Strap-on Dildo: the physical reversal of sex roles. Woman becoming the top, the aggressor. Man the penetrated inferior.
A few drawings by Laurent Lebeau of Dommes with the male slaves they’ve feminized. I’ve long been fond of his Femdom drawings. Admittedly some of his faces could be better but the his illustrations are convincing. His color scheme is individual. I hope he is prospering.
Laurent Lebeau has a Facebook page. (It hasn’t been updated since November.)
An extract from Charlotte’s response to a question on Men Who Accept Being Inferior Make the Best Husbands.
Fortunately the feminization of male clothing has progressed so far that tights and pantyhose for boys and men now are easily available and I insist that and husband in the winter season wear tights especially when he is outdoors. I do it because it is a sensible and practical way to make sure he does not get cold but I admit that it also plays a role that as a bonus effect wearing tights seems to make him feel more controlled and in a way restrained. It is only a theory I have but I suppose that what causes this bonus effect is that tights are tight and make a male feel that his body and especially his private parts are restricted.
My husband’s wardrobe does not include many traditional male shirts; I prefer them to wear t-shirts sweatshirts and blouses. His nightwear includes pajamas, nightshirts and big t-shirts but mostly nightshirts. Also with nightwear I prefer buying him things that are cute, soft and at least not explicit masculine.
The way I dress my husband of course very much reflects the way I expect them to be; sweet, cute and meek and I am certain that this as one of many things helps modifying his behavior.
Read all that Charlote wrote.
Sissy: Why do I have to wear girls’ panties for a spanking?
Her: Because you are a sissy and sissies wear girls panties.
What more answer does a silly sissy need?
Panty Lines is available from Princess Productions.
Feminization (or Sissyfication): some men just wear a bit of female lingerie. At the other end men dress as “sissy maids” and perform all the household tasks while so dressed. This form of role reversal is thought to focus a man on submission. For men with suppressed gender and sexual orientation issues it is probably therapeutic.
You’ve met the Domme of your dreams. Your days with her are satisfying. Your nights drenched in sensual sadomasochistic thrills.
Then comes the evening when she tells you that you will dress up like a girl, go to a bar with her and let the world behold you as a female slut.
Are you thrilled? Or appalled?
Do you comply or demur?
If your refusal is met with the warning that not going out en femme means she’ll never see you again do you start shaving your legs or do you walk out?
Gender swap: she seems amused but he seems peeved.
I’ve often thought of what a challenge – a horrific shock really – it would be for someone who takes some of the female led relationship rhetoric too seriously to awake one morning and discover that he and his Mistress Wife had swapped genders or bodies and he had become she.
Some of the dominant woman I know would – after the startlement faded – become dominant men. But the submissive guys, their brains would probably be permanently fried.
Originally posted 2014-10-11 18:33:43.
Despite stringent regimens of sissification and feminization some sissy male retain illusions about their genitals. Even though the penis remains attached to his boy it is the property of the woman who owns the sissy.
While a metal or Lucite chastity device is the quotidian solution forcible reminders can be useful psychological reinforcement.
Give the sissy’s phallus a hard yank. Better yet pull on it and lead him about the room at a fast pace.
When sissy’s chastity belt is restored the memorable experience and residual discomfort will help him stay mindful of the reality of a feminized man’s life.
F/m Strap-on Sex as Humiliation
Sooner or later .. a submale in training must face the sacrifice .. or earn the glory .. depending on one’s perspective .. of being taken by Mistress. To put it, not indelicately, to be fucked like a whore .. by his Mistress.
You see .. he does not truly belong to me until this happens.
Is it fair? Of course .. why not?
I require him to send me in advance a new base mount dildo .. you see he selects the size. My only requirement is that it be at least as big as he is. Perhaps this isn’t too much. But whatever he has .. he has never hesitated to use it .. or dream of using it .. on any women dumb enough to allow him to! Therefore it is only right and just .. that he has the privilege of knowing the feeling and terror of rape … himself. Now who could argue with that logic?
So here is how it is done.
When I fuck a submale .. I put a leather cock ring harness on his cock (it has a D-ring at the tip) and snap a leash on him. Then I put on my strap-on and equip it with the new dildo which he has previously provided me with.
I bend him over and position him just right .. take the leash and run it between his legs and back behind me .. and then pull it up over my shoulder .. and cinch it tight. It locks him into place and holds him steady .. for mounting and fucking as long as I want.
There are some variations .. but it’s much like tightening the cinch on the horse’s saddle.
A hard cock doubled back is very compromising. So compromising, that I do not even need to otherwise restrain him. Although I do gag him with my panties .. just removed.
How long .. well at least through several orgasms for me. If he flinch .. hops .. or struggles .. well I just haul back on that leash even harder .. and RIDE him hard and long .. until he’s more than just worn out .. he’s used up .. whipped down.
Do I really whip him? Yes, and even more if he cums while he is being fucked .. or afterwards without permission.
Does he cry? Usually .. though his screams and sobbing are muffled through my panties-cum-gag. I like to see him cry though. Its good for a submale to be broken to tears .. because I never allow a sub to hide emotions .. any emotions .. from his Mistress. Lubrication? perhaps .. but did he ever lube the women first?
This is where I let him dwell on the mental terror of rape .. At the most .. I let him do sucking drills first .. and he is allowed to suck and wet the dildo .. as much has he can or wants, but only with his mouth and tongue.
His mouth? Yes .. he has made or dreamed of making a woman suck him .. has he not? Good that he realizes just how big that dildo is .. after all he picked it out .. didn’t he?
Is this a big event for him? Yes it is .. only the whippings required to break him and bond him .. and his later moment of being branded (if he ever earns the privilege) .. and one other event (which must be left untold for now) can match this occasion for sheer emotion .. humiliation .. and degradation.
And when it is over, he is bonded ever closer .. and he will beg for more … crawling .. walking may be difficult for a while 🙂 to me .. kissing my feet .. and figuratively clinging to my skirt ..
He IS mine.
Oh, I should add .. that he has been cleansed and purged by one or more warm soapy humiliating enemas in preparation for his taking by Mistress. Yes, I lube the dildo .. but out of his sight or knowledge.
You see, I want that feeling of the terror of rape to permeate his mind as I take his submissive virginity. Well, actually, maybe I do … but maybe I forget sometimes … in all the pleasure and power.
Originally posted 2014-09-01 07:10:52.
Frederique, French Sissyboy
A young man asked for advice about his sexuality and submissiveness. This was my response:
Originally posted 2014-08-31 06:54:29.