I met Mrs. Mule at a High School dance and have essentially been out of the game since then. I wouldn’t know where to meet a woman now.

Although I’m not looking, doesn’t mean I don’t find. I’ve met a number of dominant women on line on venues other than boards.

I post. I write stories. I have a web site. All of these have “attracted” women to me. All platonic and totally electronic with a couple exceptions. I actually wound up meeting Ms. Amity on line. I also met, in real life, several other people from webland.

Ms. Amity and I are friends and now-and-again business partners. Mrs. Mule also knows her and we (spouses included) occasionally engage in vanilla activities.

So that can’t be all that bad.

There was a time…for more than a year, that I would spend 4 or 5 hours per night emailing, writing posts, profiles, CL posts…you name it.

More than 20 hours a week. and still didn’t find anyone. I stopped because it was depressing me. Now I meet the same number by not doing it.