Do You, Did You Have a Blog?
So many female led, loving female authority blogs grow silent or vanish. Why?
Some say they fear exposure. Perhaps. But unless you are insanely unwise how can anyone learn who you are?
Some women grow weary of the advice and admonitions of pushy submissive men who try to tell her how to live her marriage. Who can blame her?
Some men give up the search.
A few vanish when cuckolding goes wrong.
Some men claim they’ve found female led bliss and have nothing to say. Is it that they have no more fantasies to share?
Others plug away month after month, hoping to sell their lifestyle. Tireless in spreading the gospel of loving female authority.
How many of you have a FLR or LFA blog or are just silent lurkers?
4 Responses “Do You, Did You Have a Blog?”
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I have seen a lot of blogs come and go, even mine a couple of times. I think a day to day narrative of “wife whipped me because I didn’t fold the laundry correctly” doesn’t add much to the credibility to the lifestyle.
I would also hazard a guess that the way FLR is presented sounds to many women like “abdication of responsibility”. You’re going to zone out in your sexual fantasy while I shoulder more of the “reality” of the relationship and family life. Not all that appealing to some.
From a practical standpoint, I think some couples just come to the conclusion after exploration that the “female led bedroom” is as far as they want to go with this. It’s a fun, sexy game in a relationship of equals.
I always thought you said it the best in one of your great posts about vanilla couples exploring this lifestyle. You are both actors. You each play a part and then leave the stage. Very happily I might add:)
I agree that all these blogs are about fantasies (and am suspicious of much of what people write there about their lifestyles) but don’t think this has much to do with them dying out over time. Most blogs in general die out after a while, whether about FLR or anything else. After a while people get tired of it and move on to something else. And in the particular instance of FLR, there’s only so much you can write about the subject.
I predict that this website too will eventually be abandoned.
As a novice Domme and an avid writer for personal pleasure, when I found D/s I was happy to have such a huge and emotionally enjoyable topic to blog about. While my blog is intended for female readers, (as the premis of the blog is to write about the female side of things for a newbie) the confusing comments from men thwart my ambition.
Comments from men come from their perspective. So, while I can be enjoying my journey and post about something, the next thing I know a cryptic comment shows up. Then, I try to figure out what he’s talking about, put myself in his head, discover he’s not seeing it from the point of view I intended… and wind up frustrated.
There isn’t an easy cure besides turning off the comments, (which I suppose I’m going to have to do if I want to continue posting) but I hate the idea of missing comments from other women who might have some savvy advice or insight.
Grrrrr………………
On the best F/m blogs I read there are usually good comments from people of both genders.