Should Women Buy Their Male Slaves?

Considing the low quality of the vast quantiy of men who offer themselves as slaves on the internet a woman may want to ease the acquisition of slave property and use a male slave dealer.

If you purchase a man from a reputable vendor you can be assured his health and wellness have been thoroughly tested. A male slave with a bad heart would be a poor investment.

The venfor will have subjected the slave to obedience training and conditioning. For a busy dominant woman that may be a valuable time saver.

Some Mistresses will not want a slave who has had any pre-training. Retrainig the slave to her own idiosyncratic form of female dominance would be boring and time consuming.

By prearrangement the owner of the slave market can find a slave who matches all your physical requirements but is virgin to female domination. Many women enjoy giving a slave his first whipping, attaching the first chastity device.

Slaves while in a certain sense worthless are expensive purchases. The woman should weigh all her options and take her time to insure the buys the best slave possible.

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Illustration by Emma S.

You Say Mistress, I Say Ma’am

Language Is a Cruel Mistress

By Her Bootlicker

Female Led Mistress Wife Household Domina

Beginning with Latin (always a good place to start any language discussion), “Domina” literally means “the lady of the house,” in the sense of “domestic boss.” (“Domine” is Biblical Latin for “Lord,” as in deity, and “Domina” is simply the feminine.) So that’s a good title.

“Mistress” is a feminine of “Mister,” which can be understood as “lord,” “sir,” or any number of similar terms. Until the 19th century, it was used as a title for any woman, single or married. It came to mean the female owner of a pet in the 19th century, and as a translation of the old Latin “domina,” the female in charge of a household, and hence of the servants (or slaves) working in that household.

“Mistress” as a euphemism for “kept woman” is fairly recent, apparently a matter of finding a word to fit a vacant place in Victorian vocabulary. It is this meaning that seems to bother most people in the Woman Worship scene today. A century ago, it clearly meant that she was there for his use, an unofficial employee, as it were, at his command. Clearly, that will not do here!

The significance we want is that of the Lady and Her servant, the Owner and Her dog. As long as both understand that is the exclusive and exact meaning, there is no problem. If others outside the relationship do not use the term that way, we have a problem. Solve it either by excluding them (keeping the FLR confidential) or change to a term that will not be understood.

What term, then? “Lady” implies a “Lord.” “Madam[e]” reminds us of the euphemism for a brothel owner, which leads back to the male-dominant model.

“Domina” may require conversation in Latin only [;-D]. “Madonna” is confusing, “Maitresse” good if you have some French, and “Herrin” if German is part of your linguistic landscape. “Ma’am” (a contraction of Madam) works well, except that it brings back memories of school days to some. (That may be just right, though, for many of us.)

Keeping the relationship private solves many problems; private may mean behind the bedroom door (and maybe in the basement!), or it may mean in the company of others who are in the scene. There you can do as you like, and it’s nobody else’s business. In the end, that may be the best way to handle the whole thing: privately.

Lifestyle Contract for Male Slaves (F/m Rules & Regulations)

Rules of Behavior and Deportment Governing Enslaved Men

Mistress, i freely and willingly affirm that i am Your slave, whose sole reason for existence is Your pleasure. i have no rights or privileges other than those granted to me by You. i swear to always honor You through my obedience and service. my body and mind are Yours to use in any way You choose.

“Mistress , i acknowledge that You are under no obligation to explain Your orders or to justify Your punishment and training, but i am under every obligation to obey You and accept Your punishment.

“my body, mind, and soul are from this day forth the private property of my Mistress, to be used as SHE sees fit. i promise to obey Her completely, to do whatever She tells me to do, to submit to any punishment SHE sees fit to impose on me.

“i renounce any rights that i may have to think my own thoughts, care for my own needs or comfort, or control my own destiny. From now on, i shall wear only what SHE commands me to wear, and serve only HER.

“Since i hereby renounce any rights to a personal opinion, desire, or need have my own, this agreement can never be broken by me for any reason because I desire a lifetime commitment. my obligation to the Mistress is to be whatever SHE wants me to be.

“i acknowledge i am a slave and i live to Worship and Obey You as my Mistress.”

Part of a slave’s training is having clear-cut rules to live by. There are rules that apply to all situations and some that apply only when in the presence of the Mistress or in an environment where the SM scene is understood and accepted.

The Mistress’s time is precious and HER time with the slave may be short. In no case does this fact detract from the standards of excellence expected from the slave. Training may be harsh. This is the fastest way to train and also the method that produces the most effective results. The slave will enthusiastically accept training. The Mistress will acknowledge when a task is performed properly and the slave will sincerely thank the Mistress for the training. The Mistress will take as long as necessary to train the slave as long as the slave is genuinely trying and not malingering. Once a slave has been trained, if it fails in a task, the Mistress will assume that it is being disobedient and it will be punished.

The slave’s body becomes the Mistress’s property; as such, the slave has no right to protest any use the Mistress chooses to make of it.

Rather, it is an honor if the Mistress deigns to touch HER property in any fashion SHE desires.

It is the slave’s duty to obey any and all commands given by the Mistress, and to do this without question or hesitation.

The slave shall speak only when the Mistress gives permission. The slave will request permission to speak prior to asking any questions it may have regarding the Mistress’s commands or specifications of the slave’s assigned duties.

In all his personal activities, the slave surrenders all decisions to the Mistress.

A series of positions will be learned by the slave regarding standing, sitting, using the toilet, presenting his body for inspection, etc., and will be practiced according to the training provided by the Mistress.

The Mistress may choose to ignore the slave for long, extended periods. The slave will remain silent for whatever length of time the Mistress requires.

The slave agrees to adhere with all his life to the rules or regulations the Mistress may add at a future time. The slave understands that the Mistress is the sole judge in determining whether an infraction of this contract has occurred. The Mistress is also the sole judge in determining the degree of punishment. Punishment may include dismissal from service.

1. The slave will always show his Mistress the highest level of respect.

2. The slave will never lie to his Mistress.

3. The slave will never piss standing up. A slave is subservient to his Mistress and should not be so presumptuous as to imitate a man. Men piss standing up slaves do not. The slave will always sit on a toilet or squat down to piss. This will help serve as a reminder of who and what he is. The slave will not use the seat of a toilet. The slave will sit on the cold porcelain when he shits or pisses. The Mistress uses the seat and the slave’s ass is not worthy of touching what SHE has used.

4. The slave shall address the Mistress as “Ma’am” or “Mistress” at all times unless given permission to do otherwise, and shall address the Mistress with respect at all times. When using formal address, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “the Mistress” or “SHE”, and to itself as “the slave” or “it”. When using familiar address, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “Ma’am” or “You”, and to itself as “i” or “me”. When speaking to others, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “my Mistress” , and to itself as “i” and “me”.

5. The slave shall, at all times, respectfully request permission to take any action not expressly directed by the Mistress. A reason must be given for such actions at the time of the request.

