Many of the female led relationship blogs have grown silent. The husband met frustration and failure in his effort to convince his wife to take the reins of the marriage in her hands and treat him as vassal and subject.
Some of these tales were very sad. The man would acquire, say, a CB2000 and sought to get his wife to become his chastity keyholder. Sometimes the wife might oblige but only in unimpassioned, barely interested fashion. Only to please him when he wanted control of his sexuality to please her.
Or he’d buy a collar only to discover that she remained dead to the symbolism.
The wife would be at best tolerant; at worst disgusted in the change she saw in the man she married.
He’d try waiting on her hand and foot, hoping to win her over to loving female authority by stealth submission. There are people out there who preach that as sure means of conversion. Indeed the rhetoric of FLR at times can be terrifyingly pious as if it were a religion like Scientology.
That a woman can be converted to FLR if you only find the right method is as foolish as the idea that a lesbian hasn’t met the right man.
I could never think of any way to comfort or advise these men.
Originally posted 2008-05-15 12:00:43.