It has been my plan with this site to avoid quoting blogs. But my heroine Elizabeth expresses herself eloquently on the theme of inherent gender inequality as bad philosophy and psychosexual thrill.
Being a dominant woman or a submissive man is a sexual kink. You can make a sexual kink into a lifestyle, if you like, or you can keep it for sex play, but you are deluded if you try to make the whole rest of the fucking world fit your own sexual kink. Not to mention making yourself look very, very silly in the process.
Why Female Gender Supremacy is Ignorant Crap, part 1 of 87
Originally posted 2007-07-31 18:38:40.
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I agree with Elizabeth in the post. I sure know women that if they had to lead I would make a running from as far away ans as fast as I could
Besides if women were superior to men then wouldn’t we be raising our sons in a different way to have this acknowledged?
Better? Better at what?
I think that there is a time in our lives when girls are better than boys. It happens somewhere between about 8 and 12 years of age.
Girls mature physically faster than boys and are physically larger and sometimes stronger than boys at these ages.
Society favors girls at these ages. We are talking about school children. And school rewards cooperation (girl trait) over competition (boy trait), small motor skills such as writing (G) large motor skill is limited to recess. Verbal skills (G), rote memorization (G), the ability to sit still and listen (G) and so forth. All the “girlish” traits are rewarded, but the masculine traits are at best tolerated if not outright discouraged.
Not to mention that in a child’s life almost all authority figures are female. Grade school teachers are predominantly female (much more so in the past), pediatricians – usually female, babysitters – never had a boy babysit me, and then of course mom (even today, mom spends more time with the kiddies than dad.)
Boys can play sports and wear masculine clothing. Girls can play sports, dance wear masculine or feminine clothing.
I admit that – as others have correctly pointed out — the bell curves overlap no matter what you are measuring. I also admit that in the adult world things even out. But in a child’s world, in general, girls are “better” suited to cope.
The idea that females are superior is itself a general submissive male fantasy, and theories are concocted to fit this. It’s hard to tell how much anyone believes any of this (as with the goddess mythologies et al).
That’s why you have all these scenarios of men being allegedly loaned out to do errands for – or otherwise being humiliated in front of – female friends and relatives.
I don’t think of my wife as superior. We just both acknowledge that she is the boss, and yes, especially when it comes to all things sexual. But it seems to make our marriage work better. Furthermore, we have children, so anything is better than divorce. Lastly, we both like it.
I think that the whole world should not be “female-led.” But I”m damn sure that alot of marriages would be better if both parties let the female lead.
If you’d actually read the post you’d see that the idea that females are better than males was being dismissed.
Trying to comment under multiple names is a waste of time.
it is not a proven fact that girls are better than boys or vs
It is my belief that “I” am superior to my husband. I may be superior to other men, and there may be not doubt men who may be perceived as superior to other women myself included, but for hte relaitnships that matter, mine/ours. I am the boss cause I am the superior of the two.
Very interesting. I want to embrace this thought. I believe that two of the predominant female-led relationship author’s, Emily Addison (at http://www.aroundherfinger.com and Elise Sutton at http://www.femalesuperiority.com, might be somewhere in-between true female supremacy and this comment. I think (know) that Elise feels that women are generally, but not always, superior to men. Bell curves do overlap after all. Emily probably feels the same way, but doesn’t make it core to her philosophy.