Female Led Cuckoldry
The first femdom novel, Venus in Furs featured cuckoldry.
For many men being cuckolded is the supreme submissive fantasy. But some of those who get to live it divorce their wives. Or their wives leave them.
If the lore that women are better and finer creatures is it any surprise that many would have no desire to pursue this?
The trauma is too awful.
How do you feel about female led infidelity?
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September 18th, 2007 at 10:47 pm
i am a firm believer now in the quote “ITS ALL ABOUT HER”. Women deserve to feel special and fulfilled and if that fulfillment comes from another man,so be it. My job is to make sure She is happy,whatever that entails and i will support Her if She needs to take on other lovers. I will be there for Her in whatever capacity She needs me for because when She is happy,i am happy.
October 27th, 2007 at 6:09 am
I would be jealous if my wife was having sex with another man. I would not be jealous if she kept me locked up in the CB-3000 chastity device that she often requires me to wear. I treat her like a Queen when I am locked up.
This year I have been kept locked up for a quqrter of the year and still have two months to go. She has been being more demanding about keeping me locked up more and more and she even says she likes me better when she keeps my little trouble maked locked up.
If she continues she will soon stop any masturbation I sneak in.
October 28th, 2007 at 1:05 am
Sure, she should have what ever pleases her, if that is other men, then of that is her right
October 28th, 2007 at 1:10 am
Female infidelity should be the norm. Look, as men we need to support whatever women need. Please allow me not to reach orgasm as long as she as she is sexually satisfied.
October 29th, 2007 at 8:26 am
If it’s your fantasy, then by all means, go for it. But just because it’s something *you’re* into, that doesn’t mean it’s some universal standard that everyone should adhere to. We all do things differently.
November 6th, 2007 at 1:13 pm
As a hypothesis I’d say yes. The woman is boss. Whatever makes her happy, should make me happy.
In reality, I don’t know how I’d react. If she did it with me in mind, to crush me and demontrate her invicibility then I would accept it. If she does it without me in mind i.e. she’s attracted to this other dude and wants him strictly for her own pleasures, then I would mind.
November 13th, 2007 at 8:05 am
Of course everyone is different but if you are a submissive man and you have been lucky enough to meet a dominant and nonmanogamous woman then the above question is academic.
I dreamt my whole life of meeting such a woman and now belong to that small group of lucky people who have indeed found their perfect match. To support my wife’s wishes to have a partner other than me, is a privilage.
December 22nd, 2007 at 2:17 am
It is about her and her pleasure. While my Dom has not exercised that right, I would be happy for her if she did. Currently, she is content with my tongue.
October 22nd, 2008 at 10:27 pm
If your wife is the kind of woman that has a history of multiple partners and casual sex then you could make this work, knowing the risks of STD’s and such.
If your wife has a strong monogamous personality as many do and you are groveling around while she is getting well serviced by a “real man” then you are playing with fire. In a few weeks she may go from being your faithful partner to belonging to another, and then what are you going to do if she or her new man decide you are a third wheel?
November 4th, 2008 at 3:14 pm
I think that this could be very destructive…I think that if you are in a FLR and the female cuckolds you then she has lost all respect for you and without respect the relationship is effectively over, and become completely unsatisfying….There is a limit to the amount of degradation that one can endure…and humans are more than just a sexual object.
November 5th, 2008 at 9:27 pm
Interesting that all the pro-cuckolding comments here are hypothetical…
Anyway, personally I’d hate it. I’m the guy in her life and I want to do everything I can do to make her happy.
So it’s definitely still about me.
If I were to say, “its not about me”, that would be like saying it didn’t matter who I was, that I could be anybody. But I would not want to serve a woman who would marry just anybody, or just go the guy with the biggest dick. My wife is not a troll. She’s divine.
So I guess for me, being submissive to Michelle is kind of an ego-trip. It’s like saying, “this is the most gorgeous woman in the world and she wants me to be the one to serve her and please her. How lucky am I!!”
It drives me in an endless quest to perfect my sexual and sensual service skills so I can give her increasing amounts of pleasure and happiness.
The presence of another guy who was assumed to “better” than me at sex, or be “more of a man”, would completely fuck up this dynamic. Apart from making me jealous, it would make me lose the desire to try harder. It would make me think “I’m just a beta sub, I can’t compete, I don’t need to try.”
I think I should always try to please my wife in bed, and around the house, as much as I can. That’s my job, my identity. I don’t want someone else doing it for me.