6. The slave is to use the Mistress’s space with utmost respect and shall always leave any area he is permitted to use in a state of order and cleanliness. Not withstanding, the slave shall not disturb any of Mistress’s personal belongings without express permission.

7. The slave will never wear underwear, except as the Mistress directs. It is an article of unnecessary clothing. If the slave works on the outside and must wear something, it will be a jockstrap.

8. The slave will never touch its cock, balls, asshole, or tits without the Mistress’s permission. They are for HER enjoyment only, not the slave’s.

9. The slave will have no privacy from his Mistress. There is nothing that the slave will not reveal to HER. The slave is the Mistress’s property and, as such, SHE has the right to know everything.

10. The slave will sleep at the foot of the Mistress’s bed or in a cage as the Mistress requires. The slave will only sleep in the Mistress’s bed when ordered to do so.

11. At home, the slave will not sit on any furniture unless instructed to do so. The slave will kneel, lay, or sit on the floor as ordered.

12. The Mistress will train the slave and the slave will always do his best to follow instructions. The slave will learn how to serve his Mistress’s every need and desire.

13. The slave will never embarrass his Mistress for fear of being severely punished.

14. The slave will always strive to extend his limits to new heights so the Mistress can be increasingly proud of HER property.

15. The slave will willingly accept punishment from the Mistress. It is meant to remind the slave of how he is to behave and perform his duties to HER.

18. The slave will offer his body and mind to the Mistress at any time SHE desires to use it. The purpose of how SHE uses the slave is immaterial; it is sufficient that SHE wants to use it.

19. The Mistress will frequently enjoy Herself in ways that may cause the slave great pain. The slave will learn to accept and rejoice in the fact that it is able to perform that service for HER, even when it means considerable agony.

20. The slave will always wear what the Mistress determines to be the appropriate attire for any given situation. This may be as little as a jockstrap and slave collar, even in public. The fact that this may cause the slave embarrassment is of no concern. When in the Mistress’s home or when the Mistress is present in the slave’s home, the slave will remain naked at all times.

21. The slave will keep himself shaved of hair, as ordered or as removed by the Mistress. When clothing is required, as determined by the Mistress, the Mistress will specify it.

22. All orders are subject to verbal modification at the pleasure of the Mistress and the Mistress may impose such additional orders as SHE deems appropriate.

23. The slave shall keep its mind concentrated solely upon service to the Mistress and shall demonstrate its acceptance of his role of service and availability at all times.

24. Whenever the Mistress or the slave enters a room in which the other is already present, the slave will immediately kneel and kiss the Mistress’s feet, unless physically unable to or under previous orders not to. If the Mistress’s clit is free, the slave will take it into its mouth after kissing the Mistress’s feet and keep it there until the Mistress orders otherwise.

25. The MISTRESS may give the slave “free periods” in His presence, during which the slave may express himself openly and freely. There will be no punishment applied during “free periods.” It is understood, however, that the slave must still address the MISTRESS with respect at all times, and that the slave may be punished for infractions of this rule.

The slave is to be punished for all infractions of both the letter and the spirit of this Contract. The form and extent of punishment shall be at the Mistress’s pleasure and the MISTRESS shall make it clear to the slave that he is being punished when punishment occurs. The slave shall always thankfully accept punishment as an opportunity to expand in the service of the Mistress.

The slave shall behave in a manner consistent with the rules set forth in the three conduct modes outlined below. The Mistress may, from time to time, indicate which mode the slave shall act within by stating the name of the mode to the slave; the mode may change at any time, depending on circumstances, and the slave must always be aware and conscious of the Mistress’s wishes. The Mistress may institute a set of silent or otherwise unobtrusive signals to notify the slave of the current mode.

Private Mode
In Private Mode, the slave is bound solely by the rules set forth in the basic Contract and no additional restrictions are imposed upon the slave’s conduct, save those stated by the Mistress. This mode will normally (though not always) be in effect when the Mistress and the slave are in the Mistress’s space or in the space of a knowledgeable and/or sympathetic person or persons.

Friendly Mode
Friendly Mode may be in effect in public places such as leather bars, where casual onlookers will understand the dress, demeanor, and appearance of the Mistress and slave, and the nature of their relationship, for what they are and viewed sympathetically (or at least not antagonistically).

The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s conduct and demeanor while in Friendly Mode.

Stationary Position

The slave shall remain at the Mistress’s side at all times unless specifically instructed otherwise. While the Mistress and the slave are standing in one place, the slave shall maintain a physical position to the right of and one-half step behind the Mistress.
Moving Position

If the Mistress begins to move from one place to another, the slave shall position himself to the right of and slightly behind the Mistress and move at the same speed as the Mistress. The slave’s position shall be such that he is always within the limit of the Mistress’s peripheral vision at all times. Under no circumstances shall the slave precede the Mistress, except to open the door or other such service as the Mistress requires. Elevation

The slave’s eye level shall be below that of the Mistress at all times. Should the Mistress move so that HER eye level is below that of the slave, the slave shall immediately move so as to correct this imbalance. The General Orders are hereby extended to include all furniture, not just that in the Mistress’s space: the slave shall therefore go to its knees (or to a lower position, if need be) should the Mistress’s eye level drop below the slave’s, rather than (for example) sit with the Mistress, unless granted specific permission or specifically ordered to do so.

Interactions With Others

The slave shall speak to no one at any time unless first spoken to or instructed to speak by the Mistress. The slave shall treat all persons with deference and respect, regardless of their demeanor or appearance. The Mistress may, at HER discretion, grant the slave free time. In this mode, the slave is free to interact normally with acquaintances, but shall make frequent eye contact with the Mistress and be prepared to go into any other mode the Mistress directs.

Public Mode

Public Mode will generally apply in contexts where the Mistress/slave relationship may not be accepted or understood by those present. The following rules are, therefore, intended more to ensure the physical safety of the Mistress and slave, rather than to further the relationship between them.

The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s behavior in Public Mode. General Demeanor

The slave shall conduct itself at all times in such a manner so as not to call attention to the Mistress and slave.

Certain Orders Suspended

The rules of the General Orders prohibiting the slave’s use of furniture and prohibiting the slave from being clothed are suspended while in Public Mode.

Movement and Position

The movement and position rules set forth in friendly mode also apply to Public Mode, with the provision that the slave shall not make his adherence to said rules obvious; casual and relatively loose (but definite!), rather than quick and snappy, conformance to the rules is called for in such situations.

Interactions With Others

The slave shall speak only when spoken to by others and shall converse with others only with the Mistress’s permission. If someone approaches the slave he shall limit his speech and behave in a courteous and non-offensive manner. The slave should assume he is in the company of the straight public and identify himself with his common given name, behaving in a manner that will not call attention to the nature of the true relationship between the Mistress and slave, calling the Mistress by HER formal surname, rather than referring to HER as Mistress.

