It is easy to mock and condemn ProDommes: women who fulfill men’s desires for money. But is that really worse than having nothing?
I know of a couple of men who say early experiences with professional dominatrices helped them learn about themselves and their need for submission. Both are now in long lasting ongoing loving relationships.
Have you ever thought seriously about hiring a dominatrix? Have you actually paid one?
If you did do you feel ashamed? Did it help you in any way?
Originally posted 2007-11-05 11:58:20.
I have never paid a domme, to me BDSM is very personal even more personal than normal vanilla sex. I need to know the woman is getting turned on, I feel silly if I think she is just doing it for me. I am however considering applying to be a model in ballbusting clips.
I once spent a few weeks with a phone domme and it was free or at least I didn’t have to pay her it was a promo of some type. She took 2” off my waist, I went from 36 to a 34. She finally just hung up on me when I thought I was in love with her. I got over it and went out and had some sushi.
That’s a good idea, becoming a bdsm model I wish I had thought of it. That could satisfy my exhibitionism and my submissiveness quite nicely. And make a few bucks too, cool.