Strap-on play is big on power exchange, male humiliation in female led lore. It is the Foucaultian line that penetration is domination: demonstration of superiority.
For many gay and bisexual men who (unlike Foucault) aren’t D/s bottoms this is an opinion from the planet Pluto.
The prostate gland likes being massaged: it simply feels good. Some gay male bottoms have physical orgasms when penetrated by a gifted top.
If it weren’t for the perceived power exchange in anal sex vanilla men could have a good time if their girlfriends and wives used strap-on dildos.
I’m not suggesting you shouldn’t enjoy feeling submissive. Just laughing at the conventional men who are missing potential pleasure.
Added later:
A DVD that has proven a successful and reliable way to introduce strap-on sex to wives and girlfriends is Carol Queen’s Bend Over Boyfriend .
Originally posted 2008-03-15 15:00:43.
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i want to try the strap on sex i am not gay and i just want my wife to try it with me. she is willing to use the vibrators but not the strap ons how do i get her to work with me see after she does her thing i do mine to her that is how id like it to work
If you want to introduce strap-on sex to your wife, I suggest you get a copy of Bend Over Boyfriend . It is designed to take the fear and confusion out of the issue.
My wife takes me when ever she wants. Sometimes it’s with me being bent over the couch, other times I’m in the dipper position and she looks into my eyes as she milks me dry.
Usually I wait until my males sac is heavy with cum, this is usually about 2 weeks. I then remove his chastity device and fuck the cum out of him. Sometimes I have him hold a gold gifting bowl to expel his subservient lust seed into which he then enjoys humbly offering to me while I am standing and he is on his knees head looking down in submission and raising the male offering.
Depending on my mood and if he has sufficiently pleased me I sometimes drink it which is very rewarding for a male. Second to this is allowing him to place it on my goddess body and massage it in with a foot massage.
Other times it pleases me to make him drink it or have him throw it in the toilet or garbage. Either way he understands what a privileged it is for him to be able to even give me his seed. Any good male realizes this and will do just about anything to be allowed this opportunity. From bringing home a paycheck, utility around the house, hard labor with his muscles or worshiping my body, it just depends on what I find the male useful for.
Thank you. I Already ordered the book and dvd Bend Over. Now and only to have the opurtonidade to show her and to have courage for that.
Tanks ENOCK
What I want to say and if for example my wife would strapon on me? I would look forward to it … but me that strapon and what her reaction?
Are you asking what her reaction to the idea of sodomizing you with a strap-on dildo would be? Her response would be individual to her and you know her. We don’t. What do you think your wife’s response to your interest in being anally penetrated would be?
If you are wanting to introduce the idea of strap-on sex you might get a copy of the book and DVD Bend Over Boyfriend .
I like this topic … but be that all women will understand?
Are you asking is if all women will understand is your pleasure in it? Or do you think women will think it the only way to have sex?
When I read some of the other comments I noticed no one mentioned how important hygine is to fun strapon play. Other than the pain some people experience when they are penetrated for the first time, the next most common complaint is the fear of having an unwanted experience with fecal matter. I have both douche containers and the old syringe set to make sure I am ready to have a clean and enjoyable strapon session. Oh by the way, for those of you who are into that, never mind.
I also love the intense feelings of pleasure I get from being taken with a strapon dildo. I am bi-sexual but I do not like to deal with males it gets too complicated. my wife is not able to be as dominate as I want her to be. She tries and does use the strapon dildo on me.
I love the feeling of being taken with a strapon, I’m not submissive but a no holes barred , no limits , try anything sexual relationship is a wonderful thing!
oh do i love this topic. most males i know would never let a woman fuck them in the ass…but you know what? when they finally get around to it they love it. i can’t think of anything better than slipping on my strap-on over my jeans then having my male rub his hand on my crotch..feeling my hard fake cock underneath. this gets him so hot and me too. what in the world is wrong with changing roles when it is so much fun..Jade
lol, i think i love you
Hi there, I have a question though . Why is that when fiction and written novels stop it is always so hard to find anyone (and I refer to females) willing to take a serious action? I am not gay, not even bi, never tried anal before ( I have only found out about strapons on the Net..) and yet I believe that I would love to meet a dominant female ( but NOT a professional) and get fucked furiousely in the ass. I’d want someone who really enjoyed dominating (and perhaps even humiliating men). Young, milf, skinny or fat… it doesn’t matter! I believe the all core satisfaction to be the loss of power and the unnatural enthusiasm that drives a girl to madness while penetrating and so governating a man. But then again, why girls are so hideously getting stiff on this? Why don’t they ever make a move on guy in that direction? Do we always have to take initiative here? Even when switching roles??!!! … or is that they do not like it at all? I mean fucking guys in the ass?
I love fucking gilrs in the ass. I love every inches I give to them. The all know that you are aiming to sadistically hurt them and yet still getting pleasure from it. Domination. Sadism. It must be the same for them. Isn’t it?
Like CBT Marie’s comment that it is just another tool in playing with orgasm control and denial.
Right on with both of you and the origional poster.It can be another way of experiencing pleasure and does not neccesarily mean tha just because you are being penetrated you are the submissive.If you think about it this is insulting to a dominant Womyn as when She engulfs you She is not being submissive.
I began incuding strapon’s in our play time several years ago. Initially, I used the strapon to add new dimesnions of control over my hubby. Now, I enjoy the strapon for the physical pleasure it can give me as well. I have two strapon harnesses. Each has a different sized attachement that I pick depending on my mood.
My hubby has learned to really enjoy my ministrations and almost always expereinces intense “anal” orgasm as well as traditonal orgasm. Lately, I have begun to ride him to near orgasm (anal or regular) and then stop. For me, this has become another form of denial that I use to keep my needs foremost in hubby’s thoughts and deeds.
Two words of suggestion, “lube” and “silicone”. If you’re new to this, do yourself and your sub a favor and use lots of lube. I use liquid silk. Also, avoid the non-silicon dongs at all costs.
A a final suggestion, I learned from trial and erros, do not try to use a Feeldoe or Nexus – while they appear to provide stimulus for the wopman, they haven’t for me. They also require very difficult positions for newbies.
I consider myself attracted to D/s, though my gf doesn’t feel quite confortable about it. Nevertheless, we have had anal play often, and we just bought a strap-on. It’s just discovering new pleasure, and we both like it.