Blindfolded Sissy

Mistress enjoys sissifying her slave men. That is just the tip of her cruelty. She is an avid practitioner of bondage. Her especial delight is blindfolding the sissy. Should he bump into anything she has a fun pretext for punishing him. She has commanded him to please her with cunnilingus. The more time it takes for his lips to come to the proper place between her thighs the move heavily he will be whipped later.

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See more Femdom drawings by Robert K. Bishop.

First Church of Female Supremacy

It has been ages since I first ran across the First Church of Female Supremacy aka the Cybelians.

A cult – of sorts – pushing female led marriages. Among the cult’s dogmas are these mandatory aspects of Cybelian marriage.

The first statutory aspect is that the man has absolutely no freedom – while at home he must always be naked and collared, the collar to be of the lockable variety. The second statutory aspect is that the man has no status other than that of a toilet for the woman’s use

When I first discovered them the Cybelians seemed humorlessly fanatical about the piss business. It was like sharing bread and wine are for Christians. They’ve also come to push sissyfication and cuckoldry.

Other aspects of a Cybelian marriage which are a matter of choice include cuckoldry – wherein it is the wife’s option to have sex with as many other men as she chooses, compliant physical punishments, humiliation, and extended restriction of freedom. Details of all these options can be found in the Cybelian Marriage Manual, available as an eBook direct from this website.

Human male castration tool.

Aside from the marriage manual there’s a host of ebooks for sale. Topics include ancient secrets known only to the Cybelian elite, golden showers, extreme female domination.

I’ve always thought that the church and its messy interlocking set of websites exist to lure in the most sexually frustrated of men. Lonely submissive men make easy targets.

The name comes from the ancient cult Cybele: religious ecstatics who castrated themselves. Ancient castration device on the right.

Originally posted 2009-01-17 14:18:08.

Castration & Female Supremacy

(Matriarchal gynosupremacist theory by an unknown author.)

Eight Levels of Castration

Castration is the supreme symbol of the Othering of the male. The Other is the one with the Lack–the lack of the phallus, Voice and Gaze. To be lacking in these is to be castrated. The jouissance of the Other is in submitting to castration. Sex is a process of Othering as it is what the Subject does to the Other. This is why matriarchal sex is so very different from patriarchal sex. Sex keeps the Other in his or her place as Other.

In working towards a more complete theory on matriarchy, an analysis of castration is needed. Castration, of course, is a complex concept much like the complexity of the concept of the Phallus. The Phallus, as a signifier, means more than the mere penis. It entails the Voice and Gaze as well. So possession of the phallus means having the Voice and Gaze. Possession of the phallus is synonymous with being the Subject.

Conversely, castration means not merely the removal of the male genitals. It means much more than that. It also is a complex concept and is the signifier for the loss of the phallus. Castration entails not having the Voice and Gaze. To castrate the male is to Other the male. When the feme castrates the male, she has the Voice and Gaze. The Voice and Gaze are not attributes of the male genitals as such. It is the power to take, or the taking which positions the feme as Subject. The genitals can still be attached to the male’s body, but still be in her possession and control. If she owns, possesses, and controls his genitals, she owns, possesses and controls him. That is what it means to be a Subject as feme, and a male as Other. There can, therefore, be different levels of castration in terms of different levels of possession and control:

1. The castration of control

The first level of castration would entail the male giving up control of his sexuality to a/the feme. He would have no sexual experience without her permission, and according to her direction. While this is only the first level, if carried out, the male becomes available to serve feme desire. If a feme can control male sexuality to even this degree, she has broken the control of the male over her body, and has control of his. If a male’s sexuality can be controlled, he probably can be controlled as to almost anything else as sex is an essential part of the lives of almost all males. As stated by Jean Baudrillard in his book, Seduction, “in the absence or denial of the orgasm, superior intensity is possible.”

