Ideal?
Is there a woman in the public sphere who you subjectively feel - even though you can’t really know - embodies the qualities you most wish to have in a woman who dominates you?
- Some actress, politician, singer, intellectual, newsperson?
- A woman from the present or the past?
- A woman from real life or fiction?
5 Responses “Ideal?”






















I tend to have submissive feelings towards a lot of women, or at least women dominants. If Jodie Foster showed up at my door with a whip…
The obvious: Angelica Jolie
Singer: Fiona Apple
News Person: Serena Altschul
I like women who don’t really look like dommes, I like that mystery or secret side to them. For me one celebrity choice is the supernanny Jo Frost not because I have nappy fantasies or anything but because she looks so prim and proper and her voice is so metered. I love dommes who keep their cool even though they are excited.
Helen Bonham Carter would be another fun choice.
Fictional: Eowyn from Lord of the Rings. I like a gal who can hang with the boys.
I’m ex-military. Hung out with a lot of non-traditional females for whom I have a lot of respect.