My advice is to use what Is called domestic discipline.
You do not need to be an expert.
Find your tool.
Use a flat wooden hair brush, back scrubber, spatula, etc…a nice big wooden spoon works well and also is very quiet if privacy is needed . use the smooth back side of the spoon. Any of these will work, but I recommend buying a spanking paddle.
They are all over the net. However for beginners the wooden brush or spoon is very effective.
Now that you have your tool . You need to put him over your knee it must be done this way to gain a powerful presence over him .
Even if your man is a big burly guy you can position him over your knee easily it may take a few try to figure this out .
The only other way it should be done is with him bent over a chair with his behind in the air slightly. You will then have a powerful position over him.
begin the spanking by swatting light but fast to the dead center of one of his cheeks .Then the other, alternate between the two cheeks . Keep the swats in the same spot every time and always on the meaty part of his bottom. increase the strength as you go on
Be very verbal during this.Let him know why you are spanking him. Let him know who is in charge in your home. Let him know why you are mad with him . Ask him if he understands? ask him if he is going to be good.
The spanking should end when you feel satisfied or he is crying . Or he is complying to what ever it is you were trying to achieve.
After this has ended you will feel a great relief as well and he will have a whole new outlook.
ALL men will love and respect you for this. Most men pay me to do this do them.
Originally posted 2014-12-31 03:14:53.