The slave shall display the following authorized slave attitudes and attributes at all times:

Humility Submission Obedience Eagerness to Obey oSpeed in Carrying Out Orders oCompetence in Carrying Out Orders oSuccess in Completely Carrying Out Orders oServility oSlavish Loyalty oSlavish Devotion oGratitude towards its Mistress oLove for its Mistress oWorship for its Mistress

1. The slave shall immediately, eagerly and without question carry out all commands and orders given to it without exception.

2. The slave shall fully and successfully carry out all such commands and orders, complying completely with both the letter and spirit of every command.

3. The slave is strictly forbidden to make any mistakes whatsoever in carrying out its Mistress’s orders and commands.

4. The slave must carry out all orders and commands completely within the time allotted for carrying them out.

5. The slave shall show its Mistress the utmost gratitude for the privilege of carrying out HER orders and commands, offering HER formal thanks whenever permitted to do so.

6. The slave shall NEVER, for any reason or under any circumstance, question, complain about or refuse an order or command given to it by its Mistress.

7. The slave shall immediately report to its Mistress upon the complete carrying out of any order or command, except when to do so would bother or irritate Her.

8. The slave shall humbly and quietly await further orders when it has fully completed one order or command and has reported back to its Mistress.

9. The slave shall be prepared at all times to have all completed orders, tasks and assignments fully and minutely inspected to see that every detail has been carried out according to instruction.

10. Any failure on the part of the slave to fully, completely and perfectly carry out its assigned orders shall be considered a serious and punishable offense.


1. The slave speaks only when spoken to and then says, “Ma’am”, with every sentence.

2. The slave obeys all orders, no matter what. it questions nothing and is well punished if it does.

3. The slave does not sit in its Mistress’s presence. it may stand, kneel, or lay, but sit only when ordered.

4. A slave never wears underwear. it seldom wears anything above the waist outdoors other than its leather (if earned), and indoors little below the waist other than its chains.

5. The slave may be shaved and instructed to wear its cockring permanently.

6. The slave’s toilet training begins with always obtaining permission to use the bathroom — and is seldom allowed to use it alone.

7. The slave, in its entirety, belongs to its Mistress and, therefore, the slave is not allowed to touch certain areas of itself or its Mistress for any reason without permission.

8. All of a slave’s possessions are automatically its Mistress’s. The slave owns nothing.

9. The slave lives by a curfew; all personal habits — such as drinking, smoking, eating, sleeping, exercise, and sex — are governed completely by its Mistress.

10. The slave’s creed is to be memorized, as it will be called upon to recite it at any time — and perfectly!

“I am a pussy licking, ass-kissing slave whose sole reason for being is the pleasure of my Mistress. I have no rights, no privileges, and am worthy of no considerations. My Mistress’s pleasure is my reason for being. My body and mind are His property to do with whatever SHE chooses. I exist only to serve.”slave’s number or slave name (assigned upon acceptance)

By his signature below, the slave acknowledges that it has read, understands, and agrees to abide by the rules of this Contract.

Lifestyle, Lifetime TPE Male Enslavement Rules & Agreement

Irrevocable, Irreversible, Inexorable, Irresistible

Absolute & 24/7 Total Power Exchange Contract

Permanent Female-Led Male Slavery

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Slave exists only for Mistress Owner’s pleasure, use and convenience.

Slave obeys instantly without hesitating, questioning, negotiating or debating.

Slave behavior will be regulated by many rituals and protocols. No variation is ever permitted.

When Mistress Owner speaks slave listens. If slave was talking it will instantly silent.

Slave’s body is owned by Mistress Owner. Mistress Owner will use, modify, change it as she desires.

Slave will conform to a dress code be it total nudity, transvestism or whatever garments Mistress Owner selects.

Slave’s mind is Mistress Owner’ property. Mistress Owner will teach slave what to think.

Slave’s heart belongs to Mistress Owner. All slave feeling revolve around satisfying Mistress Owner.

Slave does not use furniture. Normally will stand at attention or be permitted to sit at Mistress Owner’s feet.

Mistress Owner will provide slave prayers of worship. Slave will recite these to itself silently throughout the day.

Slave transfers all money to its Mistress Owner. Slave itself never has any property.

Slave is property. Mistress Owner may sell, trade or dispose of slave as suits her will or whim.

To be signed at beginning of enslavement. Can be recited weekly as vows or renewal or daily as a prayer of Mistress Owner worship.

Compare to other male enslavement contracts.

Complete Male Submission & Chastity Contract

Binding Male Slavery & Chastity Contract

This Contract between submissive male and Mistress covers the terms of the training of submissive male by his Mistress to the optimal level of utilitarian and intimate service, as judged by the Mistress. The Mistress may use any and all means of enforcement as described herein necessary to achieve the results she desires. It is the intention of both parties that the submissive male shall become the sex slave of Mistress for the term of this Contract, to be formally trained to serve her, and that the Mistress commits to firmly and consistently using whatever force may be necessary to accomplish this goal.


  • submissive male admits that he had difficulty staying focused and completing tasks that he knows he should complete.
  • submissive male admits he has not provided Mistress with the affection, support, love, and deference she deserves and wishes to be trained to treat her as the superior She is.
  • To remedy past faults and any other faults Mistress identifies, submissive male desires to submit to his Mistress’s authority and desires to give his Mistress all tools necessary to forcefully correct his behavior and train him to serve the Mistress as she sees fit. Training tools at her disposal specifically include, but are not limited to, orgasm denial, humiliation, restraint, and corporal punishment.
  • submissive male acknowledges that Mistress undertakes the duties and role herein described at submissive male’s insistence and that Mistress did not compel or coerce submissive male’s participation.
  • submissive male acknowledges that the purpose of this Contract is to provide complete satisfaction to the Mistress and that she shall have no responsibility for submissive male’s satisfaction.
  • In consideration of submissive male’s commitment to be trained, Mistress commits to physically discipline submissive male to compel his specific performance under this Contract.
  • Mistress is willing to undertake the training and discipline of submissive male as described herein and enthusiastically administer whatever discipline is necessary to train submissive male.
  • submissive male wishes to be trained and disciplined by Mistress according to this Contract.


The term of this Contract shall be for one year. If the Contract is not cancelled by either party at the end of the first year, it shall become permanent.

Chastity Device

submissive male will wear a locked chastity device acceptable to Mistress at all times, except as provided herein. If requested by Mistress, submissive male will acquaint Mistress with the various models and types and agrees to obtain and be restrained in any device specified by Mistress.

Numbers shown below represent the Minimum Punishment Penalties which accrue during the week for specific infractions. One MPP = 1 stroke of the whip. MPPs earned during the week must be worked off during that week’s punishment session. Each week, submissive male automatically accrues MPPs simply because he is Mistress’s trainee.


