Comments on: Female Led Dating http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/ Woman worship, male submission, female domination concepts, conversations, commentary. Wed, 21 Jul 2010 17:19:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: maymay http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/comment-page-1/#comment-130 maymay Thu, 17 Jan 2008 08:44:46 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/#comment-130 This also came up in the <a href="http://maybemaimed.com/2007/04/08/the-sex-trade/#comments" rel="nofollow">comments thread of my blog post The Sex Trade,</a> quite a while ago. The long and short of it is that equating money with sex confuses both issues and should be avoided, IMO. This also came up in the comments thread of my blog post The Sex Trade, quite a while ago.

The long and short of it is that equating money with sex confuses both issues and should be avoided, IMO.

]]> By: Eileen http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/comment-page-1/#comment-123 Eileen Tue, 15 Jan 2008 08:02:59 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/#comment-123 Yeeea . . . I hate when people pay for me. Outside of specifically negotiated contexts (i.e. We are going out tonight and you're going to buy me dinner, and we're going to play that dynamic because we specifically negotiated it), I feel uncomfortable when I'm paid for. I have played with paying Maymay's way, because that hits a lot of my kink buttons, but frankly, it works better when I have money. Sometimes May does pay, it's true, but I was much more okay with that when there was a very clear disparity in our incomes. Now that we're both poor, I find it even more important to pay my share. Yeeea . . . I hate when people pay for me.

Outside of specifically negotiated contexts (i.e. We are going out tonight and you’re going to buy me dinner, and we’re going to play that dynamic because we specifically negotiated it), I feel uncomfortable when I’m paid for.

I have played with paying Maymay’s way, because that hits a lot of my kink buttons, but frankly, it works better when I have money.

Sometimes May does pay, it’s true, but I was much more okay with that when there was a very clear disparity in our incomes. Now that we’re both poor, I find it even more important to pay my share.

]]> By: Dev http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/comment-page-1/#comment-122 Dev Mon, 14 Jan 2008 16:47:13 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/#comment-122 Most of my dates with Jos are like this. (I almost always pay; he's a starving grad student.) Sometimes I consult him about where we should eat dinner, but often I just decide. Most of my dates with Jos are like this. (I almost always pay; he’s a starving grad student.) Sometimes I consult him about where we should eat dinner, but often I just decide.

]]> By: axe http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/comment-page-1/#comment-120 axe Mon, 14 Jan 2008 03:54:28 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-leddating/#comment-120 A dominant woman that picks up the tab..or pays her share? What crazy messed-up world do you live in?:) Actually I recently met someone who is very dominant yet doesn't want others to pay her share. It's quite refreshing to know there are those out there that don't consider money to be a part of D/s. A dominant woman that picks up the tab..or pays her share? What crazy messed-up world do you live in?:)

Actually I recently met someone who is very dominant yet doesn’t want others to pay her share. It’s quite refreshing to know there are those out there that don’t consider money to be a part of D/s.

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