There are three components here loving, female, and authority.

Mrs. Mule and I have a very loving relationship. It is based on mutual trust and respect that comes from open and honest communications.

Female: Mrs. Mule is a child of the 1960’s “women’s liberation movement.” Unlike a lot of other feminists, she is not a man hater, nor does she deny her own femininity. She is a very confident and strong person, and very much a WOMAN.

Authority: Mrs. Mule is not a dominatrix, however, she has no problem taking charge and running with any problem. This was a trait that attracted me to women even as a teen.

Mrs. Mule is not dominating, but she does accept my submission. I love doing things for her, because I love her. The only thing that “ruins” the fantasy is that she does so many nice things back :-).

I have told Mrs. Mule all my fantasies. She understands what I like and those things with which she is comfortable, she will do for me because, she loves me too. She knows that I have written kinky stories. She knows I know kinky people and has even met some of them herself. And she approves even if she does not participate herself.

All I can say is that to be able to trust someone so much that you can be completely vulnerable before her and know that she will take care of you and protect you is very reassuring. It is a demonstration of our love for each other.

I think it would be quite difficult to be in a long term relationship with the stereotype dominatrix. It’s just unrealistic…for me.

I imagine lovingly taking her coat off when she gets home from work, bringing her tea, breakfast in bed. Her guidance to help be become a better “pet” and person.

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