Comments on: Female Led Lifestyle or Play?

By: nathanyl

nathanyl — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 23:35:06 +0000

I like the middle ground, I prefer to role play mostly however even when not role playing to have a woman sometimes off teh cuff just slap me or make me do something for her is fun. I have no interest in being a full time slave ala Elise Sutton though.

By: Mule

Mule — Sun, 25 May 2008 23:11:53 +0000

I’ll take what’s behind door number 3. For me female domination (AKA the bedroom dominatrix) is definitely a part-time fantasy gig.

However, the relationship that Mrs. Mule and I have is full-time. In many areas of this relationship, she is the leader.

“Led” is the key word in “Female Led Relationships.” Mrs. Mule has a great leadership style. In the “real world” others look to her for leadership, so why shouldn’t I? It’s not about dominance and submission. It’s not about anyone being totally in charge. It’s about setting a course and having someone follow it.

By: Verity

Verity — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 17:45:53 +0000

It’s all about that delicious middle ground. 24/7 is too much like work. But, I don’t want to stop being the dominant that I am when I leave the bedroom.

By: Psmith

Psmith — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 20:14:39 +0000

Axe,

It is really quite wonderful - albeit surprising - that you don’t know of Elise Sutton.

By: roo-roo

roo-roo — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 15:56:06 +0000

I’m somewhere in between the two, as are most others I know. I don’t want to be with someone who is a total control freak; I’ve got my own life. I can’t be with someone who prevents me from living it. On the other hand, I look for more than a vanilla relationship with occasional play.

By: axe

axe — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 03:51:57 +0000

While I’m not familiar with the “Elise Sutton” approach, I’d have to experience it to know if it was for me or not.
I do know I’d like more than just kink in the bedroom, to be with someone who’s comfortable with me serving her outside as well…at least to some point.