Female Led Lifestyle or Play?
F/m as Lifestyle or Play Style
Guys:
Do you want a woman to totally subjugate you (ala Elise Sutton) or simply a bedroom dominatrix (Dominant Divas)?
Gals:*
Do you want to regulate a man’s life or limit things to tease and denial and other kinky fun?
Or is there some mysterious middle ground?
( * My first and probably last use of that word.)
6 Responses “Female Led Lifestyle or Play?”
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While I’m not familiar with the “Elise Sutton” approach, I’d have to experience it to know if it was for me or not.
I do know I’d like more than just kink in the bedroom, to be with someone who’s comfortable with me serving her outside as well…at least to some point.
I’m somewhere in between the two, as are most others I know. I don’t want to be with someone who is a total control freak; I’ve got my own life. I can’t be with someone who prevents me from living it. On the other hand, I look for more than a vanilla relationship with occasional play.
Axe,
It is really quite wonderful - albeit surprising - that you don’t know of Elise Sutton.
It’s all about that delicious middle ground. 24/7 is too much like work. But, I don’t want to stop being the dominant that I am when I leave the bedroom.
I’ll take what’s behind door number 3. For me female domination (AKA the bedroom dominatrix) is definitely a part-time fantasy gig.
However, the relationship that Mrs. Mule and I have is full-time. In many areas of this relationship, she is the leader.
“Led” is the key word in “Female Led Relationships.” Mrs. Mule has a great leadership style. In the “real world” others look to her for leadership, so why shouldn’t I? It’s not about dominance and submission. It’s not about anyone being totally in charge. It’s about setting a course and having someone follow it.
I like the middle ground, I prefer to role play mostly however even when not role playing to have a woman sometimes off teh cuff just slap me or make me do something for her is fun. I have no interest in being a full time slave ala Elise Sutton though.