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Real Female Tops & Sadists?
I saw the question posed on some F/m website, URL forgotten: actual dominant woman out in the real world – strictly creatures of myth and fantasy?
Certainly there are women who enjoy exercising control in their romantic and sexual relationships. Female dominance is uncommon but not nonexistent. Submissive females – in the BDSM sense – are also uncommon. Regardless of power exchange orientation there are fewer kinky women than corresponding men.
Why aren’t there more female tops? Some mix of evolutionary psychology, gender specific biochemistry, socialization. As social norms continue to loosen women who have buried dominant inclinations will come to discern them. And with the diminution of stigma more women will engage in S&M and D/s.
Many submissive guys lack the social skills, mother wit and capacity for self-expression that would cause a female top to become interested in them. The seeming invisibility of dominant women is partly a product of male practice.
Originally posted 2009-03-22 20:54:53.
Ruined orgasms is the key phrase bringing the most traffic from search engines.
Not a big surprise. A number of the runner up terms involve orgasm denial and enforced male chastity. Perpetually popular topics in Femdom. That is why so many telephone dominatrices make a living forbidding men to have an orgasm. Though rendering an orgasm unsatisfying is certainly extra mean and cruel.
The second most popular topic is female superiority.
Guess you guys are looking for matriarchal fascists who ensure you have as little physical sexual satisfaction as possible.
In your fantasies anyway.
Originally posted 2008-03-03 20:57:00.
I always find some of this alien and baffling, hence I’m limited to the words of others.
My Mistress/Wife and I have been involved in D/s for several years now, mostly as play, but with time, it is becoming more of a lifestyle for us. For some time now I have been kept in panties. It started as part of the game. Every now and then I was told to wear a pair of lacy panties to work. As my panties collection grew my male underwear was eventually taken away.
I had to make all my own purchases, sometimes with Mistress, sometimes when she watched from a couple aisles away. This led to occasional wearing of nighties around the house, picked out for me by Mistress. I’m now in nighties nearly all the time. Most recently we went shopping and Mistress chose a ladies tank top and pair of ladies casual shorts. I now wear these out in the yard on household errands and go to the door in them when pizza is delivered, etc.
None of these acts has made me feel feminine. It’s a sign of my submission to Mistress, as her slave. Even being denied penetration sex and servicing her orally while being called her “little bitch” is more submission, as a submissive male.
Our latest expansion of our lifestyle has brought a change though. Due to my failure as her slave to stop my masturbation, I was finally locked in a chastity device. Again, we’ve moved farther into the lifestyle and I’ve noticed a big change in Mistress. We’ve gotten to this point with me “topping from the bottom”. She followed “suggestions” put forth by her slave and seldom led off any of the play sessions. That changed almost overnight, once the lock snapped shut on my genitals. She’s much more assertive and I’ve become more obedient and submissive.
Guess this ended up with a lot of history to get the point I want to post on feminization.
Due to the chastity device I now wear, I have to sit to pee. This, more than anything we’ve done over the years, has made me feel more feminine and able to start seeing things from a woman’s perspective. Even while released from my device for a while this weekend, I still sat when nature called.
Also, while at the movies this weekend I noticed all the women standing , packed together in the Ladies Room when someone went through the door. I can now related in a limited way, to the wait for a free stall, as opposed to a bunch of guys standing at a urinal.
Surprising, yet understandable. All the elaborate play of women’s clothes, shaving body hair, make-up, etc. yet, it’s one of nature’s most basic functions of relieving one’s bladder that’s brought out my feminine side.
Feminization Art
Does anyone know anything about this artist who specializes in petticoat punishment and feminization?
Originally posted 2009-01-25 06:32:05.
By Lane Wisteria
Ever wish one of the ladies of Desperate Housewives was in charge of your life? Who’d be your pick?
- Teri Hatcher as Susan Mayer – sexy but too scatterbrained
- Felicity Huffman as Lynette Scavo – smart competent, carries her weakling husband
- Marcia Cross as Bree Van de Kamp – very controlling
- Eva Longoria Parker as Gabrielle Solis – hot, impulsive, demanding
- Dana Delany as Katherine Mayfair – Bree light
I vote for Bree, she likes being in charge and doesn’t tolerate slackness.
Originally posted 2009-06-28 12:39:15.
It is easy to mock and condemn ProDommes: women who fulfill men’s desires for money. But is that really worse than having nothing?
I know of a couple of men who say early experiences with professional dominatrices helped them learn about themselves and their need for submission. Both are now in long lasting ongoing loving relationships.
Have you ever thought seriously about hiring a dominatrix? Have you actually paid one?
If you did do you feel ashamed? Did it help you in any way?
Originally posted 2007-11-05 11:58:20.
They aren’t as abundant as they once were. But there is a species of writer who likes to comment on Femdom themed blogs whose remarks make you wonder if he has ever known the love of a woman much less been in a D/s relationship.
He has two kinds of advice.
Women he admonishes to be meaner and tougher. To make their boyfriends, lovers and husbands more miserable ‘for their own good.’
Men he sternly advises to be ever more servile, to wallow and grovel. Even when the guy has made it clear that his spouse doesn’t want that.
A few of these pose as women. Their tone and vocabulary – probably acquired from porn sites – is so consistent they are easily spotted.
They have no value to contribute. They are just alone in the dark, wanking and meddling with the lives of others.
Originally posted 2007-12-28 16:08:01.
(MyBlogLog shows this to be the second most popular page on this site.)
That the “Mistress / Wife” isn’t sufficiently demanding and bossy or enough of a disciplinarian is a common complaint among men in the early stages of attempting to establish a female led marriage.
This is inadvertent honesty. If the woman doesn’t want to be more than so assertive, controlling or punishing and the relationship is all about her pleasure then what could be the complaint?
The reality is that the submissive husband wants his jollies.
There’s no shame in that. But it is hypocritical to say it is all about her when it is at least as much about you.
Be honest that dominance and submission has to be mutual to work. The truth will diminish confusion and minimize feelings of hurt and neglect.
Originally posted 2008-05-16 10:00:29.
The staff and management of Female Let Relationships Net regrets that it is uninterested in publishing photographs of your penis. That goes treble for pictures of it on a pay site.
Remember guys there are a few billion penises on this planet and Don’t Send Penis Photographs to Women.
Originally posted 2008-02-12 15:31:46.
I don’t really have any advice for men in vanilla marriages who hope to convert them into female led relationships. You need good luck more than anything else.
But don’t:
- Tell your wife or girlfriend that you are inferior.
- Or that she is a superior life form.
If she had thought you a lesser creature she wouldn’t have bothered with you.
And most women are uncomfortable with having unwanted divinity thrust on them.
Keep is simple and sensible: about your needs. No fancy matriarchal rhetoric.
Originally posted 2007-11-25 13:38:51.
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