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Female Domination & Sex & the City

Carrie: the girlfriend you always wished you had. But probably not dominant. Her obsessive show buying does work for me.

Miranda: the one you were most likely to know. Certainly capable.

Charlotte: her kinkiest experience was probably dating the cunnilingus addict.

Samantha: what couldn’t she, wouldn’t she do? But she wasn’t interested in that guy with a dungeon built into his closet.

Can you make any connection between female led relationships and Sex and the City?

Originally posted 2008-05-30 21:55:04.

Darkside Goddess Kali

The Service of Mankind Church of the Darkside Goddess Kali calls itself a “religio-erotic gynosupremic” community.

This is the female supremacist fantasy carried to its nuttiest extreme:

We believe that wars, severe natural disasters, famine plagues, and the general suffering of innocents can be avoided by appeasing the Darkside Goddess by our rituals of male atonement for the sins of all mankind.

To end earthquakes, typhoons and presumably poverty and roadside litter men must be made to “to endure hardship, torment and abasement.”

Interpretations of the Kali myth apt to startle the most inventive Hindu theologian.

Originally posted 2009-04-18 04:57:26.

Abusive Girlfriend : The Reality

This guy has to be masochist and not a very healthy one:

http://www.slatev.com/player.html?id=1863291634

Originally posted 2008-10-23 07:54:33.

Sexism

The last century saw considerable decline in sexism and the hindrances that gender clichés and gender role stereotypes. Particularly in the final three decades. Not that there isn’t still a huge amount of progress needed.

Female domination seemed oddly behind the times in many ways: a cultural wasteland of sexist generalizations. Funny in a sad sort of way.

Originally posted 2008-03-28 14:00:57.

Ruined Orgasms

Ruined Orgasms: just as the man is about to ejaculate all pressure or motion is stopped. While the male orgasms it is not really satisfying. Often used as punishment.

Originally posted 2007-08-07 20:13:38.

Women Need to Value Their Sexual Power

By Celtic Queen

I’m not going to try and devise a new way to rule the world but here’s a thought. A good start would be to change our popular culture of “easy, low value sex”. Young women are constantly bombarded with images that show sexual equality begins with females adopting a male attitude to sex (ie very casual) and I don’t agree with this at all.

We need to somehow get our next generation of girls to understand their sexual power and mete it out wisely rather than devalue themselves. I cringe when I see pop videos with squirming man pleasing girls and hate the casual cruelty of the “hos” lyrics of R N B music. Yeah, I sound like my Grandma but easy sex undermines the gender power structure more effectively than any amount of crap legislation, male dominated politics etc.

Women don’t need to rule the world – they need to rule the men. In the UK, you could argue that our most inventive, far sighted and productive period in modern history was in the rather chaste Victorian era when men’ s talent, drive and enthusiasm was not deflected by a sexualised culture. Keep it special, keep it powerful and keep it valuable and men will step up to the mark accordingly. You only have to look to the middle East to see the impact of a culture that does not value females in anyway.

This comment was left by Celtic Queen on Females Should Rule The World.

Why can’t you be like Endicott?

Endicott helps to cook the steak
Endicott helps to wash the plates
Endicott puts the kids to bed
Endicott reads a book to them

(Why can’t you be like Endicott?)

Endicott loves Tribena so
Endicott puts her on a pedestal
Endicott’s wish is her command but
Endicott don’t make no demands

Endicott’s always back in time
Endicott’s not the cheatin’ kind
Endicott’s full of compliment
Endicott’s such a gentleman

(Why can’t you be like Endicott?)

Endicott, Kid Creole & Coconuts>

Originally posted 2008-05-24 14:30:23.

Cuckoldry : A Speculation

Having been wholly biased in favor of romantic monogamy when I first heard of cuckoldry as a sexual fetish I was repulsed. What an unloving relationship (so it seemed).

Since then I’ve come to understand that for a very, very tiny portion of the population cuckoldry is a fetish that works and does not forbid a happy and romantic marriage.

Still most men online are just lying when they claim their wife cuckolds them. (Always with men with bulging muscles and huge cocks. Nobody says they’ve been cuckolded by a guy who looks like he’s Herb from Accounting.) No kink leads to more sexual fantasy presented as fact.

I wonder if the men with the hopeless cuckold fixation didn’t somehow eroticize fears of being abandoned by their mother when they were very little. There’s no doubt that we do eroticize seemingly surprising acts when very young. And even if this is true for some men that doesn’t mean it applies to all (would be) cuckolds.

Cuckold fantasists are often female supremacists. Probably because their desire violates so many social norms they unconsciously feel compelled to justify it with bad anthropology and nutty social theorizing.

Hmm?

Originally posted 2009-03-03 07:54:03.

Self Acceptance

Bad Woman

Some women struggle to accept their desire to dominate. Those feeling are much less likely to afflict dominant men. And perhaps some women need a few moments reflection to understand that a submissive male is not necessarily a spineless wimp that she’d never want in her life.

Even more often are initial feelings of guilt as they begin to discover and explore their sadism. Pleasure in inflicting pain contradicts the popular images of woman as empath, nourisher and healer. Surely wanting to hit your boyfriend or husband with things is just plain evil.

But by various means – bless you – many of you step past the social stereotypes, are able to more fully realize your sexuality and make happy the men who need you.

Originally posted 2009-01-05 13:07:49.

Female Superiority

Female Superiority: this is the belief that women are in some way better than men.

Rationalizations are diverse and will be covered in other entries.

Originally posted 2007-07-11 23:34:40.