Female Led Grocery Shopping
Some F/m blogs make me giggle. Here’s an example from one wanker who has been writing about it for years but never meets a woman:
For example, if you are in the produce section of a market, offer to push her cart. Offer to select some oranges for her if you are knowledgeable in this arena. Find some expertise within yourself and offer it to her gently; gently and with discretion. We all find ourselves in supermarkets, gas stations, and car washes. Develop skills that address these potential meeting areas and more. Be ready for real life. Be ready for your moment. A Dominant Lady will appreciate your savvy, social acumen, and offerings.
Sounds plausible to some guys I guess. Sounds like a pest to many women I’m sure.
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January 7th, 2008 at 8:46 am
Offer to push her cart? That sounds kind of creepy to me. And offering to pick out oranges for her is almost like saying, “You’re totally incompetent at grocery shopping, so let me do it for you.”
Besides, most dominant people I know want to be approached as people first, dominant second. Throwing your submission at someone (especially without making a personal connection first) usually isn’t a good idea.
January 7th, 2008 at 11:13 am
I think you should include a link when you quote someone. It’s polite.
I think most people would find that behavior creepy, but I guess it could MAYBE act as a dog whistle to certain doms. It would help if the guy was really hot.
January 7th, 2008 at 3:34 pm
That doesn’t sound like developing social prowess to me. More like practicing at being annoying.
January 7th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
I suppose it depends on the source. If it’s written by someone who has had success with it..I may consider it.
January 7th, 2008 at 10:07 pm
Be careful of you label a ‘wanker’ - that comment was written by a dominant woman and was in response to a question I asked her about what suggestions she has for submissive men to make themselves more attractive to dominant women. She generously wrote quite a bit. As for ‘never meeting a woman’ - I’d rethink that too. I meet plenty of women; just looking for the right one for me.
-john