Charlotte writes about male orgasm denial and sexual manipulation to condition and control a male:
.. This mental emasculation is the result of long firm and consistent training that has taught him not only to feel inferior and to be ashamed of his sexuality but also to fear his sexuality as a dark, dangerous power that if unrestrained jeopardises his safety and his good living as a good little domesticated male and therefore he experiences the chastity device as humiliating to have to wear but also as a security device ensuring that his sexuality will not be able to take control of him. It is much like the aching welts on his buttocks and back thighs ensuring him of being safe and secure in my care and therefore despite the pain and shame providing him with a comfortable and reassuring feeling of belonging and being controlled.
I doubt that he still would want to abuse his sexuality by masturbating if he got the chance to do so; he is too aware of his inferiority and too ashamed of his sexuality to want it but he knows that the physical urge and temptation would probably be irresistible and this frightens him and makes him appreciate the chastity device that effectively restricts his sexuality and spares him from temptation. …
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