2. The castration of ejaculation

Males can be trained to withold and postpone ejaculation and to maintain an erection for the length of time desired by the feme. If males are not permitted to ejaculate but must withdraw and achieve their climax by masturbation after withdrawal, then there is very little risk of pregnancy. Eventually, the male will lose the capacity to climax introvaginally, and can only experience an orgasm through manual manipulation. The second level of castration is achieved when the male is no longer able to ejaculate while inside the feme. This frees the feme from the problems of birth control. She no longer has to take chemicals or insert a foreign object such as a diaphragm. At the same time, it has the advantage over a vasectomy in that the male can maintain an erection for a very long time.

3. The castration of possession

The third level of castration is achieved when the male willingly turns over his genitals such that they can be placed beyond his own control. This is the castration of bondage. The wearing of a Kali’s teeth bracelet or some other control device which prevents him from having a sexual experience or even an erection until the device is removed.

4. The castration of pain

The fourth level of castration is achieved when the male is subject to what is commonly known in the Scene as “cock torture.” this level entails the willingness of the male to accept pain applied to his genitals. The pain at this level is mild, as it serves a symbolic function. It establishes in the psyche of the submissive that his genitals exist for the pleasure and enjoyment of the feme.

5. The castration of ownership

Possession doesn’t necessarily entail ownership. When one owns something, they are free to do what they want with it. The ownership of the genitals establishes the ownership of the male to which they are attached. This level of castration is accomplished by the feme lending her sub to other femes for their enjoyment and use. This level of castration establishes that the male no longer owns his self. He belongs to a feme to do with as she wishes. It also serves the important function of canceling the vestiges of monogamy/sexual exclusivity in the psyche of the male. A further step in the castration process can be accomplished by requiring the sub to witness the feme enjoying other males. This establishes in the male’s psyche that he has no claim on, or rights over, the feme’s body. She is the free Subject and he is the Other. At this level of castration, any idea of the male possessing a/the feme should be gone.

6. The castration of blood

The sixth level of castration is achieved through subjecting the male genitals to piercing and to the placement of rings, frenums, amphallangs, or other forms of genital jewelry which a feme may wish her sub to endure or wear. The most ancient form of the castration of blood is carried out in ritual circumcision. The taking of the foreskin shows complete ownership of the genitals. When the dried foreskin is in a jar on her shelf, the phallic serpent is fully in the grip of her fist.

The point of carrying out the first six levels of castration is to fully Other the male and in the process for the feme to become fully the Subject with the Voice and Gaze. As well, they would be carried out by the feme for her enjoyment–schadenfreude, and if carried out properly and responsibly it would create for the male joissance of Otherness.

These first six levels of castration are generally, depending upon how serious they are, carried out repeatedly. As ongoing fucking keeps the feme as Other, the repetition of these levels of castration maintain the male as Other. Seduction into Otherness is the name of the game. And as stated by Baudrillard in Seduction, “The law of seduction takes the form of an uninterrupted ritual exchange where seducer and seduced constantly raise the stakes in a game that never ends.” He further suggests that “sexual pleasure can be just a pretext for another, more exciting, more passionate game.” That “more exciting, more passionate game” is the one of leading the male through the first six levels of castration. Levels seven and eight below bring an end to the game.

7. The castration of performance

The seventh level of castration is more permanent. It prevents the male from having an erection or performing sexually. It is generally done by deep and radical piercings and the insertion of genital jewelry. It can also be accomplished chemically. The seventh level of castration, unless it entails temporary chemical castration, leaves the male with sexual desire but a total inability or incapacity to obtain a sexual release or orgasm. [Note: males without Dominas or Masters will perform these procedures on themselves.]