  • submissive male is responsible for daily cleaning of device.
  • submissive male will notify the Mistress immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.
  • The Mistress will supervise at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.
  • submissive male agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Mistress, including restraints if deemed necessary.
  • submissive male agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly to keep genital area free from hair.
  • submissive male agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings unless specifically ordered not to by Mistress.
  • Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no sexual releases are permitted and submissive male agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.


  • Mistress will retain all keys to said device and all other devices, locks, restraints.
  • submissive male will not attempt to defeat the device in any way or possess any keys.
  • Mistress will make one emergency key available to submissive male for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to submissive male.
  • submissive male agrees that in such emergency he will notify Mistress immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
  • submissive male agrees that once medical condition has been rectified submissive male will re-secure device immediately and notify Mistress of said action.

Sexual Release

  • submissive male shall have no sexual release without the explicit permission of Mistress.
  • Mistress agrees that submissive male will be entitled to at least three releases in any sixty-day period, provided his service meets the requirements set by Mistress. Releases will be for a period of no less than 8 hours but no more than 24 hours.
  • Mistress is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out.
  • submissive male acknowledges and agrees that Mistress has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Mistress do not constitute a release for submissive male.
  • submissive male agrees to immediately and enthusiastically satisfy Mistress by any and all means Mistress requests for sexual and sensual gratification.
  • submissive male agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Mistress.
  • submissive male agrees that Mistress may release submissive male for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted unless Mistress specifically permits one.
  • submissive male must always ask for permission to ejaculate.
  • submissive male agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ones, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Mistress.
  • submissive male agrees that Mistress may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on submissive male and submissive male will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once submissive male is told by Mistress to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)

Non-Sexual Releases

  • submissive male agrees that Mistress may release submissive male out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.
  • submissive male agrees to abide by all directions from Mistress during such releases.
  • submissive male agrees to re-secure device upon command from Mistress.


As deemed of value in training by Mistress, or for her amusement and humiliation of submissive male,

  • If submissive male is caught by Mistress wearing panties, he will receive an immediate 20 strokes.
  • Mistress agrees that she will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would unintentionally cause public humiliation for submissive male.
  • submissive male acknowledges that Mistress may adorn herself in various clothing to tease and/or torment submissive male and that submissive male is not entitled to a sexual release because of such adornment.
  • At any time, Mistress may blindfold submissive male and use permanent markers to decorate submissive male’s genitals in any way she sees fit.

General Understandings

  • Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this Contract, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this Contract.
  • submissive male agrees and understands that Mistress may use various methods to tease and torment submissive male at any time. Furthermore, submissive male understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Mistress may continue at will and, in fact, submissive male desires that his limits be tested in this area.
  • Mistress understands that she is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from submissive male during periods of confinement and submissive male promises to provide same, enthusiastically and to the best of his ability.
  • submissive male agrees to disclose truthfully, when ordered by Mistress, any and all fantasies he may have in mind.
  • submissive male is aware that rewards – up to and including sexual release – are given for good behavior including but not limited to performing duties as specified by Mistress, pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other methods. Penalties shall accrue if these events are not forthcoming.
  • Both parties agree that modifications to this Contract may be needed during the period of this Contract and that such modifications can be made unilaterally by Mistress.

Penalties and Punishments

Mistress agrees that submissive male’s deviation from contract will result in mandatory punishments and discipline to obtain desired behavior.

  • Breach of contract by Mistress will constitute a cancellation of contract without penalty to Mistress.
  • Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of submissive male from device.
  • Breach of performance by submissive male will be handled at the discretion of the Mistress as outlined below.
    • Unauthorized removal of device will result in a certain thirty-day period of lock up and denial for submissive male. Absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for submissive male during this penalty period and submissive male may not discuss the subject of sex.
    • Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result in a certain forty-five day period of lock up and denial for submissive male. Again, absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for submissive male during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Mistress
    • submissive male agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Mistress at any time to correct or punish infractions from contract or simply for Mistress’s entertainment or at her whim.
    • submissive male agrees that failure to accept punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this Contract and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behavior on part of Mistress. 50


To reinforce correct behavior, Mistress may, from time to time and at Her total discretion, reward submissive male for good behavior by allowing him a certain number of minutes to masterbate under her supervision. submissive male must instantly strip completely when ordered to and Mistress must keep all her clothes on. Mistress will give submissive male the key to unlock his chastity belt and start the clock. The submissive male is never allowed to ejaculate during reward sessions, but may get as close as he likes. As soon as the time is up, the chastity belt must be replaced. The submissive male is never told how many minutes he has.

If keys are not already in the Mistress’s possession, upon signing of contract submissive male is to immediately secure said device and hand over all keys to Mistress. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.

Miscellaneous terms and conditions to further clarify the relationship

The Mistress is expected to use any and all means at her disposal to motivate submissive male to willingly and eagerly serve her for her pleasure and submit to her will. Failing that approach, she may use whatever force is necessary to deepen his worshipful submission to her, which is the goal of this Contract and the sworn duty of the Mistress.

To insure a successful marriage and to assure the submissive male is properly trained to meet the requirements of the Mistress, the submissive male will agree to the following regarding the penis, which will now be called the “marital penis”:

  • The Mistress will have complete ownership and control of the marital penis.
  • The Mistress will decide if and when the marital penis will be allowed to ejaculate. She may deny giving permission for any period at her sole discretion.
  • The Mistress may hint at or even promise relief, but in most all cases change her mind later and refuse.
  • The Mistress will decide the method used to cause the marital penis to ejaculate. She may, for example, have the submissive male masturbate in her presence, or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her designee.
  • The submissive male is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing of the marital penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects (except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated by the Mistress.
  • The submissive male is not permitted to touch the marital penis without permission, except to shave his penis and balls under the Mistress’s supervision. The submissive male must keep his genitals free of hair at all times.
  • The submissive male will wear a chastity belt when ordered by Mistress. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the Mistress’s absolute domination and control of the marital penis.
  • The submissive male is not permitted to touch any Female or expose himself to any Female unless directed to do so by the Mistress.
  • submissive male agrees to purchase and use according to Mistress’s instructions any disciplinary equipment that Mistress feels may be necessary to further his training and obedience. submissive male must subtly bring the existence of such training materials and equipment to the attention of Mistress.
  • As training progresses, the Mistress shall raise her standards of performance, adjust MPPs, and make any adjustments she feels necessary to achieve A+ behavior in submissive male.
  • The submissive male is not allowed to put a lock on his balls.

To insure a successful marriage, the Mistress has the following rights:

The Mistress has complete ownership and control of the marital penis and She and only She will decide when it will be touched, rubbed, sucked or placed into or on any object whether animate or inanimate and when or even if it may ejaculate.

The Mistress requires the submissive male to wear a chastity device on the marital penis that may eliminate engorgement of the marital penis, touching of the marital penis, and has absolute control of ejaculation.

