Male Chastity is Sexy
Chastity is one of the most popular topics in female led relationships.
While men often boast of how much better being forbidden orgasms – sometimes even erections – makes them that really isn’t the issue.
It is almost always the man who introduces chastity. The man who seduces his wife or girlfriend into having him wear a male chastity belt. After all women normally bond with men assuming there will be mutual orgasms arrived at in fairly conventional ways.
Really it is the man who seeks to find expression for his submissive desires in the loss of orgasms. It is his thrill. One that women easily adapt to. Either because their spouse or lover is sexually lazy or selfish or because they assume him a slave to them already.
But I think men should admit that for them is a hot part of voluntary erotic slavehood: there’s no shame in liking it. They enjoy feeling the woman as keyholder’s power. And how good sex feels when it is allowed.
No need to dress up something done for fun as a kind of solemn morality play.
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December 23rd, 2007 at 11:19 am
Well said. Chastity is just plain hot. There’s no need to justify it.
Some people just have a hard time admitting they actually like something. Maybe it’s shame, not coming to terms with their own kinks, or maybe they want to believe in that whole “it’s all about her” propaganda.
December 23rd, 2007 at 4:05 pm
That is, indeed, well said. Nevertheless, there is a certain distinction that I think is important between wanting something you want and wanting something you don’t want. Many more men seem to find the notion of enforced chastity much hotter than simply being chastised. That, in itself, deserves some recognition. It doesn’t change or negate anything you have said here, but many men sometimes feel as though liking enforced chastity is somehow not the same as liking non-enforced chastity, and of course, they are mistaken.
February 6th, 2008 at 8:32 pm
I’m a male and there is some truth to your claim that men normally initiate the chastity device fantasy. However, I found the fantasy much better than the reality. In the middle of the night, laying there awake at 3 am in the morning beside my woman, unable to sleep after a week in prison the reality was more than I could handle. When I woke my woman up telling her that I couldn’t take it anymore, I was devastated to hear her say she was adding more days because I broke the rules. I played by the rules to get free, but I didn’t find being submissive much fun. Climbing the walls wanting relief quit being fun on day one, after a week … well, I don’t plan to do it again.