How did you decide that FLR was for you?
There are many paths to FLR.
Some people come by it though the internet. Others are introduced by another person. Some people see it in print and media, and yet others come to it all on their own.
What’s your story?
3 Responses “How did you decide that FLR was for you?”
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I grew up in the 1950’s. Women had a submissive place in society in those days (even in America). There was no internet so sources of materials that addressed the potential sexual aspects of FLR were not available to developing young boys. Even Playboy didn’t touch on the issues.
“Women’s Liberation” came along in the 1960’s and that filled in the gap on the non-sexual aspects of FLR, but by that time I was hooked.
My development was mixed. I had childhood sexual fantasies that involved girls being in charge, but I didn’t have any interest in girls until I was almost 15. When I did develop this interest in girls, the sexual dominance was not part of it.
In an era when boys allegedly were in charge of the relationships: they decided which girl to ask out on a date, what to do on the date, etc., I couldn’t buy into that model.
I considered it an honor if a girl would go out with me. I saw it that it was the girl’s choice as to who to date, and sometimes got in trouble for “stealing” someone’s girlfriend. I couldn’t understand this concept. It was her choice, not mine.
I was always attractive to confident, active, go-getter type girls. In the 1960’s there were few of these, so consequently, I dated relatively few girls. I married the best of them.
I was married for several years before I even came across the term “female domination.” Female supremacy (which I have never bought into) and FLR (which I do buy into), were still decades away.
So I have to say that I came to FLR on my own.
I guess for me its not really a 24/7 thing. I enjoy the role playing and I love strong, intelligent women. Most of the dominant women I have been with haven’t had much experience although they quickly learn! They enjoy being able to play the part and dominat and abuse me and then when the game is over we go back to being “normal”. Although I have to admit that after I have been dominated it is difficult to feel “equal” around a woman who has just humiliated or abused me in some way. So in some ways it is a lifestyle when I am around certain women even when we are not actively “playing”.
Oops, just realised I haven’t really answered the question. I have always been fascinated by stronger women and being their play thing in some way. It all started when I was about 10 or so, my fantasies were quite tame mostly centereing around modeling for females or female photographers whilst I was nude. I also enjoyed the idea of serving women in some way, I was always intrigued by the idea of me being naked while they remained clothed. It was quite some time before I got to do anything for real or even over the phone (this was pre interenet).