100% Chastity

That a man should be subjected to complete and total orgasm denial is one of those funny little things you sometimes run across. Particularly in the out of control comments some men leave on LFA / FLR blogs.

Funny isn’t it how the image never, ever being allowed to orgasm excites some guys. A sure sign that someone’s fantasies are out of control. They doubtlessly wank at the prospect of being forbidden to wank.

Much, much more rarely – professional online dominatrices aside – to you see women advocate doing this to men.

People who practice sanity-aware consensual orgasm denial in real life often note that when taken too far chastity becomes boring. Often instead of creating the suffering hunger men imagine it causes the male sex drive to flatline, to die.

The chastity game becomes pointless and boring.

So wank to permanent orgasm denial if you enjoy it. But never forget that in a real relationship it is just a plain nutty idea.

Originally posted 2008-05-04 23:58:16.

Comments

  1. F-P says

    This may be true but also may be insignificant. Some observations:

    1) Complete & total denial does not seem all that common, from what I’ve seen. (Some sites specifically warn against extending denial too far.)

    2) Reaction to complete denial probably varies by person. (I imagine most catholic priests at least attempt this, and certainly it is unsuccessful at eliminating their sex drive in many cases).

    3) Most significantly, the issue would seem to be self-correcting, since the desire for submission is primarily driven by sexual urges to begin with. Anyone who took chastity too far and killed his sex drive as a result would also lose the submissive feelings in the process, and with it the desire for enforced chastity.

  2. says

    It is all about power. Forcing men to be chaste or even not to have an orgasm is one of the ultimate forms of female domination. The urge in most men is so strong that forced denial puts the woman on a pedelstal of belligerent control. Of course everything has limits.

  3. NoRealChoice says

    I have played with chastity and I can’t say it is anything more than play. The most I have ever been able to manage, for reasons of comfort, mostly (hygeine being taken care of) is a week. However, the eroticism of having your sexuality under the control of your lover ( and on one amazing weekend, her female friend – who held the key for that weekend) is quite uniquely poignant.

  4. femsup says

    The poster mentioned continued and permanent orgasm denial.What could happen is that barring mistakes and accidents or a male committing an offence this could still be incredibly hot for both.
    If the Womyn who either holds the key or the enforces a voluntary honour system wanks and plays with the male each day or several times a day but never gives him an orgasm he can be driven wild with lust.
    I understand how with just locking him up and never playing with him a male can lose his sex drive but with the practice of manipulating him daily both sides win.The male experiences very pleasurable sensations and will want to come but is not allowed and the Womyn get to have that thrilling sense of power and can play with Her toy.

  5. Nat: says

    I really would enjoy this especially if it included my wife and I. Being locked in a CB and her with a lock on her pussy. Then we could serve a dominant female and she could use us as she wants, sex toys, duties around her house, entertain her friends etc!

  6. Andy says

    What a silly article. Clearly the writer has never experienced chastity play. Sure you read stories of men going months with orgasm, but in reality a couple of weeks is amazing. It trebles sexualy appetite, turns the woman on to have such power and there is nothing quite like the promise of “tomorrow my pet” which you know wont happen.

    The only downside is when release is finally given, there is a sense of disappointment bacuase the anticipation has been taken away. Until the next time !

    Try it, it is an amazing experience !

    Andy

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