Favorite BDSM toy or gear is a common question on forums. You may have several highly valued toys without having a most favored one.
Often what is most treasured is the experience of startled bliss, the moments of startled bliss.
The first time I saw a posture bar/collar combination I knew I wanted to be bound by one. Much later having acquired both the device and someone who enjoyed seeing me helpless I found myself on my knees locked in one. My wrists were cuffed to a metal pole that ran up my spine to a band locked around my neck. Instantly I plunged down into the slave trance that is for me pure erotic bliss.
The Wartenberg pinwheel’s way of sending “Yes! More!” simultaneously with “No! Stop!” was another stunning experience.
For someone else it might have been the shock of what a simple wooden spoon can do. Or their first (good) vibrator.
What are your most beloved memories of bondage gear, kinky devices?
Originally posted 2014-04-20 02:45:43.