8. Radical castration

The eighth level of castration, radical castration, entails surgical removal of the testicles, and possibly more. Radical castration frees the male from sexual desire as well as eliminating sexual pleasure. This form of castration is used to create the Gallae, or sexual eunuch slave of the priestess/Goddess. Such males performed an essential role in ancient matriarchal societies and would be necessary in future matriarchies–as well they were found in patriarchates too, e.g., the Roman temples. Matriarchies need male warriors under their control. The warrior requires a certain degree of aggression to be in place if he is going to protect the community. This aggression can take a sexual form which presents a danger to the femes of the community. The Gallae are there to be fucked by the males whose aggression may be needed. Also in a transition from patriarchy to matriarchy, the Gallae serve a protective function by receiving male aggression which might otherwise be targeted on femes. This is not homosexuality. The Gallae function as surrogate femes. Basically, there is a place for every male in a matriarchy, but every male is kept in his place and under full control. No violence or force of any kind is required, as the male is manipulated by and through his sexuality and seduction into Otherness alone.

Castration Games

This redheaded female sadist made her slave a promise. It was the day she brought him home from the slave market. One day her knife would slip between his legs and cut something off. Maybe his penis, maybe his testicles. Maybe even both.

He would never know when that day had arrived. His anticipation would surely fade. After he relaxed her knife would finally fulfill he words.

The slave has never forgotten. His dread has never abated. Mostly it is latent. Some nights she locks him to a bondage frame. Out comes the knife. With seeming carelessness the sharp edge caresses his skin. Occasionally his fleshed is nicked or lightly sliced.

He watches her eyes. There is no pity, no humor. Inside she’s laughing. Her slave’s trembling never fails to amuse her. She knows no blood lust. There is no real plain to maim him.

But she is a woman of whims. What may happen tomorrow or next year don’t interest her. Even if they haunt her slave. That is what he is there for.

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Male Slave Gelding

On this Gynarchic planet many male slaves are kept on farms and ranches to aid in the production of food.

The slaves faces are often keep hidden behind hoods and masks. This limits bonding among the slave creatures. And diminishes any sense of individuality. Male farm slaves are most useful when they become just one of the herd.

After reaching full physical maturity the male slave is gelded. This aids in keeping the farm slaves docile and merged in the herd identity.

With these techniques and many cycles of breeding the male farm slaves are content with a simple life of servitude.

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Should You Castrate a Man?

Male Slave Castration: Pros & Cons

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Should all enslaved male creatures have their testicles removed?

Lack of testosterone will make a male more easily feminized. So it may be ideal for sissy slaves.

It will be an irrevocable statement of the male’s status as chattel. An inferior creature even more diminished.

If you enjoy making a man eat his own sperm that entertainment will no longer be possible.

His muscular power will diminish. This would be unwelcome in a slave employed in hard labor.

In removing the scrotal sac a sadist loses the most fit part of a male for torture. Testicle torment is a sport rich in variety.

You have to weigh the options if you are thinking seriously about castrating a male slave.

Penectomy Better Than Chastity?

Not by me. Left elsewhere as a comment on Cut Your Cock Off.

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Typical Rubex Illustration

I have been permitted to make this comment:- As a permanently chastised companion – my lady doesn’t like the word slave – I would – if I may – fully endorse the idea of penectomy for permanently chastised males provided there are not medical reasons preventing it. Chastity devices have their limitations and are uncomfortable.

This discomfort is useful for showing the slave the permanence of his situation and the futility of resistance to his total submission but once he is completely conditioned and submissive penectomy would be a complete and final finish to his enslavement. From then he and his mistress can get on with their life-style.

Castration is not the preferred choice compared to penectomy since penectomy retains “sexual desire” that castration removes but both are as permanent – the unrequited desire is what makes the slave totally submissive in a way that castration does not.

The methods often employed are that the urethra is retained although the remainder of the penis is removed and relocated behind the scrotum for sit-down peeing – or that the the penis is simply cut off at its base with a small tube inserted into the urethra to permit peeing during healing.

