Thinking of dominant women what are the top three attributes you look for?
- Physical Beauty
- Cruelty
- Dominance
- Intelligence
- Empathy
- Loving
- Shared Fetishes
- Good Job
- Or?
Originally posted 2008-04-07 17:58:59.
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That’s a pretty tough call, but I’d say:
Empathy,
Intelligence and
Shared Fetishes
but there rest isn’t too far behind
Hmmm ok
I’d say (in no special order)
Dominance
Intelligence
Physical Beauty
Empathy
Loving
Shared Fetishes
# Intelligence
# Empathy
# Shared Fetishes
loving, mutual attraction, and shared fetishes/interests.
When I meet other Dom/mes, I look for:
1. Intelligence
2. Dominance
3. Skill set
In other words, are they creatively diabolical? (Like Me!)
1. Intelligence
That’s it. The rest comes naturally./
I want a dominant woman who is just a little bit stronger than me and isn’t afraid to demonstrate it, but at the same time, gently and subtly dominant. She likes to remind me of her strength now and then, with a smile. She takes control of all my savings and loves to remind me about that… how I would be penniless without her. She gives me an allowance each week, which I must account for, in detail. She only lets me ‘make love’ when she’s on top and she always makes me ‘clean up’ afterwards, with my tongue, which she seems to quite enjoy. But I do love her and adore her and she knows it. She uses the threat of revealing my submissive nature to my friends to keep me under her control. If I make any mistake at all I will be punished. And so life goes on. When we’re out together she’s always smiling, knowing how much I’m trembling inside, afraid to make any mistake, in fear of the punishment that will surely be given when we get home.. I’m always watching her, seeking her approval of my behaviour.
If ONLY I could find such a woman…
then you are at the right place,am lily a 26yrs old black girl,am dominant by nature and seek a sub male,am in charged both financially, i decide what to do and what not to do,so if you are the one let me know.
This is an easy one for me:
Integrity – She has a set of values and sticks with them. I might not agree with the values (in which case we will probably not get along, but I can at least respect her).
Confidence – very sexy – if she really believes in herself, then she is not easily threatened, can “take the hits” and enjoy being herself.
Intelligence – not to be confused with education.
A good sense of humor – if you haven’t laughed during a session, you’re missing a lot of fun
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Physical appearance is not important. If I like a woman, I like looking at her no matter what she “really” looks like.
Shared fetishes are nice but as long as we are both willing to explore each other’s fetishes (without commitment to actually adopting them), then that’s enough. If all the other attributes are in place, then we should find enough common ground to have fun.
Cruelty? Not my style. Loving? Most definitely.
I believe in “equal but dominant.” We are equal partners in the relationship. She just happens to have a dominant role. She leads, I follow.
Most important for me would be shared fetishes/kinks. That we are really on the same page in terms of D/s.
That said, for me a mistress would have to meet a certain threshold of attractiveness and intelligence/education. They don’t have to be Penelope Cruz & a PHD, but they need to take care of themselves and have some level of worldliness/sophistication.
I hope you are a handsome, sexually attractive man if good looks are a requirement.
Worldliness?
Dominance
Shared fetishes
Beauty
Cruelty
Intelligence
My Wife has most of these traits already!!! lucky servant am I
I am extremely dominant. That is just the way I am. And I have found that it is really hard to find a submissive man.
I look for
Intellegence
Shared fetishes
and I want him to occasionally be dominant.
hello please let me know how to contact u. i have all the above
I find it hard to find a dominant women. They might play along thinking it makes them kewl but they aren’t really controlling at heart. Were are you located? I am in Ohio.
Thats a catch 22 thing I believe because IMHO If you found a truly ‘submissive’ man it might be next to impossible for him to really satisfy your 3rd preference?
I would say that I am dominant, my lover loves it-and i think that if he were here, he would say that:(in order)
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Loving
Intelligence
Dominance{both people, although I wear most of the pants… we split is quite accurately 70-30 like i said. lol….;) }
Empathy
Shared Fetishes{example. Teasing…
Physical Beauty
those are important along with being incredible best friends
<3 Happy Times ahead, considering that I fit his 'requirements' quite well, if I do say so myself. lol….
I do think ALL these listed things are important at different times or in different situations.
A sense of humor may be REALLY important to! but if I HAD to choose a top 3 for my own general preferences I would say:
shared fetishes,
dominance
intelligence
A creative Imagination may also be REALLY vital