Do You Need a Contract?
Within the BDSM community slave contracts are a common topic. Many have been written. Some quite bad. And nobody knows how many such contracts have been lived up to.
Within the perhaps less kinky and demanding realm of female led relationships should both parties perhaps craft some set of rule and regulations? Written statements of the roles including obligations both male and female have?
Such formal agreements could be considered a second set of wedding vows.
The real danger with such summaries, like many attempt at regulation is in unnecessary specificity, cumbersome complexity. But some may benefit by establishing boundaries clearly at the beginning. And any contract can be amended.
Earlier: Interspousal Agreements.
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June 6th, 2008 at 4:25 pm
When my wife and I began our D/s relationship (I am the submissive and then her maid), she made a contract that I signed. The only downside to this is that the woman can (and I suppose it is common to) dismiss the entire relationship and return to a traditional relationship.
June 7th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Mrs. Mule and I have a simple contract, “It won’t be boring.” 37 years and counting and it hasn’t been.
August 21st, 2008 at 9:15 pm
For me a contract verifies and silidifies what is expected of me. She can use it to humble
me and remind me of my place. Just her wanting it, requiring it is exciting.