The Mistress has the right to deny ejaculation for the entire term of this Contract or to deny ejaculation until submissive male’s training is completed.

Should the Mistress instruct that the marital penis be allowed to ejaculate, in order to reaffirm and strengthen the submission of the submissive male to the Mistress, the Mistress has the right to dictate the method of recycling of the ejaculate. The submissive male must always ask for permission before any ejaculation and agrees to follow Mistress’s instructions. Wive will intentionally deny permission in most cases.

The Mistress has the right to dictate any method of recycling of the ejaculate in any way She sees fit to further the submissive male’s submissive training and obedience through the use of humiliation.

The Mistress has the right to demand sexual pleasure from the submissive male at any time without any reciprocal duties, which may include but not be limited to cunnilingus, fornication and body worship.

Since the Mistress no longer needs the marital penis for satisfaction, She may seek other means of satisfaction.

Upon demand, the Mistress has the right to have Her pussy licked clean by the submissive male.

Mistress may instruct submissive male to be the dominant one and act accordingly, at her whim. submissive male must comply. Mistress must provide specific instruction or training in her desired rendition of this role.

At any time indicated by the Mistress, but without the suggestion of the submissive male, the submissive male shall immediately strip and kneel before the Mistress, or take any position demanded by the Mistress, either restrained or not.

The Mistress has the right to administer punishment spankings at anytime, for any reason, including no reason at all.

To maintain discipline, the Mistress will spank the submissive male at least once a week during the scheduled discipline session.

Dress Code

To insure a successful marriage, the submissive male’s dress code is as follows:

For her entertainment and to further the humiliation necessary to strengthen the training, the Mistress sets the rules that dictate what her submissive male shall wear. For example:

  • The submissive male may be required to remove all clothes after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
  • The submissive male may be required to wear clothes that allow him to be exposed after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
  • Sexual devices such as butt plugs, chastity devices, rope binding, handcuffs, etc. are considered clothing.
  • Mistress may, for her entertainment, require submissive male to wear a slave collar and leash, an apron, or thong
  • Instructing the submissive male to wear clothes only suitable for women or sissified men. This may include under clothes such as panties or bra or over clothes such as a dress or skirt.
  • When alone at home and the temperature is adequate, submissive male may be instructed to wear only his apron.

The submissive male is required to advise the Mistress when his workday is easy and he is available to service the Mistress.

To insure a successful marriage, and to train the submissive male to meet the Mistress’s high standards, the Mistress will punish the submissive male for any of the following infractions. This is a minimal guide only and does not limit the Mistress to decide to punish for other infractions or for her entertainment:

  • Not following instructions or not completing job assignments to Mistress’s satisfaction.
  • Making any reference to sex, submission, or being a slave on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday, except that he will present himself on demand to his Mistress for punishment and job assignments at her command.
  • Not satisfying his Mistress when directed to do so.
  • Not following the dress code.
  • Complaining or forbidding the Mistress to have sex outside the marriage as is Her right. 50
  • Touching his penis.
  • Ejaculating without permission. 50
  • Asking for sexual favors from any Female, including the Mistress.
  • Failure to anticipate the Mistress’s needs for comfort and affection.
  • Failure to read his Mistress’s mind in regard to any matter.

To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Mistress may punish the submissive male as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Mistress’s choice of punishment which is only limited by the Mistress’s imagination:

  • Spanking
  • Whipping
  • Binding him to the bed or other object for extended periods of time. During this time she may spank or whip the submissive male’s body. The penis or balls may be bound and/or stretched with any device the Mistress chooses. This will possibly increase the size of the substandard puny marital penis.
  • Restraining him with ropes, belts, chains or handcuffs
  • Prolonging the submissive male’s chastity period
  • Applying pressure to the submissive male’s balls to create discomfort. Since the submissive male does not own the marital penis and balls, the level of pressure exerted on the balls is entirely up to the Mistress’s discretion.

To insure a successful chastity marriage, the submissive male acknowledges that the following are privileges, not punishments:

  • Satisfying his Mistress, whenever and however She demands.
  • Allowing the Mistress to withhold her permission for his ejaculation to improve the marriage by making him more attentive and responsive.
  • Cleaning his Mistress’s pussy with his mouth on Her demand and after intercourse.
  • Dress code including chastity devices.
  • Punishment administered by his Mistress or Her designee.

To insure a successful chastity marriage:

The Mistress has the right to change or add to this contract at will and the submissive male must comply with the new conditions as if they were in the initial Contract set forth here.

The submissive male does not have the right to change any conditions under this contract without the prior written permission of the Mistress.

To enforce compliance with this Contract through possible humiliation, the Mistress has the right to expose the existence and content of this Contract and the slave status of submissive male to anyone. Mistress may order submissive male to drop his pants and show the chastity belt. 50

The submissive male must be completely naked when signing this Contract and the Mistress must be fully clothed so that the new power relationship is clear and established.

Upon signing this Contract, submissive male will provide Mistress with a set of permanent markers, blindfold himself and present his genitals to Mistress so that She may decorate her property appropriately.

More about Female Led Relationship Contracts

I Believe Women Are Better Than Mem

I Believe Women Are Better Than Men.

A man expresses his faith in the superiority of women

(Like many in the world today, i grew up in a home that was destroyed by the man.) You do not explain why he left, so your argument has no bases. Your Mother by taking out their anger on you is guilty of Child Abuse.

(my experience is not the only one, as there are millions of worthless men all through the world that will say anything and everything to a Lady, just to take her to bed and leave Her soon after. This is the lowest form of life… someone who is so concerned about self-gratification that he doesn’t think about how many lives he ruins in the process.) Did he force them to go to bed with him? No he did not they knew it was only about sex and enjoyed doing so themselves.

(Women generally i do not think would go to war or fight over foolishness like this.) Please I have seen women fight over less and even try to kill each other over a Girl Friend or Boy Friend.

(When i moved to Florida, i was fortunate enough to be allowed to serve a Mistress who was a firm believer in chastity. She felt that every male should be in chastity when they turn 10 years old. males have no ability to control their ‘urges’, and prove on a regular basis how inferior they are to Women by everything as simple as obsessing about pornographic material, to the ache and need to constantly touch themselves, all the way to much more violent crimes such as rape.) OK as a Dominatrix myself a chastity device is used for the enforcement of rules. Females and Males can be fitted with a Chastity device. Your Mistress mistreated you and trained you in the wrong way, she was not a mistress but a Female supremacist who imparted her views on you which is a violation of the Dominate and submissive values. Males can and do control their ergs because you could not is one of your problems. The difference is a Males arousal is physically noticeable where a Females is n
ot so noticable. Female also watch porn on a regular basses.

(i think some men, when properly trained and conditioned can be useful parts of society and assist Women, but so many men should simply be castrated to help society be a better place.) Yes males trained to be Sissies and be overlords of other males. Yes a Feminist way of thinking that castration is such a good Idea to control males,IE Eunuchs. Now I Know you must be one of them Gynarchists thinking you will save the Planet from males who went on a rampage.

