A submissive man must learn to accept his Domme’s just punishment with grace. He has promised to obey and submit to her will. Her desires, even mere whims are now law.
Submissive men need pain to break their old habits. It is ungracious to whine or complain when disciplined. He must acquiesce and prepare himself for harsh lashes or harsh words. Bow his head to show acceptance.
When his punishment concludes a submissive men should do her homage, apologize and thank her for using her time to correct his flaws.
This outward show will become internalized. This will make the male’s submission more complete. His need for chastisement will abate. He will focus more clearly on being a good servant.