Comments on: Underwear for Submissive Men

By: Dave Down Under

Dave Down Under — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 10:45:44 +0000

For about 2 1/2 years when I was in my early 20′s my girlfriend and I experimented some what with power play. During one of our fun nights, as she sat upon me I took of her silk nightie and it fell down my arms. She pulled it over my head, switched my arms in the loops and twisted it so that it was the right way and we had sex while I wore it. After we finished she asked me to keep it on and we slept that way until morning. From that night on I slept every night in a silk nightie and must admit enjoyed it very much.

From here it progressed to her painting my toe nails a baby pink colour one night while she was doing hers and from here on in eventuated as a permanent fixture.

Again as things progressed it ended up in me wearing a pair of her silk panties during the occasional session and on some occasions she made me ware them when we went out.

From this point on I have now always had a craving for panties. The feel of the material, the minor discomfort (as they are not made for men’s bits), the look (hell of allot more sexy looking than boxers or briefs) and the vulnerability you feel when you ware them is something you never forget and can not be replaced.

As to whether my ex-girlfriend was a dominant person I would have to say no, infact more the opposite in that she was insecure. The power it gave her by doing what she did to me (admittedly without to much objection from me) was in knowing that I would not stray and I didn’t.

Lastly in saying all of the above I admit it was her idea however I enjoyed every part of it. Thirteen years down the line and I still miss the fun we had and often wish I could still enjoy the freedom it brought, however, wonder where it would have ended up and whether the fantasy is better than the reality.

By: charleen

charleen — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:40:15 +0000

any kind of woman’s panties are fine but the sexier the better

By: marc

marc — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:08:17 +0000

Panties

By: pammy

pammy — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 13:02:50 +0000

my wife knows when I wear panties I am always in my subspace.I am more of a sissy than she would like, but she loves the control she has over me and likes being the King of the castle and I her Queen.

By: chaste

chaste — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 10:01:48 +0000

Well i prefer Thongs and especially ladies thongs. Makes me feel really submissive. Boxers and briefs are really uncomfortable comparing to female lingerie and especially compared to thongs.

By: vill

vill — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 12:48:54 +0000

I have been wearing panties,as well as having my toenails painted red on a daily basis. This keeps me in a more submissive frame of mind.Mistress likes seeing me dressed this way.and this is one of her rules for me. I adore Mistress and I do love my panties.

By: Mistress Amy

Mistress Amy — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 14:20:17 +0000

As a woman and the head of my household, I can tell you that I INSIST that my husband wear panties, bra, camisole and either stockings or pantyhose every day. He does not enjoy this but I find that a male is very obedient and compliant when wearing lingerie. There is very little “male ego” left and I continually use this to remind him of his status. When there is resistance (going to our female internist) I have done things like spraying him with perfume. I love the control! And yest, women who feminize their husbands DO exist!! Do I find my sissy in make-up and a babydoll nightie sexy- of course not! But the power rush it gives me…delicious. I will tell tell my sissy husband about the real men I would like to date (never will- I’m monogamous) while I’m doing his make-up and how I would dress him up to serve my fictitious date- it’s fun (at least for me).

By: Tribal

Tribal — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 12:26:11 +0000

I prefer to wear ladies sexy lingerie, lacy thongs, ruffled boyshorts, something I love seeing on a beautiful woman. In my head it makes me feel submissive and a reminder I am here to please. Kind of a reversal from what women must feel always having to dress in skimpy outfits etc. I know women don’t see it like that and a lot even enjoy the power it gives them over men. My GF is new to these games of sexual adventure which I have introduced her to slowly. She accepts me wearing a lacy thong and maybe a lil’ skimpy pleated mini skirt(only about 3 inches) while I rub her feet etc. She also loves having me strapped up in a Gates of Hell whenever we explore this erotic and sensual playground. I think for the most part females accept us wearing lingerie but don’t see it the same. Bare in mind I am a totally straight male, never even curious(I only state this for perspective as I am curious how many submales like this fetish who are not gay, I am not against or trying to offend, I think everyone should be free to explore their own likes, dislikes etc. as long as it is consensual when involving another),but have always had a taste for and a good eye when outfitting girlfriends in the past with sexy underthings. It has only been recently that I actually tried on any ladies sexy things which I have always loved on ladies. It was a thrill, and my ex and I had a few wild and fun times and she never made me feel wrong, and it just added another element of erotic foreplay to our very sexual relationship. Unfortunatley, that was the only thing we had going for us, everything else was such a struggle I or I guess you coudl say we had to cal it quits. It hurt me a lot and was a long tough road to get over but it takes two in a RL to make it work, you can only carry someone for so long. Anyway, there is a lil about me. Thanks for letting me express… Keep thinking good things, Tribal

By: hunkinapron

hunkinapron — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 13:16:13 +0000

i get much of my undergarments from http://www.xdress.com and my beautiful Wife loves them!

By: Brooke

Brooke — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 01:00:10 +0000

For submissive men, I think the ultimate underwear choices are:
a) Nylon panties if he is or plans to be sexually active, or,
b) Over-sized white briefs, or over-sized white or fancy boxer shorts if he chooses not to be. They should be worn so the top extends to, or preferably above, his navel. With briefs, the garment should “hang” loose so to conceal his “bulge” easily. With boxers, they should be wide enough so the sides flap about when he walks.
My husband wears these. To me as a woman, this look trivializes his sexuality which, in a female-led relationship, can be quite appealing.