The etiology of my own kininess fascinates me. Some folks also enjoy that kind of interior inspection, others are indifference.
Since I’m pansexual and am attracted to women, men, transsexuals, crossdressers and genders as yet unconceived this guy’s question doesn’t exactly fit me. But perhaps you to have wondered about the sources of your need to submit to a woman.
Ok i’m a guy and from an early age i have had submissive sexual fantasies and stuff, from childhood…i am extremely submissive towards girls and i also love femdom, i’m 17…but i’m not one of these submissives who is only interested in acting out sexual fantasies and stuff, i’m also very psychologically submissive and would love to give myself to a tough, dominant but kind girl, loving girl, i don’t have a girlfriend but if i did i would want to please and serve her…. also i became aware of my submissive nature about 2 years ago, but me being submissive i’m not weak i’m actually a shy, but strong person….and anyway i really want to know what makes me submissive, am i born this way? i’ve done loads and loads of research on the internet and i’ve found very little…..according to some people i am born submissive, according to others i have self-esteem issues or an “inferiority complex” according to wikipedia i’m trying to relive childhood abuse and according to some i’m just a rare type of guy that worships and respects women and looks up to them as god-like……..
This is from Yahoo Answers. I may post several pointers there.