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Gay Sadist, faggot humiliation cover?
‘Faggot’ humiliation?

As a queer-identified Kinsey 3 who has often called himself a fag the use of faggot in femdom humiliation scenarios is one of the few kinky things that squicks me. Most strongly because faggot was a term of abuse some of my lovers faced as boys in school. Possibly from the lips of the same men who now want it used against them.

I guess some purely heterosexual masochistic males want to be called faggot. But some of the men who crave this term of verbal abuse are surely bisexual and acknowledging their sexual orientation in the half-assed but only way they can.

I don’t think femdom faggot baiting is that common a fetish. But it does seem to be one of the more common offerings of the “Ha! Ha! Wanker!” school of telephone prodommes, phone sex operators.

Is it homophobic men who most crave homophobic humiliation?

Originally posted 2009-02-13 08:20:25.

Comments

  1. says

    I don’t know – I know a few straight guys who want to be called “bitch”. No, it’s not explicitly homo, but I think that within the context it might be implied.

  2. Enoch Soames says

    Bitch is more slippery, contextual. Sometimes it is used as a synonym for slut, which is not always a harsh thing to be called and can even be an endearment: sexually energetic.

    Some gay men will use bitch as in “take me like the bitch I am” without meaning more than fuck me hard. But I’ve never known an ordinary gay man to want to be called faggot. That strictly belongs to gay verbal S&M.

    Of course the nuances are in the mind of the masochist.

    And it really is something I’ve seen on PSO sites only. I can’t think of a woman who doesn’t do dominance for money that enjoys calling a man faggot (though some must exist).

  3. big boy says

    Only white boys love this stuff and most of them are faggots anyway.
    All white girls are homos too.

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