Penis Humilition successfully with their girlfriend seem to often have satisfying sex after being mocked.

The first time I ever realized how small my dick is was the first time I also realized how absolutely huge my wife’s pussy is. It was while we were engaged. We were laying in bed and instead of fingering her, I started really working her clit. It grew to the point that it was actually sticking out. I couldn’t resist. I asked her if I could measure it. I got a ruler and measured it with her hood pulled back and it was 3 1/8″ long and as fat as my pinky finger. She wanted to measure me next. From getting up and finding the ruler, I had gone back to my relaxed state. First she guessed that I would be over 3″. But when she measured, I was actually 1 1/2″. Now she really got intrigued. She strattled me, pulled her hood back and put her clit against my limp dick. I was so embarrased. Her clit really was twice the size of my limp dick and the same thickness. Of course, she started laughing and said,”Ha ha, maybe I should be fucking you.” Anyway, later that evening, I was really getting her hot and we were having intercourse. When she came she pushed me out. She asked me why I took it out and I answered that I didn’t take it out. When her muscles tightened up she pushed me out. Now I was intrigued. I put my fully erect dick length-ways against her slit and her slit was at least 2″ longer than my little 4 1/4″ pud. Also, her labia are longer than my penis. I have quite often put my dick and balls in her without any pain. Another thing I do that she hates is I like entering her flacid. With a little lube I can actually fuck her in and out totally limp. It helps that I’m so small, it just sticks out instead of hanging. I let her fuck one of my friends once who’s shaped like a coke can, and even he said she was huge. I often wonder if she’s faking with me, but she swears that she loves sex with me. We’ve both admitted that we don’t get enought friction because of me being so small and her being so loose. But it’s actually a good thing because I can last longer with her. I had sex with a tight woman she met for me and shot my load in 10 minutes straight.

My wife has been messing with me over something for all 11 years that we’ve been knowing each other. While I can rock her world with straight-up sex, doggy style is hilarious to her. My wife likes to bend over and ask for doggy style (knowing that I’m to short to reach) and then play dumb about the whole thing. The first time it happened, she tried her best not to smile, but over the years, she has made it a funny part of sex. It’s not that she’s overweight or anything. She has a nice ba-donky-donk. It’s just that with my short-commings, I can only reach long enough to barely brush her lips with the head of my dick. Another thing we both like for her to do, is when we’re in the missionary position, she’ll use her vag-muscles to actually open her pussy to a gaping hole. Then I’ll put my dick right up the middle and not hit anything. Then I’ll start moving left and right to slap the sides. She used to feel self conscious all the time because her pussy really is huge. See the above post. That is us. But lately, she is into stretching it more often. I let her read some of my posts and it really turned her on. The only thing that kinda bothered her was when my buddy said that she was to big even for his coke can dick. She got over it though and this morning she got up early and put a plastic cup in her pussy to where it was just an open void and strattled me. I woke up not knowing what was going on. Today, shes going to keep a forearm-thick 5″ toy in her pussy all day. She said she may even leave it in all day every day this week and see what that does. As far as me, I asked her if in a few weeks, we could go to a nudist campground I found on the internet and let her see how small I am compared to normal sized men. She said we could but she doesn’t need to do that to compare. She can easily remember how much smaller I am from all the other guys she’s been with before me. But it would be fun if she can make comments in front of other women their and get they’re feedback as well.

I too love being humiliated about my tiny member. Many girls have laughed about my size but never my ability. Once I had an older Asian woman reach down my pants and laugh. She was so shocked at how tiny I was but I loved every second of it. One thing I really enjoy is having my GF put on her huge strap on and hold it next to me, dwarfing my little twig. I do not consider my self to have a fetish, in fact I get very upset if a woman tries to tell me I’m big. I know the truth and it’s okay. In fact I wish it were smaller. I would love to find a girl who is totally into humiliating me like some of the bloggers above

I discovered I was into SPH about 10 years ago now but it took many years of a wide variety of humiliating experiences starting in early high school to get here. i guess subconciously i had enough of this suffering and my psyche turned it into some sort of pleasure. I am small in all ways soft or erect but it is when flaccid i feel most shamed. I still don’t relish being publiclly humiliated by other men (except in certain circumstances when a female or females are involved)I have suffered more the a few incidents at pools or on beaches, once caught out soaking in a bath by a female flat mate, caught between a rock and a hard place in a drink fuelled truth or dare game at a party, although i have had my fair share of girlfriends only two have ever made direct comment on my lack of endowment and except in the case of one sex was not a problem (the one had an extra large vagina and i simply got lost in there) As and when I will expand on some of these experiences and more.

My wife has been using a clit pump for about 6 months now. We have both been getting alot of enjoyment out of her using it, as she too enjoys SPH. When limp, my penis either retracts all the way in my groin area or is only about an inch long and as thick as a chap-stick. Since she started pumping, my wife’s clit is 2 inches long when limp and the same thickness as my penis and when erect, it’s 2 3/4 inches and a little thicker. When our kids are away, we’ll just spend the day at home nude and make note that she is better hung than me. She also likes to get herself erect so that she commands a huge lead on me in length and thickness. This usually doesn’t last long though. As soon as I see her erect clit, I grow to my full 4 1/2 inches. It’s also a turn on to watch her walk. Her flacid clit actually swings around like most endowed guys’ dicks do. Mine just doesn’t move at all. She used to think that me sucking on her clit was defeminizing but has learned to love it. Her favorite thing to do is when I’m limp. She likes to press her clit against my dick and make comments about her superior size. Again, this doesn’t last long. I get erect in nothing flat. She’s been hinting around about letting her fuck me in the ass with it, but I’m not 100% sure that is going to happen.

Have a story or a fantasy to tell?