Yes all who agree with this are #gynarchists who think Lesbians are the most advanced form of life on the Planet. We are not the most advanced form of life. We are just as human as males and just as apt to screw things up as the males did. Balance between both Feminine and Masculine would work best, but as equals.

GYNARCHY is a really stupid Idea born from a person who a Sociopathic Homicidal Maniac.

(i can only pray that Hillary Clinton is able to win the next election and at the very least, America can be under the power of a strong intelligent Woman and no longer ruled by male dictatorship.) Hilary Clinton is not strong or intelligent, She is only a figurehead her strings are pulled by someone else. She should never be Elected if she is Males will know a future of subhuman slavery. The extremists of Gynarchy have linked up all Female supremacy, Female empowerment, Feminist and Female rights groups together to form one Hugh association. If you doubt me visit their site. (Gynarchy international.)

I am a believer in Female superiority but see some vry disturbing things in the making.

This was originally posted as a comment on Femdom Government


Absolute & Binding Male Slave Rules and Contract

Male Slave Conduct Contract Regulations*

Submissive Male Slave Bondage

By Mistress Thionite

[1]Male Slaves are considered as the lowest form of life on this planet. Every
other living thing has a higher rank than that of Male Slave. A Male Slave’s Mistress
may use his Male Slave for any purpose, including, but not limited to, household
duties, sexual gratification, and being loaned out to others for the
exchange of money. There are two types of Male Slaves, Full-Time Male Slaves, and
SessionMale Slaves. Some rules differ for each type, and are described as such
when necessary. When no distinction between Male Slave types is given, the Rule
applies to both types. Full-Time Male Slaves are exactly as the title suggests,
full time. These types are used in household duties, and are under
constant supervision by a Mistress. Session Male Slaves are those who only
occasionally enjoy the sexual aspect of the Mistress/Male Slave life.

[2] Absolute obedience of each of these 35 rules is required. Failure to
comply with any of these rules will result in 25 lashes with the cat-o-nine
tails, belt or cane, for each offense.

[3] Male Slave is not permitted to use pronouns that refer to it as a person.
Only “Male Slave”, and “it”, or something else that shows no personal identity.

[4] Male Slave will not speak unless spoken to by Mistress or any of Mistress’s
associates, except in case of an emergency such as fire, drowning, or other
such event that would require instant help.

[5] Full-Time Male Slave is responsible for keeping its body devoid of hair,
except eyebrows and on the top of its head, either by shaving, waxing or
hair-removal gels/lotions. This will be done with complete supervision by
Mistress. Session Male Slave may be required to arrive at its appointment
completely hairless. This is at the discretion of Mistress.

[6] Full-Time Male Slave is to be naked at all times. Session Male Slave is to be
naked when it arrives for its appointment. The appointment is considered
to have started and/or ended the moment Male Slave steps over Mistress’s

[7] Full-Time Male Slave is forbidden to touch its genitals, or ass, except in
accordance of Rules 5, 13 & 14. Session Male Slave is forbidden from touching
its genitals at any time during an appointment.

[8] Immediately upon agreement of becoming Full-Time Male Slave, it agrees to
surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s Male Slave, in the
form of all liquidated bank assets. Male Slave must also forfeit any previous
employment. Male Slave’s immediate family must be notified of Male Slave’s free will
to go into servitude. In return, Mistress agrees to keep in touch with
Male Slave’s family, in the event of family sickness or death. Session Male Slave is
required to surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s
Male Slave at the rate of $50 per hour. Appointments generally do not last more
than one day, unless previously agreed upon by both parties.

[9] Full-Time Male Slave is not permitted to leave Mistress’s residence, for any
reason except for emergency purposes.

[10] Male Slave is not permitted to use any seating other than the floor.

[11] Male Slave is not permitted to use any appliances, electronic devices or
other household items, unless otherwise ordered. These items include, but
are not limited to, stove, refrigerator, microwave, washer/dryer,
television, cell phone, radio, computer, etc.

[12] Male Slave has no privacy.

[13] Full-Time Male Slave will give itself a daily enema while under its
Mistress’s supervision. This will serve as Male Slave’s allotted daily
defecation. Session Male Slave is required to arrive at its appointment,
completely cleaned out.

[14] Full-Time Male Slave is granted permission to relieve its bladder three
times daily, at 8 am, 4 pm and Midnight, provided Mistress is awake. If
Mistress is not awake, or Male Slave is not being used as described in Rule 15, no
bathroom relief shall be granted. Session Male Slave will not be permitted to
relieve any bodily functions during an appointment.

[15] When Full-Time Male Slave is in use, Male Slave must remain within 3 feet of its
Mistress’s side, at all times. “In Use” is considered to be anytime Mistress
is home and awake. Session Male Slave must remain in sight at all times.

[16] When not in use, Full-Time Male Slave will reside in its cage, where its
arms and legs will be shackled, and tethered by its balls with a rope or

[17] Full-Time Male Slave will be displayed as such when Mistress receives guests.
No effort shall be made by Male Slave to cover up or hide its lowly status from
others. Male Slave is required to undertake all hostess duties, and provide
enough food to satisfy two servings, per person, per each dish made. Male Slave
will also provide all refreshments, and offer its mouth as an ashtray for
those guests who smoke.

[18] Male Slave shall regularly be tested for Obedience, to ensure proper

[19] All orders given to Male Slave must be obeyed immediately, without
question, and without hesitation.

[20] Male Slave shall assume any position when commanded. Positions are as
follows: (A) “Inspect”- Male Slave will stand, legs spread apart to its
shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (B) “Present”-
Male Slave will stand, legs together, hands clasped tightly behind its back.
(C) “Kneel”- Male Slave will drop to floor on its knees, legs spread apart to
its shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (D) “Lay”-
Male Slave will drop to its stomach, legs spread as wide apart as possible,
hands clasped tightly behind its head, elbows touching the ground. (E)
“Wall”- Male Slave will stand against nearest wall, hands clasped tightly behind
its head, and arch its body out as far as possible so that only its elbows
and heels are touching anything solid. (F) “Relax”- Male Slave will drop
facedown to the floor, then raise itself off the floor and arch its back as
high as possible, with only fingertips [not entire hands!] and tips of toes
touching the floor.

[21] When Male Slave is not being commanded, it will sit on the floor, hands
wrapped around Mistress’s ankles.

[22] Full-Time Male Slave will be locked into a chastity device at all times,
and permitted to cum only as Mistress sees fit. SessionMale Slaves may or may
not be kept in a chastity device, dependent upon Mistress’s desire. Male Slave
will be frequently edged toward cumming, but not be permitted to do so.
If, during an edging session Male Slave “accidentally” cums without permission,
it will receive an additional 10 lashes.

