Comments for Female Led Relationships

Comment on Panty Boys by Robert

Robert — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:52:03 +0000

I am a male who wears nothing but panties. All are either nylon or silk. Some are rather lavish in lace. They feel great under my pants or shorts. Due to the increase of skirts and skorts becoming available for men, I decided to try it. I bought a skort, navy blue. I wore it with matching panties. It was great feeling the air blow up under the skirt. I went shopping while wearing it and amazingly received no flack from anyone. The next time I tried a skirt, it felt even better.
Guys wear the panties with a skirt or a skirt, you’ll love the feeling.

Comment on Feminization by dave

dave — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:03:55 +0000

i am given the privilege of wearing some Women’s clothing, usually in concert with my male attire. I have my own lingerie, pantyhose, and heels as well as some elements of outer wear. In dressing in Women’s clothes i am emulating the superior sex; i enjoy the options that i have and exercise them whenever i can.

dave

Comment on Visible Male Submission by dave

dave — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:56:32 +0000

Yes, most certainly! Men should be visibly submissive to the Women in their life! It doesn’t need to be bowing or kneeling although that has its place; rather, showing some common courtesies, deferring to one’s Wife, politely responding to Her, and so on are all ways that this can work.

In our case Nancy insists on taking a visible lead and on my showing my deference to Her. In social settings i am always by Her side and attentive to Her needs, getting Her a drink, lighting a cigarette, responding politely yo Her and so on. At home and in family gatherings Nancy expects more and we have stronger signs of deference. Little but significant things like a slight bow to Her and my always addressing Her and Her Mother as “Ma-am”. Signs of deference are always appropriate since they remind the couple of their respective roles.

dave

Comment on Divorce by john

john — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 21:25:07 +0000

I have just done this, divorced after a six year marriage. it was after my marriage that I discovered I was submissive and had been for many years just didn’t realize it. After much reasearch I approached her with the desire to be in a female led life and was told I was some kind of pervert. When I tried to explain the roles etc she wouldn’t listen. I sent her links so she could read about the life and make up her own mind based on real information about how others live the life, she ignored them. Well three years later we seperated and divorced. At 50 how could I go on living a vanilla life I hated and our sex life had stopped. Living a sex less life for the rest of my days just didn’t seem like a wonderful way to spend my life.

Comment on Special Courtesies by Shadowlady

Shadowlady — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 09:09:31 +0000

My husband is polite and courteous to all. It is in his nature and one of the things I adore about him.
I do expect him to open doors, and most certainly the car door. I do expect him to take my coat and help me into it when we are out. I do expect him to order what I have told him I want.
I appreciate him holding an umbrella over my head when it rains and walk arm in arm with me.
But most of all I like that fact that he puts my comfort over his own – when I am cold he will offer his coat even when it means being cold himself. The getting stuff from the top floor when I have forgotten something. It is the little things that really matter.

Comment on How Much Control? by Shadowlady

Shadowlady — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 09:01:17 +0000

In my relationship it is very much a case of desire, not requirement. He was single for years and had a nice home and life without me. He can do well without the control, but it is something he desires very much.
The control factor is there but not obvious to others most of the time. Still people do realise he dotes on me and puts me on a pedestal. Part of that is control, part of that is simply love. Control flows through our life, but due to life changes and things happening in our lives it will change, and has it’s ups and downs.
I do not treat/control him like a child or a brat. Simply because he isn’t one. He’s an adult and I expect him to be one, I treat him as one. If I wanted to control a child I should have gotten me one.

Comment on How Much Control? by dave

dave — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:20:54 +0000

My Wife Nancy is the head of our household. We both came from situations of Female dominance and male submissiveness so it was a natural thing for us. While we have set responsibilities, our relationship is constantly evolving. Nancy wants more control and i like for Her to have it, so we have new rules, responsibilities, and courtesies all the time. In general, Nancy manages the finances, makes all decisions, and determines our social schedule. She makes rules and assigns tasks and administers corrections when things don’t happen as they should. As for me, i have a routine of housework that includes cooking, cleaning, washing, and ironing as well as taking care of the ‘guy’ things around the house. For example both Nancy and Her Mother, Sue, expect their cars to be cleaned, serviced, and fueled. The Women expect visible deference and to be treated with courtesy – it’s yes, Ma-am! or No Ma-ma! and their needs and comfort are always my first concern. It may sound a bit heavy handed but it isn’t; it’s the end result of years of stating and understanding expectations and evolving clear rules as they are needed. i know what is expected of me and have the harmony at home that i want when i meet my expectations. Women do men a BIG favor when they provide a structured environment for the man in their lives… If anyone would care to communicate with us in these matters we can be reached on nlf21mail@yahoo.com

Nancy, Sue, dave