Female Led Dating
So, how many of you have gone out on dates where the female determined everything?
The venue
How you’d spend the evening
Perhaps she even paid the check and picked up the tab
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A dominant woman that picks up the tab..or pays her share? What crazy messed-up world do you live in?:)
Actually I recently met someone who is very dominant yet doesn’t want others to pay her share. It’s quite refreshing to know there are those out there that don’t consider money to be a part of D/s.
Most of my dates with Jos are like this. (I almost always pay; he’s a starving grad student.) Sometimes I consult him about where we should eat dinner, but often I just decide.
Yeeea . . . I hate when people pay for me.
Outside of specifically negotiated contexts (i.e. We are going out tonight and you’re going to buy me dinner, and we’re going to play that dynamic because we specifically negotiated it), I feel uncomfortable when I’m paid for.
I have played with paying Maymay’s way, because that hits a lot of my kink buttons, but frankly, it works better when I have money.
Sometimes May does pay, it’s true, but I was much more okay with that when there was a very clear disparity in our incomes. Now that we’re both poor, I find it even more important to pay my share.
This also came up in the comments thread of my blog post The Sex Trade, quite a while ago.
The long and short of it is that equating money with sex confuses both issues and should be avoided, IMO.