Dictatorship Relationship Friendship
Many submissive males are enamored of images of personal dictatorship. They are so hungry for authority that perhaps unwittingly they forget that dominance and submission is a form of relationship.
Some D/s play is done in a fairly impersonal fashion. But the ‘malesubs’ I’m thinking of don’t think that cleanly. Their penis - yes! - is going “Dominate me! Dominate me!” They are looking for matri-fascism.
I think it is fair to say that many dominant women are looking for a guy to dominate - playfully or otherwise - are seeking friendship as well. Friendship - tenderness and the like - enhance dominance and submission. They don’t want to settle for less: probably will not settle for less.
If you are looking for an authoritarian relationship you need to think about offering your friendship as well as your obedience.
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