So many desperate submissive men write to dominant women on the dating sites offering themselves as worthless worms who’ll do anything.
Dominant women aren’t looking for worthless, inferior men:
Dominant women often look for highly intelligent men, someone they can talk to and discuss things with. Often men who are fairly assertive outside of the home, but have a gentle and submissive side too. A man who’s ok with showing his feelings. Physical appearance really depends on her individual taste… some dominant women like strong and masculine looking men, others prefer more effeminate men.
So give her a reason to think she might want to have dinner with you. Then she’ll be willing to consider whether or not she’ll enjoy controlling you.