This latter method can be problematic – infection control and /or bladder control as the penis helps with bladder function.
Two methods I submit would be worth considering are 1: Where the removal at – or near – the base is preferred a metal tube be inserted into the urethra and a elestorator band be placed on the penis so that it crushes onto the tube as in castration but still permitting peeing whilst the penis dies – it could then be removed later with the band and tube. 2: That the same approach be employed but only the head be removed – making the penis far less sensitive – then a small light weight chastity tube be permanently fitted onto the penis stump thus removing the ability for any sexual activity with minimum interference to bladder control.

Lastly I would respectfully urge all mistress to be strong in their will-power once such a step is embarked upon but be kind and gentle – but firm when necessary – to their slaves once this final step is taken – reminding the slave that all of this is for his own good within their lifestyle.

Thank you.

Originally posted 2011-04-20 07:17:51.

I Believe Women Are Better Than Men

(A man expresses his faith in the superiority of women.)

i believe that Women are naturally more intelligent, as well as much more logical, and obviously more nurturing and Dominant than any man could ever try to be. Most men are faking it or trying to ‘compensate’ if they try to be Dominant. Most men are at heart, cowards who will simply beat their chest and scream loudly to try to get noticed. Women do not need to do this. A Woman can enter a room and easily entrance everyone therein with Her beauty and natural grace.

Like many in the world today, i grew up in a home that was destroyed by the man. my father left us when i was about ten years old, and prior to him leaving, there were constant fights and arguments and a lot of tension in the home. It was almost a relief when he finally vanished out of our lives, but at the same time, as the only male in the home, my Mother and sister were obviously very resentful and took much of their angst and frustration out on me, (rightfully so). They taught me to truly worship and appreciate Women in all they do and go through in their lives, and how truly self-centered, pathetic and worthless men truly are.

my experience is not the only one, as there are millions of worthless men all through the world that will say anything and everything to a Lady, just to take her to bed, and leave Her soon after. This is the lowest form of life… someone who is so concerned about self-gratification that he doesn’t think about how many lives he ruins in the process.

The male doesn’t bother to take responsibility feeling that it is the Women problem now.

While its true, that there ARE some more responsible males in the world… for the most part, they still do not equal the power, wisdom, or intelligence that any Woman has. There is no compare for all They do, and endure on a regular basis.

Its simple to look at history, and all the failings of men, and all the violence and wars created, including all the blood that has been spilled by men. Ironically, these men often will do or act in this manner, over a Woman. So much violence has been caused by one man ‘claiming’ a Woman, and another man challenging him. Basically acting like spoiled children in a playground over something they have NO right to in the first place.

Women generally i do not think would go to war or fight over foolishness like this. i think for the most part, if there are problems or issues, Women would work things out between themselves, which is something no prideful man would ever consider. Unfortunately, men are raised and groomed to be very prideful creatures, which often gets in the way of ‘real’ thinking. The usual joke about men not wanting to stop and ask for directions is a perfect example. men do not want to think of themselves as ‘less’ than they build themselves up to be in their own mind.

If i may also point out the general endurance and hardships a Woman is able to put up with, that would essentially bring any man to his knees.

Every five days out of the month for most of her life, a Woman has to endure the discomfort of experiencing Her period. There is no way a man could ever truly understand what a Lady has to go through every month, but its something that men have zero compassion or understanding for… and yet a Woman continues on with Her every day life, accepting the biological changes Her body is making.

The typical man can barely handle a stomach flu without heavily medicating himself, and laying down to avoid the entire world for a week before considering getting out of bed to put forth any practical effort into the world.

Beyond that, let us look at the miracle of childbirth. Something that Women have done since the dawn of time… and they survive it generally, and are able to do it again and again. Men are inferior in the fact that not only do they NOT have the ability to give birth… they could not endure the pain involved, nor do they have the responsibility to care for the offspring (as mentioned above).

In the end, Women’s bodies are so much more complex and detailed than men’s bodies. This is the biological proof of Their perfection. Much more effort is put into their forms, so therefore, men should ideally worship this perfect form.

Of course, beyond the biological, there is the physical as well. Women traditionally have been made into beautiful works of art. Paintings and sculptures throughout the centuries have all been highly regarded, and the majority of them are appreciated, because they are representations of the perfect being… a Woman.

