Take it Slow, Don’t Rush Her
In the early stages of a girlfriend led love affair, wife led marriage there’s often a mismatch of expectations and desires.
The submissive boyfriend or husband is ready to be – at least imagines he is – to be her compleat slave. The woman has just begun exploring.
Over time she’s likely to become more and more comfortable with exerting authority over her beloved. And her taste for sadistic games may well increase.
But he’s already pushing for more now. Expressing frustration and disappointment that she isn’t exerting more female dominance. Pushing someone to feel dominant is the last thing to do to make them feel empowered. And it may cause her to abandon being on top altogether.
If you’ve convinced the woman you love to begin taking control be grateful and patient. Make sure this new experience is comfortable.
Make her happy: you claim that is the goal don’t you?
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December 18th, 2007 at 12:20 am
These words are so true. For more than 12 months I have been trying to convince my wife to accept and develop a female led relationship. At timers it was more than I could dream for, but ultimately it ended in failure and a separation of ways. This is a dangerous game we play with significant - and often unwanted - consequences. Be wary of what you wish for. There’s a dark side to any fetish.
September 11th, 2008 at 7:50 pm
Is it really female led if the man is trying to convince his partner to control him? I read a post on a site a while ago from a man who really wanted his wife to cuckold him - once to see what it was like. She was very reluctant but he kept badgering her until she finally agreed. Well guess what? That’s it now she loves it and what he wanted to try once has become his lifestyle. Be careful what you wish for, it might sound like fun to relinquish all control but once its gone its gone for good and you might not like what you have been begging for, alot of this ideas are great in fantasy or role play but not to live.