Comments on: Woman Worship as Idealism http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism/ Woman worship, male submission, female domination concepts, conversations, commentary. Wed, 21 Jul 2010 17:19:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: tacslave http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism/comment-page-1/#comment-904 tacslave Tue, 26 May 2009 00:12:46 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/?p=325#comment-904 Their is no requirement for worship to equate to control! All relationships involve changes in people by definition and I think you miss the point that Female worship is about empowerment of the Women, not fetishization. Naturally all relationships in their early stages require a degree of effort to find a common ground but the particular nature of a relationship only speaks to the sustainability of that relationship... not all relationships. Their is no need to embrace topping from the bottom as integral to Femdom. The end state should be one where the Female isnt dictated to at 'any' level by the submale. Their is no requirement for worship to equate to control! All relationships involve changes in people by definition and I think you miss the point that Female worship is about empowerment of the Women, not fetishization. Naturally all relationships in their early stages require a degree of effort to find a common ground but the particular nature of a relationship only speaks to the sustainability of that relationship… not all relationships.

Their is no need to embrace topping from the bottom as integral to Femdom. The end state should be one where the Female isnt dictated to at ‘any’ level by the submale.

]]> By: Lady Julia http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/superior-supremacy-female/woman-worship-as-idealism/comment-page-1/#comment-888 Lady Julia Mon, 11 May 2009 20:10:40 +0000 http://www.femaleledrelationships.net/?p=325#comment-888 <i>Women like to be seen as who they are, not as men fantasize them to be.</i> Truer words were never written, at least as far as I am concerned. I don't mind that men fantasize about me or even that they have a fantasized version of me - as long as they realize that's what it is. I receive quite a few nasty emails from people who visit my site or read my blog. Not tons, but far more than what I would have expected. For the longest time I kept asking myself why someone would go out of their way to be so obnoxious to me. Not just one someone, but several. Finally, one of my friends remarked that he thought it was because I dare to write the truth about myself and that truth disturbs a few peoples' fantasized versions of me. I find that incredibly sad. I also think this idealization of the Domme is why a lot of Femdom relationships fail. There's no way most of us could live up to the expectations of some. Women like to be seen as who they are, not as men fantasize them to be.

Truer words were never written, at least as far as I am concerned. I don’t mind that men fantasize about me or even that they have a fantasized version of me – as long as they realize that’s what it is.

I receive quite a few nasty emails from people who visit my site or read my blog. Not tons, but far more than what I would have expected. For the longest time I kept asking myself why someone would go out of their way to be so obnoxious to me. Not just one someone, but several. Finally, one of my friends remarked that he thought it was because I dare to write the truth about myself and that truth disturbs a few peoples’ fantasized versions of me. I find that incredibly sad.

I also think this idealization of the Domme is why a lot of Femdom relationships fail. There’s no way most of us could live up to the expectations of some.

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