This is another way Women are far superior to men, just in their beauty and the efforts they put in to maintain this perfection. Women will be artists as they apply makeup, however a man is far to lazy and arrogant to ever consider anything like this. A man will be lucky if he washes his face and shaves. But Women can spend time perfecting their ‘art’ over the years of their life, and create such soft smooth features by arranging the right lines and colors and textures along the pallet of their features, easily accentuating what is already there.

Women also will endure everything from complex garments, including heels, pantyhose/stockings, corsets, garters, bras and other finely developed outfits, all to enhance the beauty They posses. As a general rule, men once again prove their laziness by not bothering to make more of an effort than jeans and t-shirts. The simple fact is they have no concept of how to properly dress themselves.

One of the biggest problems males have, is simply the amount of testosterone in their bodies. Again, Women have a much more complex balance of hormones, but men simply have too much. With all this testosterone in their bodies, it makes them much more aggressive and brutal in general. Basically a man is almost always ‘looking’ for a fight. Some men are able to temper these feelings and have been trained to behave to live in modern society, but in general, many wars, brawls, and altercations would have been prevented if Women were simply to keep males in check and on a tight leash.

This is easily proven by how quickly a mans aggression level lowers after any type of castration. my Mother and Sister both liked this concept a great deal and talked about having it done to me on a regular basis. She felt they just get in the way… not only with simple things like dressing, but in more complex physical and emotional ways as well. In the end, it was not done, but it would have made me a much better behaved male in a Female dominated society.

When i moved to Florida, i was fortunate enough to be allowed to serve a Mistress who was a firm believer in chastity. She felt that every male should be in chastity when they turn 10 years old. males have no ability to control their ‘urges’, and prove on a regular basis how inferior they are to Women by everything as simple as obsessing about pornographic material, to the ache and need to constantly touch themselves, all the way to much more violent crimes such as rape.

Female superiority is very obvious when compared to a males sex drive. While a Female does have ‘urges’ and desires, She is able to keep them under check and take advantage when able to. A typical male needs a device locked on to prevent him from doing something foolish at the wrong time, or to prevent him from focusing on his own needs instead of Others.

A typical Woman has no need for such a device, because they naturally have much more control over their desires and urges. Women have the instinct to know what is more important and what should take priority and what can wait for a better time.

The most important thing to note from all this, is that is not so much that women need to be, (and naturally SHOULD be) in control… as much as it should be human nature that men should be restrained and kept in very close check by the more in control, nurturing and more civilized Woman.

For many years now, men have tried to desperately ‘beat down’ Women by trying to take away their rights and try to prove they are superior, but on a regular basis, a strong powerful intelligent Woman will come along and prove beyond a shadow of a doubt, that once again, the man is wrong.

Psychologically, Women always come out on top, (as they should be). If One looks at the number of serial killers comprised of men, and the number of serial killers comprised of Women, this is one of the times that men should hang their heads in deep shame. The men will always prove they are more mentally screwed up than Women. And yet on a regular basis, men create excuses and reasons to try to claim Women are the ones messed up in the head. And yet, why are the prisons filled with many more male prisoners than Women? Why are there so many more men on death row than Women?

Its very clear to see. Women are naturally more nurturing and logical beings. They are truly the one pure form that men could only pray to be… instead have to accept the opportunity to grovel at Their feet and do the best they can to please as often as they can. It is sad though how many men just don’t know this or see it ever.

i personally often imagine a perfect Amazonian type of world, where men are only collared and live to serve and worship the Women in all their glory and perfect beauty, no matter how old, or how young, how big or how small. All Women should be put so high on a pedestal, and every males eyes lowered as they are not worthy to look upon Their beauty.

i think some men, when properly trained and conditioned can be useful parts of society and assist Women, but so many men should simply be castrated to help society be a better place.

