Real Women Never Do Anything
But some men do report that after a full day of work they come home and do all the cooking, cleaning: every single household chore. And the wife merely lies back like the old-fashioned husband that she is supposedly superior to.
Like many things said on the web, this must be read with some skepticism. The amount of time spent cleaning the bathroom suggests that the home is mostly bathrooms. Judging by the quantity of ironing it sounds as if the woman must’ve gone out of her way to avoid ready to wear fabrics.
Some men probably do become fulltime houseboys if not house slaves. But most FLR couples normally perform tasks around the house. The husband’s are perhaps specified and used as part of reward and punishment games including orgasm control.
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July 17th, 2007 at 3:24 pm
[...] Real Women Never Do Anything Their submales make them look lazy. [...]
August 11th, 2007 at 12:14 pm
I take offense to the idea that I may be perceived as lazy. Yes I work, bring home the paycheck, pay the bills and make all the final decisions but that does not make me lazy at home. At home we do share work. My husband does most of the house cleaning but there are some chores I would just assume do myself. I like to garden but he mows the lawn. He does most of the cooking but I am the better cook. We have a partnership, it’s just that I am the “senior” partner and we live according to my agenda, needs.
August 12th, 2007 at 5:59 am
The gist was that some men are reporting lives of intolerable inequality and servitude and that those reports are probably not to be believed.
May 5th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
I don’t really know why not, Richard. I agree it’s probably mostly fantasties, but it seems like plenty of women work full time and then come home and do virtually of the housework and child care, so I don’t know why it couldn’t be true that some men have that dual role.
May 21st, 2008 at 6:12 am
Mrs. Mule and I have evolved into a division of labor. There are some things each of us do better than the other. There are some things she absolutely forbids me to do.
I am not allowed to use the washing machine and dryer, nor am I allowed to use the dishwasher. She doesn’t like the way I “do” these things.
We both admit that I am superior when it comes to ironing and vacuuming (I have no problem lifting the end of the couch to vacuum under it). I’ve gotten very good at ironing just about anything. (Comes from years of ironing my military uniforms).
Otherwise schedule takes over. She gets home well before I do, so she cooks. (If we waited until I got home and cooked, we’d be eating at 9 PM). My job is the post-dinner cleanup (big dishes and cookware that does not go in the dishwasher), table, trash (Mrs. Mule doesn’t even know where the trash can is).
Elsewhere around the house, she does the gardening (plants the flowers), I do the blasting of the concrete that masquerades as soil around her and generally act as beast of burden.
She does most of the work in the pool (outdoors but very private), but I am the naked pool boy for tasks that require getting into the pool (at 68 degrees it’s a little chilly).
My only criticism is that she occasionally complains about certain aspects of housework instead of asking me to help. There are two things that will help this situation: 1) I have to know what it is she is trying to do, 2) I have to be there to see what she is doing.
Otherwise, I do not feel “trapped” by housework, and neither does she. It’s actually fun doing some of the chores together.
May 21st, 2008 at 9:03 am
Lots of self-proclaimed dominants use d/s as an excuse to try to justify their own greed and laziness. Not all, obviously, but some. They don’t like housework, so they pawn it off on someone else and try to slap a d/s label on it. Their motivation has nothing to do with bdsm and everything to do with a selfish, manipulative mentality. Just by calling it bdsm, they think that instantly changes the nature of housework. That’s one reason I don’t read Lady Misato, Elise Sutton, or any of the others who espouse this way of thinking.
Every d/s couple I know shares the housework. Or if they don’t live together, they do their own. A d/s relationship is still a relationship, which entails love and effort.
A few couples I know do incorporate housework as part of a role-play, but at least they admit that it’s a role-play.
June 6th, 2008 at 4:15 pm
I earn the living and my wife makes the rules and enforces them. At one time I was every inch her fultime submissive. I loved it. She found it to be rewarding in that she enjoyed abusing her husband. This was a perfect relation, a real win-win.
I wonder why more women do not enforce their natural superiority? They would be surprised how easily they could set this into motion.