Comments on: Enforced Chastity Makes for a Better Man

By: coleen

coleen — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 06:37:28 +0000

love the idea of chastity belts for men. It would make pussy worship a mustl. My wife likes me dressed in drag and full bondage for the night. After servicing her orally she rolls over and leaves me in her boots, bras and panties with the rope around my feet and hands. In the morning I must service her again if I am to be released

By: Linda

Linda — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 01:23:51 +0000

As a young woman fairly new to FD I have been very keen to explore chastity with my boyfriend Bob. I restrict his orgasms to about one every 3 or 4 weeks. We,ve tried a proper belt but its not very satisfactory frankly and so far I’ve relied on simple kitchen string and the like; at leastyou can see if its been interfered with. Bob promises of course not to wank but everybody knows just how weak men are in this respect. The strengh of his erection tells you a lot as well as the increased agitation as time goes by. Our best run has been 6 weeks and I myself ame six times in one evening and got a big thrill out of seeing his tears of frustration and then just saying “No”. When I do allow it I insist its recycled. I have him lie on his back with his feet up against the wall so his cock is staring him in the face. It doesnt take long before its spurting out into his mouth where it can be swallowed and – according to my theory, used again as it were! We did this in a wood last summer with his legs up a tree trunk and as it dribbled off his nose I held his cock and told him to pee. “O please no Linda” he begged but Hey! you dont tell me what I want and dont want want and soon his full bladder was letting go, soaking his head. He explained afterwards its “difficult “when you;ve just shot your load. Difficult! I gave him difficult later with plenty of cane before tea (which invariably means more cane later).

Interestingly when I first started going out with boys in my early teens I liked nothing better than leaving them “High and Dry” after an evenings hetic snogging and feeling up. That was the expression we girls used to signify he really wanted it but didnt get it and we’d giggle about it.

By: femsup

femsup — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 14:06:28 +0000

I do not become any less submissive after “orgasm” because I know that my submission is a thing to be worked at and I consciously make an effort to show that I am still attentive and obedient.Just as She may fall asleep after Her and thus our orgasm I too will often fall asleep with Her even if I have been denied.Its so nice just to share a cuddle or spooning together after we have achived Her/our orgasm.

When it comes to my orgasm or more appropriately called release (the male orgasm or release being a distantly related poorer cousin to the proper Female orgasm) the time after may be as long and cuddly as when wwe get Her to where She wants to be or as little as a second depending on Her whim and needs.For instance I have been told after coming with a tap on the chest and a slap on the balls to get into the bathroom clean myself up and go downstairs and fetch Her a glass of water immediately .

I may want to lay back and savour my orgasm the first for weeks but Her immediate need is to slake Her thirst.I don’t think I take longer than another second or two to get up and stumble into the bathroom and then rush downstairs and back up again with water.

She understands full well why there is my tardiness by a couple of seconds.And knows I would rather lie there in Her arms face on her chest or on my back all blissed out but appreciates I make sure I still put Her first.She accepts my wanting to bask in the glow of my release is normal and that Her demands of me need not have to be met and that I could discuss with Her and ask for time to savour things.But it is I who wants to get up because She needs something.

My attitude at that moment may be one of dissapointment but not lack of submissiveness.I will go about things later or the next days in a contented glow from the joy She has given me.

By: Enoch Soames

Enoch Soames — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:27:59 +0000

Excessive orgasm denial is self-defeating: after a certain period of time the man becomes habituated and the loss of orgasms has minimal emotional effect.

By: tacslave

tacslave — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:06:30 +0000

As a baseline I’m of the tendancy that it shouldnt be absence of orgasm, but definatly handing over permission for any orgasm. Complete chastity is a tool but could be counterproductive as focused and controlled orgasm’s are another more useful tool to achieve and sustain male subjugation.

By: Howard

Howard — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 17:49:00 +0000

When I was a teenager, we used to do ‘master baiting’ at our rather snobby school by getting them into conversations so we didnt have to do any work!

By: Howard

Howard — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 17:46:31 +0000

I just dont like this idea that testosterone is a bad thing in a man. We agree that my wife should lead our relationship because she is a better leader than I would be but I have absolutely no intention of messing up my system with artifical hormonal rubbish and becoming a desexed subbie zombie. Men are entitled to pleasure but they need to learn some skills and self control. See my above post about tantric orgasms. I think thats the way to go. By the way, I love being submissive but there is nothing wrong with being dominant as well, so long as we realise we are role playing. Its the dance of energy, the learning to enjoy heightened pleasure and, yes, intimacy, that we need and it is that which excites. I love my erections and so does my wife and dont want to be defined by anyone’s rules, least of all the ‘rules’ of the D/s police!!!