Of course i do not have all the answers, because i am only a male myself. i will always accept the decision of a Woman to what should be done or how society should operate.

i can only pray that Hillary Clinton is able to win the next election and at the very least, America can be under the power of a strong intelligent Woman and no longer ruled by male dictatorship. In a perfect world, She will be able to gather together the other Female Leaders of this world, and begin to truly recognize where the ultimate problem is… which is the male gender.

If we are truly lucky… maybe one day the religions of the world will be replaced by some form of Matriarchal religion as well, where men can go and truly worship Women in all their perfect glory.

Unfortunately, this perfect world is a very long way away, and for now, all men can do is try to do their best to serve Women any way that they can, in a very imperfect society. Maybe little by little, maybe one man at a time, each Woman of the world will be able to put a man properly in his place… but it will not happen overnight.

(Old Usenet post.

Originally posted 2012-10-14 06:38:07.

Castration vs Male Chastity

By Bootlicker

Castration takes all the fun out of orgasm control.

If a male has nothing to surrender (he’s already lost it to the meat-cleaver) there’s no victory for the animal’s Owner.

Much better to leave the male capable of performing, but submitting to control by One that he obeys out of love, than to be unable to choose.

Consider a slave crawling on its hands and knees. It could stand up and walk, but kneels in voluntary surrender to the Owner it loves with devotion, passion and intentional obedience.

If Mistress pleases to flog Her slave, it eagerly fetches Her favourite whip for Her, prostrates itself for Her convenience, then reverently thanks Her for the privilege of serving as Her victim by kissing Her boots in gratitude.

Total Permanent Chastity and Virtue

By Companion

I feel that has fallen to me to speak on behalf of some dominant females – and the males who serve them – and I hope that our female betters do not think it too presumptuous of me to do so.

Unlike some dominant females Mistress Lori has proven time and time again that she does not hate males – she just knows us for what we are. Mistress Lori has developed a life style over a number of years where she is served by obedient males who to do so have given up their selfish male habits and placed themselves totally in their mistresses hands to do – and be – whatever she wishes them to be and I believe that they are totally happy in their servitude.

They have embraced total and permanent chastity – retaining male desire – but not the ability to indulge in self-serving male sex – as opposed to castration which removed the “desire” also their chastised condition means that they will never again be any sort of sexual threat to the female.

Their continual sexual frustration – which is normally never discussed – added to their catharsis that any of their previous sexual prowess is of no consequence their mistress – only their obedience and loyalty – leads inevitably to their total submission. A question that one might ask is “Doesn’t Paulie resent being told what to do all of the time?” The answer is of course “No”. To obey his mistress is as natural as breathing and he does not feel oppressed – if she tells him to do something then it becomes his desire to please her and do it. None of this would happen if Mistress Lori were not strong willed enough to enforce permanent chastity on her slaves but in all other respects she is very kind and gentle.

I believe that males who complain about “this or that” aspect of her life style are those who are not ready to enter into such a life style themselves but only want to “play” at it. Mistress Lori doesn’t play. If you read Paulie’s Story you will discover that Mistress Lori “led” Paul aka Paulie into his chastised submissive state – for her own ends it is true – but “Paul” could have walked away if he wanted to but he chose to stay. There are those who complain that their relationship isn’t fair – that is one sided – my answer is that is that that is the nature of their relationship – their life-style – I don’t think that Paulie would agree – he is happier being Mistress Lori’s “slave”.

At the end Mistress Lori had to use certain ploys to push Paul to accept her total authority over him but he had to decide there and then – not dither or sit and think about it. Once the subject has become as submissive as the “then” Paul was – and was ready to move on to the next phase in his conditioning – there was little point in Mistress Lori asking “him” if he agreed.

Mistress Lori’s life-style with her slaves is perhaps not for everyone although her following is growing among both sexes but the question as to whether a male becomes a better person if he is chastised and enslaved – my answer is that perhaps “He” would never get the chance the be a worse one.