What would you say are the greatest barriers to successful F/m relationships (any kind). In general, in your own life? Do you have plans, strategies or hopes for overcoming these?
Originally posted 2008-03-16 15:37:17.
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I am lucky in that I have a wife who is quite open and happy in the role of leader in our marriage. This is not just in our sexuality but in every aspect of our life together.
Despite having dreamt of just this situation for most of my adult life and through two provious marriages, still, after five years of marriage, I can occasionally feel a twinge of resentment when she hands down a demand in an abrupt or unfeeling manner.
I realise that my reactions in those moments are not what I have desired so deeply. They also cause tensions between us because for her I am sending out mixed signals. On one hand I am totally supportive that she takes full control then I have those rare but significant rebelions.
What are my plans to overcome this? It is like trying to reach perfection, I just have to keep trying harder and trying to learn to control those infrequent rebelious feelings and although it is not easy I am getting better but I am not there yet.
Ummm meeting someone?:)