[23] Male Slave is required to have a butt plug in its anal cavity at all times.

[24] If Male Slave must relieve any bodily functions other than allotted times,
it must ask permission. If permission is asked, Male Slave will be punished for
breaking Rule 4 and receive an additional 25 lashes. Permission may or may
not be granted, dependent upon present activities and/or Mistress’s mood.

[25] When there is more than one Full-Time Male Slave in residence,Male Slaves are
not permitted to speak to each other in accordance with Rule 4. There are
video and audio surveillance devices located throughout Mistress’s home,
which are in use 24/7. If Male Slave is discovered to disobey this rule, an
additional 50 lashes will be served as punishment to all parties involved.

[26] Male Slave understands that it will be subjected to any and all sorts of
varying things, including, but not limited to, urination, pain, and

[27] Male Slave will immediately apologize, and request forgiveness of any

[28] When Male Slave is answering a question or commandment, Male Slave must reply in
as few words as possible. Male Slave will always end each sentence with either
“Sir”, “Mistress”, or “Mistress [insert name here]“.

[29] Full-Time Male Slave will be fed twice each day, 7 am and 7 p.m. Meals
will consist of whatever Mistress deems appropriate. Session Male Slave will be
fed if an appointment lasts longer than 9 hours. Male Slave can refuse any
meal; however, each refusal of a meal is punishable by 25 additional
lashings. Full-Time Male Slave will also receive a 36-hour fast of any food or

[30] In the case of sickness or death of anyone in Full-Time Male Slave’s
immediate family, Male Slave will be notified immediately and granted a
temporary Bereavement Leave of all household duties and allowed to join its
family, with Mistress’s supervision. Rules 3 – 5, 7, 10 – 14, 19 – 24, 27 –
29, 31 & 34 will still apply. In addition, no effort will be made by Male Slave
to cover up or hide its lowly status from others. In addition, Male Slave’s
safeword will not apply to this situation, nor will it get Male Slave out of any
service during Bereavement Leave. Male Slave must always remain within sight of
Mistress. There are no exceptions. Any and all punishments earned during
Bereavement Leave will be given immediately upon return to full service.
All “off-duty” time accumulated by Male Slave during its reprieve will be added
on at the end of its service, and tripled.

[31] No refunds for Male Slave servitude will be given, for any reason,

[32] Full-Time Male Slave agrees to a minimum mandatory 90-day contract, as a
trial period for both itself and Mistress. If during that time Male Slave does
not wish to continue service, or if Male Slave’s service is deemed
unsatisfactory by Mistress within that time, servitude will end on the 91st
day. If Mistress agrees to keep Male Slave longer, a new contract of no less than
six months will be signed and agreed upon. Each subsequent contract
renewal will carry an additional three months. For example, if Male Slave
passes the 90-day trial period, and the following six-month contract, the
following contract would be for nine months, the next would be twelve
months, and so on.

[33] Upon agreement of becoming Male Slave, it must commit to memory a safeword
of Mistress’s choosing. The safeword will release Male Slave from any situation
where it feels it is being used too roughly. If the safeword is used,
Male Slave understands that it will be punished for attempting to defy its
Mistress, and agrees to submit to a future punishment of Mistress’s choosing.

[34] Male Slave must endure any and all punishments without speaking, swearing
or other vocal statements. Sobbing, wailing, shrieking, etc., are
permitted, as long as no words are uttered. If any words are uttered
during punishment, an additional five lashes will be administered, per

[35] Male Slave is required to memorize each of these 35 Rules, verbatim, and
must be able to correctly state any and all Rules at any given time, under
any and all circumstances. Ten punishment lashes will be given for each
word missed or incorrectly added by Male Slave during recitation.

( * NB: I know some of you think this is the way to live in real life. But the words above are for fantasies. None of you could actually handle living like this.)

More F/m Contracts.

Originally posted 2013-07-20 05:50:09.

Femdom Marriage Contract

Mistress Wife / Slave Husband Contract

Mistress Wife, Slave Husband
More Jay Em M/f art.

Be it known that this agreement (“Agreement”) is entered
into on the __st day of ___, 2000 between [FULL NAME OF
OWNER/WIFE] (herein referred to as “[Owner]“), and [FULL
NAME OF SLAVE/HUSBAND] (herein referred to as “[slave]“).
[Owner] and [slave] currently reside at [COMPLETE ADDRESS].

Whereas, this Agreement is to further reinforce and confirm
terms already specified under other existing agreements
already made between [Owner] and [slave]. Both [Owner] and
[slave] hereby state that they have consensually entered
into a non-traditional marital relationship and have
happily and successfully lived as Wife and husband, for
more than one year, under the terms and obligations as
generally described in this Agreement. Both [Owner] and
[slave] hereby emphasize that even though this Agreement
and other agreements may appear to those outside of the
relationship to provide great benefit to [Owner] and little
benefit to [slave], both have fully consented, of their own
free will, to the terms and obligations described in this
Agreement. Both [Owner] and [slave] hereby state that they
both strongly desire to continue this non-traditional
marital relationship and expect that this Agreement shall
be legally enforced in a court of law should that become

[Owner] and [slave] hereby agree to the following terms:

Property and Income Ownership: Any and all forms of
property, income and assets which have come into the
possession of either [Owner] or [slave] have become the
exclusive property of [Owner]. Any and all forms of
property, income and assets which is acquired by either
[Owner] or [slave] at any time in the future shall
immediately, upon receipt, become the the exclusive
property of [Owner]. [slave] currently owns nothing and has
surrendered any and all of his future ownership rights to
[Owner], for the reminder of his life.

Property and Income Use: [Owner], at Her option and
discretion, may permit [slave] the use of any of Her
property and income. Such permission may be modified or
revoked as [Owner] sees fit, at any time.

Obligation to Obey: [slave] shall unconditionally and
cheerfully obey every one of [Owner]‘s commands and wishes
and shall, at all times, conduct himself within the rules
set forth by [Owner]. [slave] has surrendered all of his
personal freedoms to [Owner]. The only personal freedoms
permitted for [slave] are those which [Owner] may
graciously choose to allow him, at Her discretion.

Scope of Control: [slave] has surrendered to [Owner]
complete and unconditional control over all aspects of his
life including, but not limited to: Financial matters;
Personal matters; Professional matters; Social matters; And
legal matters (to the furthest extent permitted by law).

Punishment Actions: [Owner] has been given all rights to
punish [slave] in any way in which She desires, for any
reason that She feels is appropriate, at any time, and at
Her discretion. [Owner] shall not be required to
demonstrate to [slave] that any punishment action is
justified. [slave] shall to do his best to avoid punishment
by always striving to please and obey [Owner] and to always
strive to conduct himself within the rules set forth by
Her. [slave] shall cheerfully submit to any punishment
prescribed by [Owner] without hesitation.

