Female Tops Want Sane Male Bottoms
How many, many, many times have submissive men who want or have loving submissive male partners, lovers, husbands stated that:
- Dominant Women Don’t Want Wimps
- Dominant Woman Don’t Want Worthless Men
- Many Dominant Women Don’t Even Want Sissies
- Dominant Women Want a Man Who Can Contribute
- Dominant Woman Want a Man with Self-Respect
- Dominant Women Want a Man Who is Smart
- Dominant Woman Want a Man Who is Kind
Lonely submissive and masochistic men – you? – spend their spare time looking at pornographic images of cruel, crushing women and masturbate thinking about worse torments and degradations than a mortal body and mind could survive.
There’s nothing wrong with crazy I fantasies. I enjoy mine. I know female tops who have them as well (but – sorry – aren’t planning on making them real). Wank to crazy imaginings. But remember: don’t confuse your dark dreams with daylight possibilities.
Women want more than a wanker. Be mindful of what is possible and doable.
You have to seek your expectations in perspective if you’ll ever find a woman willing to top you. (Or you’ll have to pay for the experience.) Most likely much of what you think you want won’t be things she does. But given real experiences your desires and expectations will adapt to BDSM as it is lived.
Originally posted 2011-09-13 07:42:31.
This is so true. Sadly it is something that I don’t see that penny dropping by some males. Sad as often if they take their head out of fantasy, and should, ought to land then they are nice men.
Yet somehow they just can’t let go of the fantasy and with it the fantasy controls the relationship, not the woman. Or rather the primary relationship is with the fantasy, not with the woman they claim to serve