It is easy to mock and condemn ProDommes: women who fulfill men’s desires for money. But is that really worse than having nothing?
I know of a couple of men who say early experiences with professional dominatrices helped them learn about themselves and their need for submission. Both are now in long lasting ongoing loving relationships.
Have you ever thought seriously about hiring a dominatrix? Have you actually paid one?
If you did do you feel ashamed? Did it help you in any way?
Originally posted 2007-11-05 11:58:20.