My hubby has learned to really enjoy my ministrations and almost always expereinces intense “anal” orgasm as well as traditonal orgasm. Lately, I have begun to ride him to near orgasm (anal or regular) and then stop. For me, this has become another form of denial that I use to keep my needs foremost in hubby’s thoughts and deeds.

Two words of suggestion, “lube” and “silicone”. If you’re new to this, do yourself and your sub a favor and use lots of lube. I use liquid silk. Also, avoid the non-silicon dongs at all costs.

A a final suggestion, I learned from trial and erros, do not try to use a Feeldoe or Nexus - while they appear to provide stimulus for the wopman, they haven’t for me. They also require very difficult positions for newbies.