Switching is Inauthentic
A switch is a person who enjoys being both dominant and submissive and/or sadist and masochist.
Many silly, foolish, idiotic people – mostly submissive males – say that a real dominant woman can’t switch. That if a woman can enjoy submitting as well as controlling she’s a fake, phony domme.
From a very, very long discussion of “real femdom:”
I’ve gotten so sick of being looked down upon as ‘not a *real* femdom’ because I also happen to have a masochistic streak. Part of the pleasure I take from switching, too, comes from the sense of *balance* it gives us. All the responsibility for making our sex life exciting doesn’t just rest on one of us. I don’t get feelings of guilt for being the dominant/sadistic one, because I know I can take exactly what I dish out. I just take it less often.
And, oh yeah, it’s fun.
Originally posted 2009-03-06 01:00:41.
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So she is an unread femdom? I have bottomed in the past, does that count too as not being real? Then again who decides what is real or not? Maybe we are just playing in Plato’s cave and confuse shadows with what is really happening.
One thing is for sure, the people who use these types of labels need to see an optometrist as they are rather shortsighted.
Monogamy and long-term relationships are Counter-Matriarchy and thus Counter-Femdom/Female-Led Relationships.
Kill The Matriarchy.
I wrote about this a little while back-
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As a Fem-Dom-Switch and as a multi-faceted human being, I find it interesting how people can categorize something as complex as a person’s sexuality into two boxes; Dominant and submissive.
How is that possible with all the variables? Honestly, I can’t wrap my mind, let alone define my sexuality, on such simpleton theory.