A man reports that his girlfriend doesn’t understand the importance of consent:
Okay i’ve been in this relationship for 3 months now and something is bothering me
yesterday my girlfriend asked me if we could do some femdom/bondage role play. I reluctantly agreed. Next thing i know, i was strapped down to the bed, with rope around the holsters. She was smiling at me and then she did it. He pulled up her skirt and pooped in my mouth. I was in shock when it was happening. She asked me to try to swallow it then after 2-5 minutes she got her foot and shoved it down my mouth while I was still chewing. Tell me what you thing because she is a great girl, kind *cept during sex) and generally loving.
Sure, this might be your fantasy. (Actually it might be his, you never know what is real.) But even submissive guys have a right to risk aware consensual kink (RACK).
Should I break up with this girl after femdom roleplay?
Originally posted 2010-07-05 12:19:11.
This is either a wanker fantasy, or abuse.
Anybody that goes into this level of extreme play (as scatplay is IMO) without discussion and prior consent should be banned from using the term BDSM. BDSM only exists due to consent given and that to me seems lacking. Some femdom play and bondage is not akin to scatplay which is a hard limit for a lot of kinky people.
Without consent BDSM can easily become abusive. Kinky people live a fine line between the two that is why you need to make damn sure that you partner is aware at all time of intentions and the dominant has the responsibility to ensure that all communications regarding the extremities of the play are understood and hard limit are always adhered to