Train Male Children to Be Submissive
I read a self-professed ‘malesub’ stating that he would train his sons to be submissive to women. He would try to force the orientation on them, not enable them to seek fulfillment.
The idea of a father teaching his boys to want to be a woman’s slave is quite disgusting. Should someone really try one can only hope the children are taken away from him.
This is a good example of the kind of damnable consequences belief in female superiority can lead too.
6 Responses “Train Male Children to Be Submissive”
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The problem with children is that they never do what you say, but they almost always do what you do.
You can force a child into a behavior pattern at much cost to both you and the child. Or you can lead the child by example.
My leanings towards FLR come from my role models. My dad was very respectful towards my mom and aunts. In many ways mom was head of the household which was quite a feat for a 1950’s housewife!
This is not to say that you don’t discipline children when they need it. They need small course corrections to develop social skills and safety habits. They also crave guidance and direction. Like it or not, you as the parent, are their leader.
If you set the example to deferring to women for advice and decision making, the child will come to learn that this is OK and maybe even preferable.
This is a far cry from insisting that a male child treat all women as superiors. Forcing a child into any lifestyle has unpleasant results. It is possible that the child will adjust and grow up “normally.” It is more likely that the child’s self-esteem will be crushed causing a lot of other anti-social issues or that the child will rebel, and not only hate you, but also hate the women you adore.
As parents the best you can do is lead and hope that your children follow. Doing all the right things is not a 100% guarantee of success, but the probability of success is higher if you do the right things.
One last note: don’t worry about getting it 100% right. Kids are pretty smart. They’ll cut you some slack if they know you are trying.
Anyone who would seriously consider doing this doesn’t deserve to have kids.
I only hope that if he does have boys, that they grow up to be doms if anything. Just to shove his face in it.
And if he was into beastiality would he teach his kids how to enjoy that as well? This is sickening really, enjoy your fetish without having to brainwash your kids. Sounds like he is rather self loathing and is trying to justify himself by manipulating and controlling his sons.
It would be interesting to know if the man’s wife shared his philosophy.
I try not be be critical of other people’s way of doing things, but wow - this is disturbing.
Kids should do what they want, and so should their parents, when it comes to a role. If the father wants to be submissive to the mother, in terms of doing all the housework, laundry, cooking, and asking her permission to do things, etc, then I don’t see anything wrong with that, any more than I’d critizise a wife from doing that. I’m confident many successful women were daughters of mothers who had traditioal female rolss,
Males share much of the domestic work these days anyway, though they rarely do half. You are born with submissive desires. You don’t learn them. They are erotic. It’s very rare for a male to be submissive, and also rare for a female to be submissive to this degree.
The sons will have a world full of role models. They won’t care who does the dishes or laundry at home. Dominance and submission are an individual’s choice, and have nothing to do with raising kids. I wouldn’t be excessively submissive in front of a child, such that the child realizes this is really strange, or gets laughed at if he tells his friend. The husband shouldn’t be asking his wife for his allowance in front of the kids, or kissing her feet, but I see nothing wrong with a male or female doing all the domestic tasks, and cooking, and the other person controlling all the money, and making all the decisions; but do think that certain aspects of this shouldn’t be paraded unnecessarily in front of children. However, if the father does all the housework, washing, and ironing, and cooks and serves all the meals, I see no problem with it, just as I’d see no problem if the wife did that.
I in fact don’t see a problem if the children realize the wife is the head of the household, and makes the important decisions. They’ll see it as a cooperative and reasonable father,with no fights in the home. There is no “proper” gender role and kids should be taught tolerance, but I don’t think the parents should present the scenario as the father being the slave of the mother. I don’t think it will have anything to do with what the kids want for themselves in a relationship, but might subject them to laughter if they tald about it, and kids should feel free to not worry about that kind of thing. .
Agreed, one must understand that that femdom is a spiritual and sexual exercise and nothing more.
Fundamentally and by nature, men and women have equal power and equal needs that are achieved through opposite and complimentary fashion to achieve these mutually desired ends.
Power play is and always will be a way to exemplify and illustrate proper balance and reciprocal energy but never to achieve it. It is simply an exercise.