Masturbating About Chastity

If your wife doesn’t want to lock your penis up in a CB6000 wouldn’t it be better for you to stop having all those covert orgasms over the idea of being denied orgasms?

If she doesn’t want to make you chaste then isn’t bugging her about chastity just pushy?

Originally posted 2008-04-01 01:00:18.

Comments

  1. Big Pussy says

    That is all correct… however, men in general (I certainly do) love to masturbate. It feels good, it takes the edge off and releases the stress. If she doesn’t want to lock me up or to make me chaste, I have no interests in being chaste on my own. Especially when it comes to masturbating.

  2. says

    I know a couple who claim to be into voluntary chastity on the part of the husband.

    I think it is a wonderful ideal and one that can be accomplished by people really dedicated to the practice. I don’t think it’s something I can do even at my advanced age.

    One of the things about enforced male chastity that makes it exciting is the idea that the woman is paying attention to the man’s penis.

    I think this starts off as early as about 5 or 6 where little boys are proud to show off their stuff to little girls.

    There may be a number of fantasies and fetishes based on this: CFNM, CBT, forced masturbation, SPH, teasing and denial and enforced chastity.

    Men like it when women pay attention to their penises, even if the attention is negative.

  3. Bob says

    We played with a CB-2000 and then got a CB-3000, but when my wife knew I failed
    to perform, she knew I had masturbated. After that she began to be rather stern and demanding
    about requiring me to always wear it.
    I feel that she values it and does not want me wasting it and of course would not allow anyone else to use it.
    I feel loved because she demands it stay locked. Because of it I am driven by my pent up
    desire to serve and please her putting her needs first.
    I just can’t help myself. I know I have a small penis and it excites me to think about her keeping it locked up
    while she is free to do as she pleases.
    Locked up, I’ll always be at her side.

  4. Leah says

    I think it is stupid and unethical to lock a person’s genitalia up.

    Further, I think it shows low self esteem to desire being locked up.

  5. says

    I won’t argue your first point – you are correct – you think it is stupid and unethical. However would you mind telling us why?

    I seem to be missing a few steps in your logic that it shows low self-esteem to desire to be locked up. There is obviously a reason for your thinking so, and I’d like to hear it.

  6. nathanyl says

    Surely the ultimate form of chastity would be self monitored? If your penis is locked up than of course you can’t do much what if you simply didn’t masturbate? This idea seems the easiest form of BDSM/Femdom to enjoy if you have an unwilling partner.

  7. glowinside says

    I initially suggested to my wife that chastity was a good idea, and now she has has totally run with it. She says she doesn’t want me to come very often at all, and says she likes it because it makes me really hard during sex, and also more obedient. She also says it makes me look younger, and smell good (or at least, a bit better).

    No device, though. I masturbate often, but not to full orgasm, just to the brink. It feels amazing after a while, especially combined with kegel muscle exercises. Sometimes, small amounts of prostate fluid or even come leak out, and I have what feels like a medium-strength orgasm, but I am still hard afterwards and can keep going and have a few more. Most I’ve had is about four. I hope this is the first step in learning how to have multiple orgasms during sex. That’s the goal, but it’s still a way off, though.

    So for me and Michelle, my chastity (or, denial of full ejaculatory orgasm) is awesome, and is a central component in our arrangement. I wouldn’t like a device long term – I couldn’t get into multiple orgasms or tantra that way. Maybe it might be fun to wear one to work or something a few times, but certainly not all the time. Seems like more of a novelty thing for me.

    And I can’t believe in a situation that was totally ‘forced’ chastity. In my case it’s basically voluntary, but I get cool reinforcement and kudos from Michelle who regularly tells me that I am “not allowed” to come because she loves it when I am chaste. This makes it easier to keep going.

    But at the end of the day, if I really wanted to come, I probably would, and then just tell her and suffer the consequences. It’s just that chastity is better most of the time.

    I have to say, single orgasms from masturbation were never that amazing for me anyway.

  8. josie says

    answer to Leah aug 27.
    Most submissive males love chastity as it makes us much more submissive and
    obedient to the superior females. They control our sex and minds.
    We also must sit down to pee and become more feminized, the power of cock
    control!!!
    josie

  9. zen heliotrope says

    It’s unhealthy to totally deny men their orgasms, hurts the prostate. CDs should be frankly discussed by both partners. I may be a woman’s property but she better take care of me if she wants to keep me! There are numerous ways a lady might enjoy unlocking a man. But even if she doesn’t enjoy it, a man’s cock should be freed once in a while, that’s just a basic medical fact. If some people are that extreme that’s their business I guess.

  10. Frank A says

    I don’t need a chastity device and never did. This is because I only masturbate to my lady, only with her permission and only while she watches. But I will mention this to her. The reverse sexism of a lovely lady being so jealous and possessive of me as to want to lock up my genitalia is an intense turn on. As I touch myself I always tell her how beautiful she is, how I am shameless before her and always will be. It is part of our foreplay. I must speak to her about doing this in front of her and her friends while they are fully clothed. This would change everything about it maybe. I would love it if she ordered a striptease for herself and her friends and as an afterthought had to reach in her purse and hand me the key!

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