Disputes or Disagreements: Any disputes or disagreements
that [slave] may have with [Owner] shall, by default,
automatically resolve to the favor of [Owner]‘s position.
[Owner] may, at Her discretion, graciously allow [slave]‘
position to be heard, but [Owner]‘s final decisions shall
indeed be final and [slave] will cheerfully and
unconditionally abide by them.

Appeals Process: There exists no appeals process available
to [slave]. [slave] is bound to cheerfully and
unconditionally obey every one of [Owner]‘s final
decisions, rules, commands, wishes, and desires.

Sexual Relationship: The only sexual pleasures [slave] is
permitted to enjoy shall be those which [Owner] chooses to
provide him or chooses to allow him to experience at Her
direction. [slave] shall keep [Owner]‘s sexual needs and
desires as his highest priority and he will constantly
strive to please Her in every way. [slave] shall not
purposely provide himself physical sexual stimulation in
any form without [Owner]‘s explicit permission to do so.

Monogamy and Chastity: [slave] shall remain completely and
faithfully monogamous to [Owner] in every sense of the
word. [Owner] may, at Her discretion, require [slave] to
wear a locked chastity device to ensure his monogamy and to
help him to develop further into a better and more pleasing
sexual partner for [Owner]‘s benefit.

Control of Body: [Owner] has absolute control over
[slave]‘ body in every way. This includes, but is not
limited to, [Owner]‘s rights to, at Her discretion: Control
what enters his body (as in eating and drinking); Control
what leaves his body (as in urination and defecation);
Adorn his body (as in choice of clothing and jewelry); Mark
his body (as in tattoos, bruises, welts, cuts and
abrasions); Modify his body (as in piercings, punctures,
brands, cuttings and scarification); Cause sensations to
his body (as in the infliction of pleasure and pain); And
maintain his body (as in weight and health issues). [slave]
shall unhesitatingly make his body completely accessible to
[Owner], without restriction, at Her request, for any
purpose She desires.

Separation or Divorce: If a separation or divorce should
occur, [slave] shall remain completely bound, in every way,
by the terms of this and all other agreements made between
[Owner] and [slave]. [slave] has completely surrendered any
and all of his rights against [Owner], including any rights
to: Attempt to contest any such action taken by [Owner];
Seek alimony, property division or property ownership; Or
to seek personal freedoms of any kind for himself. Any and
all forms of future income or future property acquired by
[slave] shall immediately be turned over to [Owner] and
shall belong exclusively to Her. This may be accomplished,
at [Owner]‘s discretion, through: Direct-deposit of
[slave]‘s funds into Her accounts; Depositing all checks and
cash received by [slave] into Her accounts; Or by signing
over all checks received by [slave] to be payable only to
Her. [Owner] may then, at Her discretion, provide [slave]
with a small living allowance as She sees fit. If a
separation or divorce should occur, [slave] shall continue
to unconditionally and cheerfully obey every one of
[Owner]‘s commands, wishes and rules just as if they were
not separated or divorced, for the rest of his life or
until [Owner] chooses to release him from this obligation.
[Owner] shall retain all of Her rights, in all forms, over
[slave] as She sees fit. Specifically, [Owner] shall retain
the right to direct [slave] in all aspects of his life, at
Her discretion, and [slave] shall not enter into a
relationship with another person without first obtaining
explicit permission from [Owner] to do so.

Transfer of Rights: [Owner] has the option of transferring
any and all of Her rights over [slave] to anyone of Her
choosing, at Her discretion. This may be done by [Owner] in
the form of either a temporary or a permanent assignment of
Her rights. [slave] shall be fully obligated to the person
designated by [Owner] in any way that She chooses to
obligate him. Should [Owner] become deceased before
transferring Her rights over [slave] to a designated
person, [slave] shall not enter into a close or intimate
relationship with another person for the rest of his life
and he shall continue to, at all times, conduct himself
according to the commands, wishes and rules that [Owner]
had previously specified for him to obey.

Consideration: In consideration for this Agreement,
[Owner] has already paid [slave] the sum of one dollar upon
the signing of the original Pre-Marital Agreement on [date]
and that this consideration applies to this
Agreement as well. [slave] wishes to state that further
non-monetary consideration has been very generously given
to him by [Owner] through his continuing opportunity to
have had the privilege to live his life within the terms of
what he considers to be an ideal marital relationship under
[Owner]‘s very capable direction. [Owner] and [slave] fully
understand the nature of this Agreement, into which they
both have voluntarily and of their own free will entered,
without any form of undue duress, force, compulsion,
intimidation, pressure, persuasion or coercion from the
other party. [Owner] and [slave] feel that this
consideration is entirely fair and equitable to both

Enforcement: This Agreement shall be enforced with the
laws of the State of [state]. Both [Owner] and [slave]
acknowledge that they have had an opportunity to seek the
advice of legal counsel and that they are entering into
this Agreement voluntarily and of their own free will. This
Agreement was drafted by [slave], with the consent and
consultation of [Owner]. Neither party shall be entitled to
claim the benefit of ambiguity resulting from its drafting.
[slave] has specifically waived any and all of his rights
against [Owner] to invalidate this Agreement due to claims
of spouse abuse, enslavement (or for any such related
reason) and shall never attempt to bring legal action of
any kind against Her regarding such claims.

Default: If either party defaults in the performance of
any terms, provisions or obligations herein set forth, and
it becomes necessary to institute legal proceedings to
effectuate the performance of any provisions of this
agreement, then [slave] shall pay all expenses, including
attorney fees, incurred in connection with such enforcement
proceedings. [slave] shall continue to be obligated to the
terms of this Agreement during the time that any such legal
proceeding takes place until he is relieved from this
obligation by a court of law.

Termination of Agreement: This Agreement shall remain in
effect until it is revoked, rescinded, canceled or
terminated by [Owner] or until [slave] dies. Should [Owner]
exercise Her option to transfer Her rights under this
agreement to another person, [slave] shall be obligated to
the person designated by [Owner] until the designee
revokes, rescinds, cancels or terminates this Agreement or
until [slave] dies. [slave] has no rights whatsoever to
revoke, rescind, cancel or terminate this Agreement under
any circumstances.

Changes or Modifications: This Agreement may be changed or
modified only by [Owner], at Her discretion. Should [Owner]
exercise Her option to transfer Her rights under this
Agreement to another person, only the person designated by
[Owner] may change or modify this Agreement. [slave] has no
rights whatsoever to change or modify this Agreement under
any circumstances.

Understanding of Agreement: Each party fully understands
the terms of this Agreement and the terms represent and
constitute the entire understanding between them. Any
portion of this Agreement found to be legally invalid or
unenforceable shall not affect the remainder of this
Agreement. Each party has read this Agreement and finds it
to be in accordance with Her and his understanding and each
voluntarily affixes Her or his signature in the presence of
the witnesses indicated below.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this

Signed this ______ day of ____________________, 20____.


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Originally posted 2012-09-29 08:48:13.