My wife and I have been at it for over 30 years. It started slowly with something as simple as what style under wear I wore. I went from boxers (it reminded her of her father - yuk!) to briefs to low rise to bikini and now I almost exclusively wear thongs that she buys me. I once tried to buy some “normal briefs” but somehow they got lost in the laundry.

After underwear it was the PJ’s. She still insists that I sleep nude all year long unless we are visiting family. If I come to bed with anything on, she makes sure it is removed before we are alseep.

Many years ago she wanted me to have a sexy “all over tan” and when nobody was around I was banished to the back yard pool in the buff. I nearly got caught when some of her friends dropped by unexpectedly and I had to remain glued to the chaise for 30 minutes before they left. Fortunately the back of the chaise was facing the house so nobody caught me, but my wife loves to tease me about the time I almost got caught.

So on and so forth. Her more recent thing is for me to be “smooth all over” for her. It started a few years ago when she had me in light bondage and decided to play “nurse” and “prepped” me with a shaved groin. I protested, to no avail. And it itched like crazy when it grew back in, so there was a lot of protesting on my part. But since then she has insisted and from time to time I relented and either the itching has eased up or I have gotten used to it, so now I am pretty much hairless all of the time. If there is even the slightest stubble, no affection until it is gone.

Once our kids left to be on their own at college, she encouraged me to wear less and less around the house, until I am naked almost all of the time I am home.

None of this was something I was comfortable with at first, but became comfortable with over time. Getting changed in a public dressing room at the pool or visiting a doctor was awkward at first, not too many other men at my age are hairless, tan all over, or wear thongs, but I learned to ignore any stares or comments which really have been few. I have just learned to respond, “My wife prefers me this way.”

Her method has always been one of positive reinforcement. She delights in the “little predicaments” that she places me into and then uses praise, affection and her sexuality to rewards me for my compliance. I like the attention and to see the delight on her face. So it works for us.

Besides to play the sub or especially the dominate role 24/7 is very tiring!