How Women Should Spank Men

Female Led Spanking Guide

Women Who Spank Naughty Males)

The F/m spanking routine described below is taken from The Spencer Spanking Plan, which mostly focuses on husbands punishing wives.

If the husband is to be whipped, he is directed to go to his room and get ready for the punishment. He must obey without a word of complaint and without uttering a word of argument.

He should undress, then stretch out full length on the bed, face-downwards. He must wait in this position, until his wife enters the room — whether she comes in immediately or keeps him waiting several minutes as some women do.

As soon as she enters the room, and without speaking, she begins whipping him. Her job is to whip him efficiently — effectively — but humanely. She must carefully observe all the rules, but she can, at the same time, make the session quite effective and truly beneficial.

Some women use a wooden paddle only. Others employ a strap. The great majority use both: the paddle first — to warm up the skin good — then the intelligent application of a leather strap. A man’s belt is often used. Many wives require that the paddle and/or strap be placed ready for use when the man takes his whipping position.

A modern whipping does a man good for several reasons First of all, there is the beneficial humiliation it causes. It is an act of complete submission. Just to stretch out obediently and get ready for the punishment does him good. Before the paddle is applied a single time — before a single stroke of the strap is delivered — the discipline starts being effective and beneficial for this very reason! It is an act of surrender, and being a willing gesture of submission, it does more good than millions of spoken words would possibly do!

Don’t think for a moment that modern women are not learning how to make their whippings effective, too! Just because they are using common sense rules that safe-guard the practice from assuming any aspect of brutality — don t think for a single moment that they are administering “play whippings” or that they can’t make the discipline something to be sincerely dreaded!

Are there any details or nuances that you would add?

How do you feel about it, what do you think?


  1. macguy4400 says

    Most men, myself included fear to some degree being harshly whipped. The lady should first secure the male by tying his hands behind his back and also tie his ankles together to prevent a lot of movement. It may also be a good idea to gag him if others could hear his cry s or moans.

  2. Adam Weyand says

    Men are suppose to be taken into the bedroom with the door closed and locked. A woman has the right to unbuckle his belt from his jeans pulling them off his ass. Then pulling off his underwear. With his bare ass up in the air.

    With the scared look in his face while he is made to watch her unbuckle her own belt and pull it off from around her waist. In front of him. Taking her wide thick leather and bring it down on his bare ass cheeks. As his screams of pain echoes off the walls…with him pleading for no more!

    A woman has the right to administer a severe belt whipping in the home on his bare ass as she sees fit to use her belt. A good number of lashes to correct a man’s behavior I would say for a start would be 50 lashes with the belt. I am sure many women would agree with this 100%

  3. Adam Weyand says

    Are you, female Female Led Relationships? So I take it that you, agree with my comment? Thanks for replying to my comment!

  4. arthur says

    If i am not mistaken, the artwork is by a 60’s spanking authority who had a column called “Ask Mrs. Martin”– anyone remember that? drop a line.

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