I’ve been woefully negligent in using this site to address themes facing women. Possibly because in the distant galaxy I come from women are people.
Even if you aren’t sexist, heterosexual female dominance can be colored by gender qualities. If only so very faintly.
Does your desire to dominate men – even if just in the bedroom – affect your feelings about the gender of your employer? If their virtues and values are equal do you can whether your boss is a man or a woman?